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Spanking Young Children

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About 60% of parents in the United States use spanking as a method to discipline their young children. In most cases parents believe that spanking is the only effective way to discipline their children. According to the “International Encyclopedia of Marriage and Family”, spanking is often referred as; “one or two flat-handed swats on a child's wrist or buttocks, but would not include a beating with a whip or a belt, for others, spanking also includes slaps and pinches to the leg, arm, back, or even the head, as long as no marks are left”. While some parents favor spanking children, others are against spanking children because they feel that teaching them and giving them consequences is the way method for a child to behave. I believe that …show more content…

With the increasing number of families that have two working parents in a family children would want to seek attention from parents at any rate they can. If parents spank them when they misbehave, misbehaving constantly can make them feel somehow connected with parents.
Sometimes spanking a child is necessary to bring attention to the child when they are constantly misbehaving. Some parents believe spanking is a great way to discipline a child because they would become more obedient. For instance, “many parents use corporal punishment as a last resort, some parents may reluctantly spank their children because they cannot think of what else to do to show the child the seriousness of his or her misbehavior” (encyclopedia, 2003) Parents use spanking a child as a way to make children act the way they are supposed to act. Many children go wild, since they have never received any real punishment from either parent other than just getting grounded for misbehaving. Sometimes parents lose control of their children due to the lack of disciplinary skills. When parents lack disciplinary skills the children tend to have control of all situations. For example, a child may be throwing food in the kitchen when they dislike the meal the parent prepares. The parents do not use any act of physical punishment towards the children but rather ground them when they misbehave. The

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