In Joyce Carol Oates short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” writes about a young fifteen-year-old girl named Connie. Connie often lives in the shadow of her older sister June due to her mother’s disapproval of Connie’s main focus. One night while she is out with a friend, they ran across the freeway to a restaurant where older high school teens would hang out. She met a boy named Eddie and they go out for a ride in his car. While at a stop light she can’t help but notice a strange man in a gold convertible. She ignores this man’s advances and continues on with her night. A few days late while her family is at a barbecue, the strange man, Arnold Friend, ends up showing up at her house and tries to talk her into running away …show more content…
Connie is in multiple areas, a crowded “shopping plaza”, a “drive-in restaurant where older kids [hang] out”, and even in her house. In the beginning of the story, Connie is at her house, a place where she doesn’t have the freedom to be who she is and to do what she wants. In the middle, she is in a public area at first the mall where she feels uncomfortable due to the thought of people staring at her and then she is at the restaurant where she can be herself comfortably. Lastly, she is back at her house, except this time she is in a position of whether she should stay or go. The cultural setting seems to be placed in the late 50’s/early 60’s in America where men wore slicked back hair and listened to rock and roll. In this time, everything was usually laid back and people minded their own business, except in cases like Connie where she is stalked and threatened. The setting is general; it doesn’t specifically give a location or date in which these events are occurring. Depending on the setting is how much independence Connie has from her mother. Connie has more freedom to do what she wishes when she is anywhere but her house, where her mother has control of what Connie does. An example from the story in which Connie uses her independence away from home is how she dresses “one way when she was at home and another way when she was away from home.”, in this case, Connie was wearing a “pullover jersey blouse”
A door to the beginning of her outcome is all that divides Connie in, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” from Arnold Friend, the devilish predator. Symbolism takes a big part in this story that gives a deeper meaning to Connie’s choices that ultimately extent to giving herself to Arnold. The author, Joyce Carol Oates in the short story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” represents Arnold Friend as the real world by being challenging and malicious, and Connie as the innocent world by being defenseless and naive.
Oates’ Short Story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” describes the abduction of a young girl referred to as Connie and entails the assumed rape of said girl. This writing only seemed to cause confusion for me. Why had she not put up more of a fight? How did he manage to not only tell her his intentions, but convince her to come by her own power, not necessarily of her own will?
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates is a story of nightmares and vanity and how a child becomes an adult in a harsh world. Connie is asleep. Arnold isn’t real. The situation is not real. After her parents left and after she washed her hair she is sitting on a lawn chair in the sun.
In the story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been” Connie, the main character, is already struggling with many things in life and sneaks her way to date guys. There was also conflicting between her and her mother due to her mother favoring her sister, June and describing her as someone who is a good example of what she wants Connie to be. Her father is never at home due to work and when he is home, the girls do not relate to him. Arnold Friend is described as a dangerous figure with his pale complexion and his slick black hair looking like trouble by not presenting himself in a pleasing way to Connie, by not walking properly. This was an indication on how he was not in the right state of mind and how Arnold shouldn’t be near Connie. There was one scene in the story where Arnold Friend shows up, uninvited, notifying Connie that he is not a friend, but has come to take her away from her home to possibly kidnap her. "Connie felt a wave of dizziness, rise in her at this sight and she stared at him as if waiting for something to change the shock of the moment, make it alright again”. Connie feels safe in the house and does not come out until Arnold convinces and demands her that she come out. Things took an unpleasant twist when Arnold tells Connie not use the phone or he will break his promise of not coming in the house
Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? By Joyce Carol Oates is about a young woman by the name of Connie. Connie is a beautiful teenager who is concerned with her appearance. She behaves one with her family and another in the public eye. The Telltale Heart by Edgar Allan Poe is about a narrator who succumbs to his madden desire to murder his friend, an elderly man because of his pale blue eye. The narrator murders the old man with uncontrollable rage, dismembers the body and hides in the floorboards. After police arrive due to a scream that a neighbor heard the narrator is driven to madness when he supposedly hears the heartbeat of the old man. Driven to madness, he confesses to the police that he murdered the old man. The Diamond As Big
Heroes are people that risk their own life to save others or themselves from an attacker. Connie in the short story, “Where are You Going, Where Have You Been?’, has a family and one day she was home alone and a guy named Arnold shows up and starts talking to her about her family and she becomes freaked out and scared by it. Arnold’s friends show up and won’t leave her sight until she leaves with him at the end. Connie calmly said to Arnold’s friends “No, I have better things to do (Oats 7) so nothing would turn out worse than it already was. Connie noticed that something was up with Arnold’s friends showing up at her house because they knew what her parents were doing and also knew where they were at as well.
In the short story “Where Are You Going? Where Have You Been?” both characters, Connie and Arnold, suffer from having dual identities. Connie is an individual who acts completely different outside her home, where she tries to portray an image of being sexually appealing. However, she is the complete opposite within her home, where she hides her sexuality and acts more like the adolescent she really is. Arnold is a mature man, something Connie is looking for in life and this intrigues her. Both characters have trouble with their dual identities, Connie’s leads her to being vulnerable to growing mature in an unpleasant manner by the force of Arnold, while Arnold’s unknown character proves to not be genuine, as Connie brings out his violent nature in her quest to be an independent adult.
Moral and social beliefs were being challenged and the youth of America, while coming of age, were rebelling against their parent’s ideals and creating their own culture. The birth of a social movement was upon the world and issues such as sexual freedom, feminism and other civil rights were hot topics during the years prior to Oates writing this story. It is these social changes and society’s interest in them that creates the foundation for the setting that breathes life into this story. Without this foundation, the coming-of-age story of Connie, not to mention American society, and her journey from the innocence of the 1950s into the bitter reality of the turbulent times of the 1960s would have been lost.
In the short story , “Where are you going, Where have you been?” by Joyce Carol Oates, Connie ends up in a not so fortunate fall due to a great amount of reasons. Throughout the short story, you notice that the main character, Connie, learned the knowledge of good and evil but was forced to experience evil. Connie was young, naive and wasn't exposed to the evil in the world yet. One night when Connie encounters a man by the name of, Arnold Friend, she gets a sense of fear from the beginning to end. From the moment she spoke to Arnold, she realized the sense of devil within him. She couldn’t escape the evil upon her because she couldn’t get a glimpse of good around her. In the story, “Paradise Lost” by John Milton, Eve got the choice of whether
At the beginning of the story, readers will notice the roles her parents fall into. Her dad is absent from her life and her mom prefers Connie’s college-aged sister June. Her mom picks at her, making statements like, “‘Stop gawking at yourself. Who are you? You think you’re so pretty?’
Where there is desire, there is hope, despair, and struggle. Joyce Carol Oates illustrates animatedly the asphyxiated struggle of desire in her short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” The story narrates the life of a young girl, named Connie, and her fated and enigmatic confrontation with a strange man. Feeling trapped in her own home with her own family, Connie, a self-conscious and rebellious teenager, tries to figure out a way to identify herself with the world around her. Her desire of escaping the reality fuels her struggle to enter adulthood. Through the physical form of Arnold Friend, who embodies both the hope and the despair in Connie’s struggle, the author metaphorically portrays a vigorous and psychological pressure that Connie has to endure. The story is scripted to allude to the danger of identifying oneself through sexuality in young girls. To better understanding this cryptic story, it is important to follow the psychological processes and conflict of Connie’s character, which help unveil the allegorical meaning of a young girl’s rite of passage through sex.
In the short fiction Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? tells a story about a young 15-year-old girl named, Connie. Connie spends her time meeting boys, lounging around the house and going out with her friends. One night an unusual man makes a threatening gesture to her in the parking lot of a local drive-in restaurant. Until, one day the unusual man pulls up in her driveway in a gold colored car. The man introduces himself as Arnold Friend and asks Connie to join him for a ride. During their conversation, Connie is aware that Arnold is dangerous; his language becomes more sexual and violent, and he warns her that he will hurt her family if she calls the police. In the end, she leaves the house and joins Arnold. Connie is stuck between the lines of her sexual daydreams and reality up until she is entangled among by Arnold Friend and his infatuating music playing in his car. Everything about her had two aspects to it, one when she was at home and one for anywhere but home.
There are things that happen when we are growing up that change us when we are grown. There are things that change us forever. Every human being is different, and there is a reason why . All of us had a childhood and all kinds of experiences some good, some bad, some full of joy but also others very painful. Eventually we grow childhood and mature depending of what we have gone through. The way we are able to handle situations is very important because one thing leads to another. We can't rely on intuition, we need to have logic in what our choices are. We can’t just punch someone in the face just because we don’t like a certain individual, or go up to
The short story written by ,Joyce Carol Oates called “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” takes place in the 50’s (possibly earlier/later) in a remote area where a young fifteen year old girl named connie learns she’s not as grown up as she thinks and needs the protection of her family when their safety is threatened.Connie is a wild teenager dressing the part,taking a liking to boys, and disobeying her parents.Her parents try to keep Connie tame using her older sister June as an example of what Connie should be.She has regular conflict with her mother constantly fighting because of her appearance and actions like lying about where she goes, and again her interest in boys trying to protect Connie from getting into trouble at a young age.Connie and her friends regularly go to the “mall” where they sneak across the street to a drive-in restaurant full of kids out of high-school over eighteen.Connie gets more than she bargains for when a man called Arnold Friend notices her and takes
The characterizations of Connie’s family members have great effects on Connie. And Connie’s mother’s characterization is the main motivator for Connie’s rebellion. She always compares Connie with June, who is the “ideal daughter” in her eyes, and blames Connie for some little things, such as improper dressing and not having a tidy room. Oates suggests that the reason for Connie’s mother prohibiting Connie to dress up like an adult is that “ Her mother had been pretty once too” (Oates 1), but now “her looks were gone and that was why she always after Connie” (Oates 1). Therefore, she is jealous about Connie’s beauty and feels uncomfortable when seeing Connie wear beautiful outfits. Meanwhile, she likes June so much because June is obedient and plain, which makes her feel that she is dominant in the relationship. In the short story, Connie’s father is not given much description by the author, but