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Uncertainty Reduction Theory Essay

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The Uncertainty Reduction Theory states that before and during initial interactions between two people, one's first instinct is to reduce uncertainty about the other through various methods. For example, when you see someone you think you would like to know, you try and figure out what they are like through various methods so you can control the conversation and steer it into a path that the other person finds interesting. There are a few methods, or strategies, of figuring out what the other person likes: passive, active, and interactive. In the passive strategy, you try to find out the other person's interests through observation from afar. This happens without their knowledge, because you're trying to figure out what they're like …show more content…

This happens most frequently in what is commonly referred to as “small talk.” Since I am a rather shy person, I don't generally use the active nor the interactive strategy of reducing uncertainty. However, because I do spend most of my time online, the easiest way of finding out more information about someone is through passive strategy. While most people do think it's a little creepy to search for someone specifically, even more would agree that it would be creepy to start a conversation with friends of a person you're searching about online. In real-life encounters, I still generally use the passive strategy of observing people, mainly because my social skills are less-than-adequate. From my non-experience, I can infer that each of the interpersonal encounters have their benefits and drawbacks. The passive strategy does get you information about the person you're looking for, but if it comes up how you got the information you know, it could severely impact the potential relationship you could have with that person. The active strategy gives you information by proxy, and also has the added bonus of getting to know the kind of people your person socializes with, as well. Unfortunately, as previously stated, faulty information is easy to get with this method, and it's possible the people you talk with will tell the person you want to know, causing them to avoid you. And finally, the interactive strategy gives

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