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In Reading, Massachusetts, one parent was beaten to death by another parent after a scuffle at a youth hockey game (Sachs). In Palin Beach, Florida, a father of a little league player was sentenced to three years in prison after taking a gun and pointing it at a coach (Gehring). In Port St. Lucie, Florida, a headline in the evening paper read, "Spectator Bites off Man's Ear at Youth Baseball Game" (Pallerino). Why would parents act in such negative ways? They are too competitive at youth athletic events.
During my five years refereeing youth sports, I have seen many examples of negative behavior. This past September, a parent, whom I have known for a few years, approached me after a basketball game her child's team …show more content…

I was even told by a parent that there is nothing I can do if I want to fix this problem, but I would like to try.
Let me share a few other personal experiences that motivate me. While I was refereeing a fifth-grade basketball tournament, a parent ran onto the floor after my officiating partner. While I was watching an eighth-grade girls' game, the opposing team lost by one point. Directly after the buzzer sounded, a whole section of parents left their seats and went onto the floor toward officials. I heard everything from, "I'll wait all night ‘til you get out of that room," to "Does anyone know what this guy is driving?" to "I'm gonna kill you."

Why are parents behaving this way? Professor Hypes believes that, "Parents are living their lives through their children. These parents may have not been successful during their childhood, and they believe that they must do everything in their ability to have their child succeed." I have no doubt that parents want the best for their children, but behaving this way does not show their children appropriate respect. How can we expect children to portray sensible behavior when they witness their parents doing worse? I often hear that we cannot allow children to use professional athletes as role models

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