A book that changed my life was The Skin I’m In by Sharon G. Flake. The Skin I’m In is a fictional novel about a young African American girl named Maleeka Madison. Maleeka is a seventh grader and since she can remember, she has always been teased for her clothing, which is hand stitched by her mother, her bodytype of being tall and skinny, but she was mostly bullied because of her dark skin. Maleeka has always struggled with embracing her dark skin tone, but that was until a new teacher came along named Miss Saunders. Miss Saunders was an African American woman who had vitiligo. Through taunts and chatter, Maleeka could not believe that someone “had it worst” than her. Through many trials and tribulations, Miss Saunders was able to help Maleeka finally embrace …show more content…
I was in fifth grade when I first read The Skin I’m In and initially reading the book, I did not realize the importance of it. Of course, I felt bad for Maleeka because no one deserves to be bullied, especially for their skin color. It reminded me of my situation, I was teased because of having fuller lips and I could never understand why. I felt ashamed of my fuller lips. Also, I felt guilty because I knew that Maleeka’s fictional story was the reality for a lot African Americans, a lot at my elementary school. In elementary, it was common to make rude comments about a person’s darker complexion. This happened way too often. My older sister has a darker complexion and as she began to open up about her experiences with being bullied and the feelings of insecurity that it evoked with being dark skinned, it made me incredibly emotional and very confused. Confused because the people who criticized my sister the most were African Americans, just like those who bullied Maleeka. The Skin I’m In touches on the colorism issue within the African American community, an issue which is still prevalent
The fourth chapter of "Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?”is about the identity development in adolescence. It is said that when black children are growing up, they engage in many of the white culture’s beliefs and values as it is all around them. It is not until a little later where they begin to recognize the impact of racism. This can happen around the early stages of adulthood. It might even happen around the junior high age. Gender also comes into play around this time as well. A black girl wouldn't be acknowledged for her beauty in a white setting as she is not in the society's standard for beautiful. Since the black girls aren’t considered beautiful, they begin to feel devalued. The black youth are beginning
In the book, The Skin I’m In, by Sharon G. Flake Maleeka is an example of getting hurt in order to get treated well by others in return. In the past, Maleeka has gotten bullied by other students because of her skin color. As a result, Maleeka started hanging out with the popular girls because she didn’t want to keep getting bullied by all the other kids at school due to her skin color. “I went to Char and said if she would let me hang out with her, you know, kind of look out for me, I would do her homework and stuff.”
The reason I chose this book was because the title jumped up at me and my curiosity was aroused. I wanted to find out more about it. I was also drawn to the fact that the book was based on a true story. True stories interest me a lot and I instantly knew that I wanted to read this book. I also noticed that the book was a best seller and sold thousands of copies. As I read this book I’m glad that I choose it because it broadened my perspective on racism and the lengths that an individual is willing to go to in order to personally experience or understand a situation. This book has clearly
Reading the content in this book made me get a picture of what it was like to be a colored person in this time. My eyes were opened to the meaning of the word “nigga”. Nigga is such a derogatory term, yet now-a-days it is used by people so much. Kids in this generation use it as a term of endearment when they see their friends, or they say it when they are shocked by something. Frankly, I don’t believe they know how serious it really is. The fact that white people could look at a person and see less than a human being when they did nothing wrong distresses me. They (white people) treated them as if they were property and below them. Even though we don’t have racism to this extent
The author of the novel, James McBride, shows how being biracial affected him throughout his life. When James was younger his racial identity caused many situations that made him favor the black side and feel ashamed of his mother. An example of James’ racial encounter is when he says “I could see it in the faces of the white people who stared at me and Mommy and my siblings when we rode the subway, sometimes laughing at us, pointing, muttering things like, ‘look at her with those little niggers’” (31). This is important because it shows how it made him realize that people were being cruel to them because his mom was a different skin color than them. James then states “I thought it would be easier if we were just one color, black or white. I didn’t want to be white… I
I was sick at the fact that people could really and truly hate another human being just because they were born into a skin color that they could not choose. It showed me the ignorance of people and that if your different then you will be judged. What really shocked me though would have to be the fact that just days before a man turned himself black he walked the streets as a white man that could do as he pleased, but the second he turned black he was a curse placed on the earth and was lesser then even an animal. People look at the way a person acts and how they appear and immediately make a decision about them before they even think about talking to them. This book was wrote quite a few years back and things have really changed between the black and white citizens, but what hasn’t changed is the fact that people are still extremely prejudice.In todays society, if one is not what society views they should be then they are put down and ridiculed for it. I just can not get over the fact the as people we feel like we have the right to ridicule, hate, and assault another human being who has the same color blood as we, has the same body as us, the same thoughts, the same needs, and the same lives and feel absolutely no remorse about
Donald Glover once said “We put stereotypes on ourselves”. Everybody does that. But I think it’s just a little harder for black kids to just be who they are” Donald Glover hoped that people saw it’s hard for black people to live in this world and how we struggle, much like Harper Lee does in her 1960 novel To Kill a Mockingbird. All through the novel, Harper Lee brings in the story of Tom Robinson, a black man who was wrongfully accused of sexually assaulting a woman just because of the pigment of his skin. To start, family always teaches you life lessons.
The early 1900s was a very challenging time for Negroes especially young women who developed issues in regards to their identities. Their concerns stemmed from their skin colors. Either they were fair skinned due mixed heritage or just dark skinned. Young African American women experienced issues with racial identity which caused them to be in a constant struggle that prohibits them from loving themselves and the skin they are in. The purpose of this paper is to examine those issues in the context of selected creative literature. I will be discussing the various aspects of them and to aid in my analysis, I will be utilizing the works of Nella Larsen from The Norton Anthology of African American Literature, Jessie Bennett Redmond Fauset,
Even though she has not always been comfortable in her own skin, she has found a way to get there. She has found a way to apologetically be who she really is. There are many girls and women in the African American community that are ashamed of who they are and how they appear in the eyes of others. This mainly has to do with the stereotypes that society has placed. They devalue themselves because of the shade of their skin, the texture of their hair, or the shape of their body.
To begin with, Hazel, a white teenage girl, caught screaming to the back of another teenage girl’s head, black teenage girl named Elizabeth, claims that in the act she wasn’t feeling any towards of hatred or disapproval towards Elizabeth making her way into school. However, in the heat of the moment this photograph captured her at the wrong moment in time, a moment in which appeared full of hatred. Story is though that Hazel tagged along into the mixt of the crowd, not knowing exactly what she was thinking or doing but just wanted to do what everyone else was doing. This very act touches upon one aspect of racism, how your society influences your thoughts and actions. Growing up in the south, this was just a custom, to Hazel just like to everyone else. Individuals come as a whole to torment someone who they were taught was inferior to them.
Many black girls go thru social identity issues on a daily basis. Skin color has created division even within black people because fairer skin tones are highly praised in the Negro community. Discrimination is used everywhere against black girls with a deeper skin pigment per example, makeup brands neglect the commercialization of darker shades of foundation, hair products for women of color
Sometimes people hold on to our past which could cause us to lose understanding of others and in the world. For an example, the poem “To a dark Girl” by Gwendolyn Bennett is about how young black girls carry pain on the shoulders and they should let it go. This essay is about how the author’s use of tone , word choice , and imagery helps the following theme emerge in “To a Dark Girl”: that black girls should never hold on to their past.
Early then goes on with his essay by describing the hardships his daughters have faced when trying out hairstyles. He appeals to the mournful emotions of the audience by describing a real life account of his daughter being made fun of at school. When his daughter Linnet got an afro style haircut one group of black girls at her school refused to play with her. She was told,”You look so ugly with that hair.” Early adapts a sad tone when Linnet describes herself as, “I don’t think I am beautiful at all. I think I am just ordinary.” Early uses an emotional appeal along with a sad tone in order to inform the nation of what many African American girls deal with. He does this to inform the reader of self-consciousness a particular “African- American” disease.
Even though Sweetness knew she was a black woman, she did not want to face the harsh reality of being one. “But how else can we hold on to a little dignity? How else can we avoid being spit on in a drugstore, elbowed at the bus stop, having to walk in the gutter to let whites have the whole sidewalk, being charged a nickel at the grocer’s for a paper bag that’s free to white shoppers? Let alone all the name-calling. I heard about all of that and much, much more.” (Morrison) After hearing about all of the stories that other blacks went through, Sweetness knew her only way out was to use her light skin to her advantage. It was not a difficult decision for her to make because she knew all of the advantages that came with it. By living life as a white woman, Sweetness was able to have a job at a hospital and live a life that was much easier than her mother’s. But after having a dark skin baby, she knew life as she
Our skin is the largest part of our body and needs constant care and miniaturization to achieve a healthy glow. First thing to healthy-looking skin is maintaining an internal regimen; drinking lots of water and eating fruits and veggies will keep skin nourished, moisturized and blemish free.