Inferiority Complex In The Ugly Duckling

“You are your only border - throw yourself over it!” - Hafis ,persian poet. If you only get one shot at being a person, why not be you? Being yourself is better than being anyone else, always be you!

Personally, I feel like that at times I may be crushed by the metaphorical weight of other’s views on me. I am expected to be smart, and to become an amazing actress and author. I am expected to live up to these standards that sometimes I cannot

People aren't happy with who they are because they are afraid society will reject them because that is what they do now, if you are different to those who try to be like the others you will be destined to be the weird person people know or that isolated person that tries to be different to be cool or gain popularity. Society now a days forces you to be all the same:

There are many things in life which are beyond our control. People tend to think our personal thoughts are things we cant control but they are wrong. I think this is what Eleanor Roosevelt meant to get through when she said “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent” I definatley agree with this quote because if someone tries to make you feel inferior , they are only successful if you actually allow yourself to be made inferior. Through my own experience I know this quote to be true. Facing Bullies, helping my friend turn there around and being judged by others.These experiences have helped me personally realize how much control everyone has over themselves.

The reason why I am different is because of the comfort level I have established with certain people, the more comfortable I am the more I can be myself. If I am just getting to know someone I project some parts of who I am and once I begin to form a bond, I get comfortable to be who I really am. For example, once on the bus a guy sat next to me, he tapped my shoulder and started talking to me. After I laughed about what we were talking about; he confessed that he thought that I was just going to answer his questions with a simple yes or no based on my body was positioned. I didn’t open up to him, but I felt liked I could talk to him.

you need to find yourself and discover who you are in order to live a happy and fulfilling life.

You are now able to choose those with whom you associate, and you can certainly control your self-talk. Therefore, you can take an active part in changing the distorted view you have of yourself by making a consistent effort to do the following:  Accept yourself. Stop striving for perfection or to be like someone else. Realize that the Lord made you for a purpose, and He designed your personality and gave you the gifts and abilities He wanted you to have in order to accomplish His purpose for you. “Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails.”

I learned that I had created my own feeling of inferiority by putting so much focus on someone else’s best quality. I was too busy trying to be better than them when I just needed to be my own best. As long as I focus on being the best for myself I could eliminate so much of the silly mental worries. Sometimes I still do this to this day but perhaps one day I will realize that I no longer need to compare myself to other people. In the meantime, I’m learning to accept that this is something I do and finding ways to use is as a force for positive

There you are. Just standing there, looking back at your reflection through the mirror and seeing all of the negative words permanently sticking to you. Not very many people truly love who they are, and that is because of the society we live in today. No one likes to be judged all of the time for who they are or what they do. So, we end up doing anything to fit in, no matter what. Your identity is who you are and your actions, and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it, but some people are. Those people are the ones that have figured out that they won’t fit in unless they manage to change something, and unfortunately they choose to change their identity, because of stereotypes, prejudice, and self doubt.

The more you like yourself, the less you are like anyone else, which makes you unique”- Walt Disney. By looking at the book three cheers for Tacky, one can see that there needs to be more Tackys in the world. Which is important because not everyone needs to be perfect and the same, society needs to be more like Fruit loops and less like cheerios. Many people like Hitler have argued for everyone to be the same, other people like Martin Luther King Jr. would agree that we should love people for who they are and how they are. People try to be the same as other people they can’t because everyone one is made different for a reason.

You cannot please everyone and you will never please everyone. So get on your feet, do your own thing, see yourself succeed just like how you dream to be and stop minding others unnecessary indiscriminate destructive blabbers. After all, it is how you believe in yourself that defines you and not others own definition of

In other words, stop seeing yourself as special or different, but also don 't see yourself as any less than anyone else.

According to Adler, the feeling of inferiority is an inseparable part of human existence. And in order to overcome that feeling one must compensate. In other words, be willing to

In the modes of literature there are four mode lines to follow off of. One of the mode lines are romance, which is most commonly used beside comedy. In the beginning of the story there is a mild conflict, and in this case the ugly duckling is driven away and excluded from society because he looks differently and he acts different from everyone else. He tries to find his place everywhere around the land but he can’t find anywhere, where he is accepted. The final point on the mode line of

Does lower self esteem force people to choose the path of isolation or can a different path be chosen instead? The answers to these questions can be found while studying Erik’s case of isolation and inferiority, and analysing the complexities of his personality in depth. Erik, a meteorology student and introvert in nature, has let his low self confidence force him to choose the path of isolation. What really motivates him to do so is something that makes me quite curious. As we see, Erik considers himself as the social misfit. He believes that he can be something in life only for his research skills. But conflicting to this belief is his assumption that he cannot do anything in life due to his looks and ethnicity. This is why he is boycotted from the opportunity that he deserves – being the assistant of his department. Such experiences reduce his confidence and eventually make him harsh. When anyone tries to start a conversation with him, he simply says that he is not the one anyone will want to talk to. It shows that he does not think himself to be a part of the society he lives in; he believes that others are superior to him.