How did Rome create and maintain its vast Mediterranean empire?

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There are several legends about the establishment of Rome. As per one legend, Rome was named after Romulus who established the city in the 8th century BCE. Another legend claim that the city was named after a woman named Roma. Yet another legend claim that the name comes from Rumon, an ancient name for the Tiber River.