To physically reprimand a child or not has been a serious on-going debate that has many pro and cons behind each party. One party believes physical reprimand to any degree even spanking is wrong and is not an efficient way to discipline a child. However, the other side believes if a child continually acts up and vocal reprimanding is not working that spanking is an efficient option to prevent disrespectful behaviors. Physically reprimanding a child can make them realize there will be consequences for there actions. Although each side makes very valid arguments, there is also a large population that believes spanking is an opinion but only as a last resort. Personally, I believe in physical punishment but not for every occasion, and it should not be done when one is mad and not be attempting to hurt the child. Additionally, it should not leave a child scared physically and mentally, but only be a gentile reinforcement to improve the child’s behavior if other tactics fail. …show more content…
The side that is against spanking and physical punishment believe there are psychological effects behind this type of punishment. Many believe that it can lead to the child being an abuser both to their partner and child in the future. There is also a belief that the child will suffer from mental illness and develop issues with security and trust. This is due to the fact that someone that the child loves is hurting them, and they are not able to develop relationships that involve trust and security. Additionally, another reason people believe that spanking is wrong is that of it ill then teaches them it is okay to physically harm someone because they are learning this violent behavior. However, a good way to discipline a child without physically harming them would be to encourage positive behavior and use consequences like taking away privileges to control their
The main reason that parents use spanking as a discipline technique is because it is what they received when they were children. However, in many cases spanking has nothing to do with helping the child. It is used as a quick solution to stop negative behavior with no real regard for the long-term outcome. Parents often spank their children because they themselves are angry. These parents simply cannot handle a situation and take it out on their child. Spanking might be more accepted if it was the only, or the most successful, form of discipline, but it is not. Spanking is simply a short-term fix of a child 's discipline problems. Two of the widely used alternatives to spanking are the time-out and restriction punishments. Time-out is most effective when administered to children under ten years of age, and a restriction mostly benefits children over ten years old. Both of these methods, while effective, also have a positive influence on the child, they teach the child discipline without the use of force, help the child
In conclusion, parents should try alternative forms of punishment, before resulting to spanking. Also, parents should not exceed spanking due to the harm it may cause your child physically and or mentally. Lastly, parents may want to discipline their child until they show a sign of remorse or acceptance to the crime they have
During his time in the war, Dr. Seuss learned so many things, uncovered so many talents, that he didn’t really know how and when to use them. He tried several different career options before he finally settled: he wrote articles for Life magazine, monthly children’s story for Redbook, submitted advertising concepts for Ford Motors, created film strips, drew political cartoons for The New Republic, lectured on children’s literature and produce animated cartoons.
How has the way we perceive the world around us changed over time? The way we perceive the physical world, our human rights and even our perception as we grow up changes dramatically. There is no one correct way to perceive the world around us because perception changes over time as we learn and go through many experiences in our lifetime. Over the years the way we perceive the physical world has changed due to the new discoveries and the new things we learn about.
Many see spanking as a form of parental rights and that the parent has the right to raise their child the way they consider most appropriate. Those in favor of spanking, also hold there is little evidence that moderate spanking is harmful. Further, many believe that discipline problems among children have recently increased, and partially attribute the boost to the decline of both parental authority and the use of spanking.
While this review of literature on spanking children is limited in finding evidence in supporting spanking, the research available that opposes spanking is rather compelling. The findings from the reviewed articles provide advice to parents, both new and long-time, on how to discipline their children if they want their children to have the best outcomes. The studies that have been reviewed are only a small amount of what has been published regarding the negative impacts that spanking can have on children. Additionally, this research may be a start for a move in society to begin viewing spanking as a negative child-rearing practice. While there is a lot more research that could be reviewed on this topic, high levels of aggression, behavioral problems, and
Spanking has become an arguably debatable form of discipline. According to a study at the University of Texas, the more children are spanked, the more likely they are to defy their parents (“Spanking: Pros and Cons”). There is a connection between spanking during the childhood and mental health diagnoses later in life. There are other options of discipling your child than spanking them, especially because all children can take spanking differently. Parents should not spank their child because it showers that being “stronger” is right, demonstrates that older people have a right to hit younger people, and gives the examples that violence solves all problems.
Spanking has been used for many years and it must come to an end. Also known as corporal punishment, spanking is most often used as a form of discipline. Although it is said to have some benefits, the negative consequences far outweigh the good. According to Dr. Wilson and Dr. Lyon, “physical punishment delivered in anger with the intent to cause pain is unacceptable and dangerous to the health and well being of the child.”( Guidance for Effective Discipline, online) It is important for spanking to stop because it is ineffective, causes more problems and because there are other options to consider.
Spanking has been a controversial topic among many parents. Some believe it is just a form of discipline and is okay, while others believe that this is abuse or violence and it will harm the child in the long run.
According to Prevent Child Abuse North Dakota, “The goal of discipline is to create an orderly, predictable, stable, and fun world to enjoy and grow healthy.” When it comes to discipling a child, there are many different courses of action that could be taken. Parents can and should discipline their children (Smenyak). There is a large controversy over the most universal discipline method there is, spanking. Many parents believe that spanking their child can be a beneficial way of correcting a child if done correctly (Smenyak). Other parents believe that spanking a child is simply abuse, that it does not work, or that “Spanking plants a seed for later violent behavior,” says AskDrSears.com.
Through studies show the different views, aspects, and effects spanking can have on a child, every parent will punish their children their own way. It is a ongoing debate and there are many points to be made to further this discussion. Children have shown to have negative effects due to physical punishment while some have not. Overall, both have their pros and cons and every parent will punishments their own
First of all, I think spanking should not happen on a regular basis because it can create fear from the child toward their parents. For example, if the parent is always hitting the child with any hard objects, which would make the child, scare to come near their parents. I think when people spank the child; it should only be for the child best interest, not to harm them in any way. Secondly when spanking is done constantly; it can cause the child to develop violent behavior as they get older. They could develop mental or neurological problems and it could persist into something more severe. Once the child reaches teenager or young adult they probably think it’s ok to hit someone. I know a friend who has been abused at home and as she got older she would always fight with her boyfriend. She could never go a day without physically fighting with him. The abuse happens so often that they split up and until this day she is alone. Hitting the child repeatedly can also create psychological problems. When they get older, they probably can’t trust anyone or have any long conversation with the significant other because their brain has been damaged. They might even have to be on medication just to be calm. Once they are taking medication for mental issues, this can lead to depression which can cause them to commit suicide. This is why I think spanking continuously can affect the child in the long
Spanking also effects a child emotionally. Think of a child looking up at this huge person hitting them. This could cause the child to feel inferior. In the long run, the child could develop insecurities. Spanking could also teach a child to lie. Why would a child confess to something if they knew that their punishment would be something that will cause them pain? A child's self esteem could be lowered by spanking as well. They may feel that when they are being spanked that the parent is telling them that they are a bad person and this can stay with them throughout their life. "Kids who receive a lot of physical punishment are less spontaneous, more reserved, and afraid to try
This research paper discusses social issues related to prostitution in Chicago, a city along route 66 and is divided into four sections. In the first section, definition of prostitution is discussed. Also different forms of prostitution are listed. It should be clearly stated there 's no one accepted definition of prostitution. The term "prostitution" is controversial. Sociologists are still debating on how prostitution should be defined. Moreover, prostitution has different meaning in different time and location.
The second reason why spanking should not be done to children is the fact that it is a form of child abuse. At the moment, countries are divided as to legalize corporal punishment or create a law saying it is illegal. In the book written by Abela (2007) for the Council of Europe, she notes that “spanking of children less than two years old increases the risk of severe physical injury and the child is unlikely to understand the connection between behavior and punishment.” Most parents tend to go overboard when disciplining their children, especially when they are very angry and have not subdued their anger. This then makes the child their venting medium to get rid of that anger and sometimes, they do not apologize and even forget why they have done the deed. Other parents tend to make this a habit and even if the child did nothing wrong, they would still continue spanking the child. Eventually, the parents may slowly abuse the child through pain and totally make the child’s life a complete hell. As a result, child becomes frail and suffers psychological problems. Some countries, especially social services, use this as grounds to get the child away from the family and file cases of child abuse and physical injury that can lead to jail time if proven guilty. Spanking may also cause scarring and may be with the child