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Reflective Essay On Communication

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Communication isn’t just about talking. There are so many different elements to communicating in society. How a person gestures, the tone in an individual’s voice, an expression on a person’s face, how a person listens is all a part of communicating. As we all know, in order to communicate with one another we must be able to listen. I think in society people think that communication is all about speaking but in reality it is just a little piece to a bigger picture. In today’s society, listening seems to be a skill that is being neglected. Even though it is basically the first communication skill that we are exposed to, we have pushed it aside and chose speaking to dominate our lives. Researchers have discovered that fetuses can process incoming sounds during the last trimester of pregnancy, and that by 12 months children have learned sounds of and rules of their native language(Worthington, 3). This shows that children’s abilities to speak, read, write and reason are influenced highly by how well they are taught to listen. As parents we can all be teachers to our children so that they can grow up to be well-rounded communicators. While I was searching for a communication book, I came across the book Listening-Processes, Functions, and Competency written by Debra L. Worthington and Margaret E. Fitch-Hauser. The authors are both professors of communication at Auburn University. Worthington published many journals that focused on psychosocial factors, as where, Fitch-Hauser authored a book and a variety of book chapters and academic papers. Her focus was on listening fidelity, schemata information distortion in recall. What caught my eye about this book was it was tailored for college students. I always thought of communication as talking and really wanted to understand the listening part. As I skimmed through the book I came to chapter 6 which talked about Listening and Relationship building in families. I consider my family situation to be a little difficult at times because I have a son and girlfriend and we live with my parents. This extended family can be difficult at times so I chose to focus on this chapter because of that reason. Chapter 6 also discusses the importance of

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