There you are. Just standing there, looking back at your reflection through the mirror and seeing all of the negative words permanently sticking to you. Not very many people truly love who they are, and that is because of the society we live in today. No one likes to be judged all of the time for who they are or what they do. So, we end up doing anything to fit in, no matter what. Your identity is who you are and your actions, and you shouldn’t be ashamed of it, but some people are. Those people are the ones that have figured out that they won’t fit in unless they manage to change something, and unfortunately they choose to change their identity, because of stereotypes, prejudice, and self doubt. One reason people want their identity to change, is because of prejudice. When someone is prejudice towards you, they have an opinion about you that isn’t based on reason or experience, but it seems like it never goes away. So, in order for you to be liked, or feel like you fit in, you feel like you are forced to be what the opposite of their opinion about you. I personally have been in that situation with my dancing. I dance with all high schoolers, so I am basically the baby of the team, but I don’t necessarily feel that way. Some people have told me I wasn’t good enough though, or at least made it seem like it, and it really messed with my mind on how I perceived myself. That’s when I started wanting to be different, so I could be liked, or at least fit in with everyone else
People think of me as a girl that stay to herself but I am a black african american and my cultural identity is dancing i love to dance dancing is my life i could dance all day and night my mom said i been dancing since i was just 3 years old i dance kinda good i don’t dance that good to be a dance star but i’m going keep trying and trying and one day i’m make it there, i like to dress in a hip-hop kind of way because it’s just the way i am i dress in a way to explain me or i dress in the way my mood is , I love to eat gumbo , gumbo is the food that bring my family together , like it could be a hot sunny day and my mom cook gumbo then my mom would call them tell and they would pull up 20 mins later we a family that like to eat gumbo my family is loud they louder then 1000 people in a mall they very loud
Trying to belong sometimes affects people in a way that isn’t healthy for them or the people around them, changing to be something you're not is sometimes extremely tough and it hurts
Many people want to be just like the others. They want to fit in and therefore act the way others act. This is the type of shit people need to get out of there head. Everyone is different and it is what makes everyone their own unique selves. If
If they don’t try to fit in or look like everyone else, they will be judged because they are different and society fears people who are unique. The reason that the public fears people who are different is because everyone fears the unknown since they believe that the person is
this is a rhetorical question. I struggle, and I know of manh who struggle, and it has taken me a grand part of my highschool career (moping around wondering why I wasn't invited) to figure out and accept the fact that I'm a little quirky and talkative and that I'll NEVER fit in entirely (the way I feel my mom wanted me to) but also that its okay not to fit in, the term "fit in" is self explanatory in a sense that it requires you to be a certain way to "fit" youself in, and I also realized I dont want to fit in, I want to connect. We were never meant to be this way. i solemnly refuse to be like the others (cliche I know) I dont want to have to worry "what if they say I'm not like the others (The Pretender by Foo Fighters)".
This is exactly what society do to people, it makes them feel worthless and unwanted of themselves. In my opinion, there is nothing better than been themselves everywhere people go because that’s what makes them unique and different from the rest.
24 million beer guts? 24 million shrimp on the barbie? Or 24 million who make up the most culturally diverse nation in the world? I don’t know about you, but I struggle to stereotype 24 million of the most different people on the planet. Good morning… etc. In contemporary society, the ability to identify an Australian is a challenge. The ABC states that national identities are “as varied as our imagination” and, “In Australia, the religious, cultural and ethnic complexity of our society is particularly diverse, making it extremely difficult to identify an Australian”. What would you look for if you were asked to identify an Australian? Tanned skin? Beer gut? Freckles? Wrong wrong wrong! You can’t identify an Australian based on a stereotypical image! According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, “75% of Australia’s population originates from overseas, or has a parent from overseas” (ABOE, 2016), making it impossible to identify what an Australian looks like. We Aussies share more than a hatred for cane toads and bits of butter in the vegemite. We share moral values and beliefs unique to our great nation. Belief in a fair go, never give up mindset, and courage. A character from the movie Australia, absolutely epitomizes the Australian identity. The man. The myth. The legend. The Drover.
The concept of Identity is complex through the exploration of relationships and a sense of belonging. This is explored within Tim Winton’s short stories, ‘ Neighbours’ and ‘Big World’, and in Robert Walker’s poem ‘Okay, Let’s be Honest’. Identity can change and evolve depending on belief, change, language and shifting influences.
People like knowing who they are so that when people ask they can say with assertion what they do and what they believe in. Although some people may figure this out at a young age, most relentlessly search these things that define who they are. Not having an understanding of what makes you as a person leads to feeling impermanent and invalidated. All people want is for someone to come up to them and ask “So, what do you do? What makes you special?”, and for them to be able to answer with confidence, impressing the question asker. Although this constant search for answers often ends in finding out that there is none, it is something that every person partakes in. As someone who often feels validated by other’s opinions of me, often it is hard for me to figure out if I truly want something for myself or for the glory that it will bring. When I was in 9th grade, I ran for class rep in student government and losing the election taught me a large lesson. Ever since elementary school, student government had always been a large part of my life. From fourth grade onwards and was just something that I did. But when I got to high school and I saw the elections for freshman government I immediately rejected the idea of running. The high school scared me, and the thought of running for a position of power in the scary high school scared me. As the year went by and sophomore
Being an athletes is one of the best-paid jobs on Earth. Being that they are paid so much the cost for the consumer is very high. The prices of tickets and sports memorabilia have been steadily rising over the years. The average ticket prices for the NHL, MLB, NBA and NFL all rose 5% to 10% this year, according to Jon Greenberg, executive editor of Team Marketing Report. (Mihoces).
Over the course of the semester I have crossed many boundaries that I never would have thought of. Whether that be domestically or culturally over the course of the year and with that it has changed my identity. This semester I found who I am more than anything and gave me an approach to how to live within a community that at first I do not know. With this being said I speak most likely for many that college started out scary as we knew no one and had never been away from home this long. I know personally I found my new identity that I never knew that I had because I crossed boundaries. As time goes on identity evolves when you cross domestic and international boundaries.
The cost of college tuition is continually on the rise and has placed many burdens on high school students as well as their families. Some of the burdens that are placed are a result of parents putting pressure on their children to earn scholarships. Some of the burden is a result of students putting pressure on themselves to earn scholarships. Then, there is the burden of high college debt once the student graduates. Is this pressure really helping our students or is it hurting them? The bottom line is college tuition is skyrocketing out of control and something must be done before it destroys our families and our children.
Why spend money that is really needed for other things? Why live uncomfortably? Why be trapped in this hole called a home that belongs to another person? Why not live free and peacefully? When a person rents he or she usually throws away money that could be used to purchase something that belongs to them. Money is not easy to come by so why pay out hundreds toward something that is not benefit to the person paying it out. There is no good explanation for making a decision like this. The best option in a situation like this is to buy a house. Buying a house is a better option than renting an apartment.
“Your assignment is to write a persuasive essay and present it to the class in a week. You will be graded based on how convincing it is. Today we will be choosing topics,” announced Mr. Bowerbank, my 7th grade English teacher and ruler of classroom 110. My class simultaneously groaned at the prospect of work. I simply lifted my head with intrigue as it was already May and about time we had our first essay. He then proceeded to give examples of topics we could choose and gave us some time to think before we had to tell him our topic. My classmates were already rushing to tell the teacher their idea lest someone else steal it. That meant the usual abortion, death penalty, or drug use topics were out. I really couldn't think of anything and the teacher was slowly making his way through the remaining students like an executioner beheading criminals in a line. I have always thought that he would make a marvelous supervillain if he had a curly mustache, a tophat, and a cape. Eventually my name was called. I slowly dragged myself over to his desk. Even sitting down, he still seemed to tower over me. “What is your topic Cindy?” As usual in such desperate times, my mind turned to food. “Waffles are better than pancakes.” I figured that a waffle was just a differently shaped pancake with a nicer texture. “Hmm. Excellent topic. I look forward to your essay!” I survived to live yet another day.
Identity politics is defined as ‘a tendency for people of a particular religion, race, social background, etc., to form exclusive political alliances, moving away from traditional broad-based party politics.’ In simpler terms, identity politics promotes the idea of political issues to be solved from a point of interest based on a personal factor rather than their initial political siding. This form of dealing with issues has particularly been active recently with the likes of Trump’s presidential win and the uprising of issues surrounding race, gender and sexuality. Although I have found it to be more commonly upheld in the United States, Australia is not foreign to this concept as multiple instances including the ‘Changing of Australia Day’ and the ‘Same-sex Marriage Debate’ has brought forward the interests of groups based on characteristic rather than political siding.