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Essay on The Relationship Change Between Pip and Joe Gargery

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How has the relationship changed between Pip and Joe Gargery?

The relationship between Pip and Joe changes dramatically. As Pip gets older and has turned into a gentleman, Joe has stayed the same, with his clumsy actions and lack of manners. This creates a divide between what used to be a loving relationship.

When Pip was a small boy, he felt close to Joe, as Joe was like a father figure and Pip looked up to him. This meant that Joe and Pip had a very strong bond and they were very close. They also shared similarities, as they both had to face being beaten with the 'tickler' by Mrs Joe Gargery. This brought them closer together. It also shows that there are no complications in their relationship and they find it easy to …show more content…

There is a lot of love when Joe says 'Ever the best of friends; aint us Pip?'. Pip agrees with this by hugging Joe and crying. This shows how Pip expresses his emotions towards Joe, and they obviously have a close relationship.

Joe and Pip's relationship is brought closer when Mrs Joe Gargery doesn't want Joe to learn, 'no scholars'. So when Pip wants to teach
Joe without her finding out, it is like a special secret, that only
Pip and Joe know about. This brings them closer together, as they both share something special.

Joe and Pip are not afraid of showing how close their relationship is.
They do this whilst having dinner. They talk over the table, this shows a strong bond between them. It is also like a link or a special connection between the two of them.

When Pip has to leave, to go to Miss Havisham's house, he finds it hard to say goodbye to Joe. He has never parted from Joe before and it is like the strong bond between them suddenly starting to weaken.

As Pip grows older, becoming more of a gentleman, he grows further and further appart from Joe. This becomes a problem, as they now feel awkward to be in each other's presence.

Joe feels that he has to now ask for permission to see Pip. In the letter from Pip to Joe it says 'Dear Mr Pip'. This shows that Joe isn't as close to Pip as he used to be, as he now calls him Mr Pip, which is more formal. Joe also calls himself an 'affectionate servant'. This

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