Parental figures should have their child’s best interests in mind. However, parents should also consider their children’s thoughts and feelings. In the story Romeo and Juliet, the nurse tells Juliet to get married to Paris even though she knows about Romeo. Friar Lawrence abandons Juliet with the dead body of the lover of her life to save himself. In William Shakespeare’s play The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, the nurse and Friar Lawrence are ultimately responsible for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet because they are unable to comprehend the perspectives of the children and inability to put the children before themselves. Friar Lawrence and the nurse’s lack of perspective on Romeo and Juliet’s feelings ultimately leads to their demise. “This …show more content…
And Friar Lawrence just can’t understand where Romeo is coming from. “Wilt thou slay thyself? And slay thy lady that in thy life lives by doing damned hate upon thyself?”(3.3.116/118) Here Friar Lawrence doesn’t understand why Romeo wants to commit suicide. Friar Lawrence thinks that he is a petty excuse for a man. And that what he is cruelly doing is holy, uncalled for, and completely stupid. line of reasoning Link The adults fail to prioritize the well-being of Romeo and Juliet over their own desires. “I dare not stay longer”(5.3.159) Friar Lawrence is leaving Juliet to commit suicide and be with her dead husband because he doesn't want to be caught by the prince's guards. Because he knows he is responsible for what happened. line of reasoning “You're first is dead”(3.5.224) The nurse is trying to get Juliet to marry Paris even though she knows Juliet is still in love with Romeo. Instead of trying to find a way for the two lovers to live together, she immediately tries to marry her off again to a better family. Without considering Juliet's feelings. line of reasoning Link Some may argue that Benvolio and Tybalt are responsible for the death of Romeo and Juliet because they are Romeo and Juliet’s
In Romeo and Juliet, a story where two lovers are destined to be together, but their heritage prevents them, Friar Lawrence and The Nurse are similar to fathers and mothers, wise guardians, trusted companions to these two. Or are they reckless, hasty, and thoughtless? They have spent their lives with Romeo and Juliet, watching them grow and guiding them along their paths of life. But now they allow these “star-crossed lovers” to
Secondly, Friar Lawrence’s intentions are always for the benefit of others. He helps his fellow citizens when they are in despair, such as when Romeo arrives at the friar’s cell crying himself to death. The friar responds, “Thou shalt live, till we can find a time to blaze your marriage, reconcile your friends, beg pardon of the prince, and call thee back” (3, 3, 150-152). Here, Friar Lawrence acts as a mentor to Romeo, and uplifts his spirits by guiding him through the difficult times of banishment. Friar tells Romeo what he wants to hear because he understands Romeo’s boundless love for Juliet, and what may happen as the consequence of forbidden love. Moreover, Friar Lawrence has noble intentions that give himself no personal gain. When he agrees to marry Romeo and Juliet, he says, “In one respect I’ll thy assistant be, for this alliance may so happy prove to turn your households’ rancor to pure love” (2, 3, 90-92). Friar decides to marry the young lovers not only to help his friends, but because he believes it will end the long bitter feud of Verona. He only cares about the wellbeing of the city and the safety of the opposing families. Lastly, Friar Lawrence always assists his fellow citizens in their time of desperation. When
The first reason Friar Lawrence is responsible for Romeo and Juliet’s deaths is because of his selfishness. “Come on, young man, I’ll help you with your secret wedding. This marriage may be lucky enough to turn the hatred between your families into pure love”(III.II.8-12). Friar calls out Romeo
In addition, Friar Lawrence is also deemed responsible for the tragedy because he is incapable of comprehending the severity of the choices he would make which highlights his irresponsibility and naivety which played vital roles in the 2 lovers deaths. His reckless decision to marry Romeo and Juliet despite the hostility between their 2 families shows that he is irresponsible and reckless. Instead of following his own advice in Act 2 Scene 3 when he says, “wisely and slow, thy stumble that run fast” (2.3.94) The Friar rushes into action, recklessly agreeing to marry the 2 lovers naively hoping for peace between the 2 feuding families because of their union. “For this alliance may so happy prove/
Friar Lawrence listens and then contemplates helping Romeo and Juliet wed, but in his final decision the only outcome he sees is the one where the two families come together and stop feuding. Friar Lawrence was not in love, his judgment was not clouded unlike Romeo and Juliet because, “love can look for all the world like mental illness.(it) prompts out-of-character behavior”(Dupler 1). With that in mind, he was also the only adult involved in the issue. Friar Lawrence has no excuse for his poor decision-making. He needed to consider what bad outcomes could occur from the whole situation as well as the good, but he failed to do so.
Throughout the play, Friar Lawrence attempted to help Romeo and Juliet out of dire situations but due to outside factors and a lack of time, his actions ultimately contributed instead to their deaths. Friar Lawrence was under time pressure to take action and did not have time to think through his decisions. In some cases, he felt that doing something—even something hasty --was better than doing nothing. One example is when Juliet threatened to kill herself if he did not suggest a way out
Romeo and Juliet, the well-known tale by William Shakespeare, raises numerous conclusions on who is to blame for the events that led to the unfortunate end of the two star-crossed lovers. However, one character in particular sticks out as the one who drives the plot into challenging moments. Due to his callous demeanor, marriage-related judgements, and inadequate planning, Friar Lawrence is the main reason for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. Near the beginning, Lawrence permits Romeo to wed Juliet in an attempt to ease tensions within the families, but being oblivious to the consequences he ultimately sparks the tragedy. Lawrence berates Romeo's snap judgments on love, saying, “Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”
The Faults of Romeo and Juliet’s death Friar Lawrence is one character at fault for their deaths because he continued to make plans for Romeo and Juliet to be together. In the story when Juliet is being forced to marry Paris, Friar Lawrence devises a plan. To show, “Shall Romeo by my letters know our drift, And hither shall he come, and he and I Will watch thy waking, and that very night Shall Romeo bear thee hence to Mantua.
Friar Lawrence didn’t care about their love, he only cared about yielding power over the State. Furthermore, the most implicating ways he is responsible for their deaths is that he didn’t get permission from the parents nor Prince Escalus, and he left the teens alone to their impulsiveness. As Brenner says, “Friar Lawrence is a duplicitous and ambitious man whose benevolent manner masks the political objectives of his deeds.” (Brenner 69) The first reason Friar Lawrence is responsible for the deaths of the teens is because he did not seek consent from Prince Escalus, nor from Romeo and Juliet’s parents.
In the play “Romeo and Juliet” by William Shakespeare, Friar Lawrence is to blame for the events that transpire. From marrying an underage couple without their parents’ consent to lying about the “death” of a young girl, Friar Lawrence’s errors in judgment lead to nearly all of the major events in the play and the deaths of six people. Friar Lawrence’s first error in judgment, marrying Romeo and Juliet, was his largest and most far-reaching error in judgment and set the tragic events of the play into motion. When Romeo approached Friar Lawrence in Act 2 to ask permission to marry Juliet, Friar Lawrence voices his concerns and tells Romeo that young men often love not with their hearts “but [with] their eyes” (2.3.72).
Contrary to popular belief, Friar Lawrence in William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet should be considered responsible and accountable for the deaths of the main protagonists. Friar Lawrence first emerges as a wise, influential character of significance who plays a pivotal role in helping Romeo and Juliet navigate their forbidden love. However, through closer examination, it is apparent that his misguided involvement and schemes initiated a chain of tragic events. Despite his position as a trusted advisor to the young lovers, Friar Lawrence’s selfish, scheming, and irresponsible nature ultimately leads to their demise. In Romeo and Juliet, it is evident that beneath Friar Lawrence’s facade of righteousness lies a character whose actions are driven
Furthermore, when Romeo threatens to kill himself due to his banishment, Friar Lawrence placates him, saying “Thou shalt live till we can find a time / To blaze your marriage, reconcile your friends, / [and] Beg pardon of the prince” (3.3.16-162). Friar Lawrence does not teach Romeo that he cannot threaten to kill himself when he receives the consequences of his actions. The friar’s compliance reinforces Romeo’s whiny and fractious attitude. Friar Lawrence does not know when to draw the line when it comes to Romeo and creates a false dream for Romeo which can only be achieved through many risky decisions.
He says he can't be with Juliet. When children are trying to take their lives for each other, what are you to do? Even though he played a part, he wasn't to blame. He didn't know people would die. It was Romeo taking their lives because of his manhood and own
In the tale of Romeo and Juliet, the audience usually thinks that the main cause of their death was the hatred between the two families which tore their love apart. Such [2] love could triumph over hate, but every time the flower of love tried to bloom, a drop of poison shriveled it until it died by the actions of one man. Friar Lawrence was an incompetent buffoon whose impulsive and thoughtless actions were the greatest contributors to Romeo and Juliet's deaths. To some, this may sound like an outrageous claim. Friar Lawrence is always trying to help Romeo and Juliet.
Friar Lawrence plays a major role in Shakespeare's play, Romeo and Juliet. Through his lack of organization and judgment, Friar Laurence is highly responsible for the deaths of both Romeo and Juliet. He is a member of a group of wise priests that only want good in the world but, at the end of the play, you realize that Friar Lawrence makes many mistakes throughout the story. There are three major points that lead to the that's of both Romeo, Juliet, and even Mercutio. The first was the marriage of which Friar Laurence had questionable intentions, the second was the plan that Friar Lawrence thought of which was risky and could have been taken care of another way, and finally the last is the disorganization and miscommunication responsible