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Spanking Persuasive Essay

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Even after years of research, the issue of whether spanking is an adequate discipline strategy or damaging to children remains a controversial topic. According to Kazdin and Benjet (2003) the definition of spanking is “. . . hitting a child with an open hand on the buttocks or extremities with the intent to discipline without leaving a bruise or causing physical harm (p. 100). In addition, according to Maguire-Jack, Gromoske and Berger (2012) only a few studies propose that spanking is an effective form of discipline. On the other hand, there is more evidence to show that spanking is an unsuccessful form of discipline that can led to unwanted consequences (p. 1960). I personally do not take a stance in this topic because I can see valid points from both parties. Although, I believe that the way the punishment is presented to the child is extremely important. For example, I feel that the child should know why he or she is punished and what is expected of them thereafter.
My parents have different views on spanking. My father has never believed in spanking; therefore, I was never spanked by him. My mother on the other hand did believe in spanking. My mother is not the type of person to hit me over small meaningless things, but whenever she did hit me, she had a good reason to do so. For example, I remember being hit once because I made a man spill hot food on himself. My mother and I were at a part and I was 7 years old at the time. I …show more content…

The oldest boy is 8, the second oldest is 7 and the girl is 5. The two boys are always playing around and whenever they mother tells them to stop they will stop for a little while and continue to perform the previous behavior. My sister spanks my nephews on a regular basis and she also explained to them why she does it. The problem is that the children never obey and if they do it is only for a little while. The only time they actually listen is when my sister takes away their

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