Motherhood is one of life’s greatest blessings and biggest responsibilities. Whether you have always known you wanted to be a mom or you are unexpectedly becoming one, there are several shocking truths that accompany your new role. If you dare, read one for some seriously shocking motherhood truths.
Childbirth is nothing like the movies
When I was induced at midnight, I fully expected to begin pushing immediately and holding my baby (at most) a few hours later. I had taken all the classes and read all the books, but stories of laboring for 24 hours went right over my head. Once I finally understood that the process would be long and (duh) laborious, I thought for certain that when it came to pushing, it would be just like the movies (a few he-he-hoos and out he comes). Wrong. When I asked how long I would push and why the doctor kept leaving, my meek but stern little nurse told me, “Some people push for 15 minutes...some for two hours.” What?!
Breastfeeding is hard, but stopping is harder
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If you are breastfeeding, it’s hard and it hurts. A lot. No breastfeeding ads or materials depict a wincing mother and gagging baby, but that’s reality. A few lactation consultants told me, “Stick with it for four weeks and you’ll have the hang of it.” That was a lie. It took six weeks of dread, pain, gore and mess to get comfortable breastfeeding. I had several visits with a lactation consultant, on some instances considered skipping meals so I wouldn’t have to endure the discomfort, and threatened to injure anyone who considered putting a pacifier, bottle or formula near the mouth of my babe for fear of the dreaded “nipple
Having a baby and being flexible is really important when it comes to bottle feeding and breastfeeding. Bottle feeding makes this a little harder because of heating to the bottle, measuring, and sometimes trying to find a bottle. Breastfeeding make this a little easier because if you pump milk the night before, you can have up to three bottles for in the refrigerator. Sometimes if you do not have any milk in a bottle, one can also just let the baby breastfeed by sucking on the nipple. Serena Meyer and Ryan Teglene explain in their article
Rationale: For first time mother breastfeeding can become a frustrating duty when they do not have the necessary resources available for them to use. The mother may be able to properly breastfeed her infant while at the hospital with the lactational consultant and nursing staff at her bedside helping her. Yet when she goes home with the newborn, she may be discouraged to breastfeed the infant because difficulties may arise . As a result, it is necessary for the mother to have at her disposition resources that she can utilize if need it. La Leche League is an excellent resource that supports mothers who are breastfeeding. Also, lactational consultants are great at providing help for mothers who are breastfeeding. Mothers can join support groups where they can openly talk about everything concerning breastfeeding their infants (Lowdermilk, Perry, Cashion, and Alden, 2012).
Being a mother is not an easy job, it takes a lot of time and dedication. There are a lot of trials and tribulation that goes with it, as Rollin points out in her essay, but there also is a lot of joy. Rollin mentions all the negative aspects but fails to include any positivity, and most mothers would disagree with a majority of Rollin's claims. Her tone and phrases are harsh and can be viewed as disrespectful towards mothers.
We were both encouraged to breast feed and having had daughters only a few months apart we shared the experience for a short period of time. My sister struggled, with my niece unable to latch onto her for several weeks. Feeding time soon became a very traumatic experience for both parties, however my daughter and I had a completely different experience. From the first feed we had success, it continued that way for many months. Later my sister learnt that her daughter had had ‘colic’, which is a condition in which an otherwise healthy baby cries or displays symptoms of distress frequently and for extended periods of time, without any discernible cause.
Motherhood is something heavily sought after from all across the globe. I’m sure motherhood scares every soon-to-be mom. Will I be good enough? Will my children like me? Millions of thoughts are running through their heads.
First of all, Importance of BM expression at least 8 times/ 24 hrs, Early feeding cues, increase of daily consumed liquids, Milk Letdown stimulation, and STS were reinforced with the client. Secondly, Chloe made the client's position comfortable and relaxed by using pillows. Then, the client was explained that babies during their first week after birth could not accommodate big amounts of milk d/t small stomach size, so the mother felt relieved. Lastly, Chloe reminded the mother to manage her pain and to accommodate the most relaxed position available. The mother was suggested to use the correct size of a nipple shield and come back for the f/u in 2
When you think of feeding your baby, you have two options: breast milk or formula. I’m sure when you think of breastfeeding, you think it’s hard and painful, but in
Every year, approximately 4 million babies are born in the United States. This means that every year, approximately 8 million breasts are swollen with Mother Nature's own ambrosia, ready to start our children down the path to a healthy and well-adjusted life. Having a child is the most natural thing in the world to most women. Breast feeding is the the most healthy food for a newborn child. It prevents a wide range of illnesses as well as helps the mother feel better after birth. So why not breastfeed your new born? Although many people believe that breast feeding puts undue stress on a new mother, ultimately, as a mother, you will be responsible for every single feeding that your child experiences. Sure, it is true that you can pump the
"Motherhood is a great honor and privilege, yet it is also synonymous with servant hood. Every day women are called upon to selflessly meet the needs of their families. Whether they are awake at night nursing a baby, spending their time and money on less-than-grateful teenagers, or preparing meals, moms continuously put others before themselves and enjoy doing their jobs as mothers." (Stanley) . According to Betty Rollin 's essay, "Motherhood: Who Needs It?", Rollin argues that mothering, preconceived as a biological necessity, is in fact, a psychological desire. Rollin quotes psychiatrist Dr. Richard Rabkin: "Women don 't need to be mothers any more than they need spaghetti... But if you 're in a world where everyone is eating spaghetti, thinking they need it and want it, you will think so too." (Rollin 102) Although one 's society may have the power to influence his or her eating habits, a mothers desire to have children is an entirely different issue. Many women often want to have children and go through motherhood because of social pressure, to please their spouse, and to be "happy".
Motherhood is everything dreams are made of, and yet at the same time nothing that is anticipated.
This question got people thinking. Around the 1870’s a campaign began called “voluntary motherhood” which was a program suggesting that married couples should resist sexual activity for long periods of time to keep from having unwanted children.
New mothers experience many challenges after labor. One of the largest challenges is breastfeeding and breastfeeding in public. Many mothers do not know what to do or how to approach the issue. Mothers struggle with this decision due to social norms, health risks, and cultural expectations. These factors make or break the decision to breastfeed or not to breastfeed. Society has a role in every decision that anyone makes. This is why it is that much more important for mothers because they are not only responsible for their own lives, but for someone else and making their decisions when they cannot do so for themselves. There needs to be a change in society for women to take a stand and chose to breastfeed to get the maximum nutrients and benefits
Breastfeeding can be easy from the get-go for some mothers, but take a while to get used to for others. Moms and babies need plenty of patience to get used to the routine of breastfeeding.
Breastfeeding has become the new normal for parents of the millennium generation. With new research and enhanced parent education, new mothers have developed knowledge in relation to the benefits of breastfeeding for both mother and baby. Breastfeeding is linked to psychological benefits such as a hormonal release to enhance bonding and attachment through mother and baby. At the very least, breastfeeding may also reduce or prevent the likeliness of long-term health complications. Coincidentally, some mothers still struggle with thought of breastfeeding and the potential risks and complications involved with formula fed infants. Let’s review the good, the bad and ugly facts of breastfeeding.
Breastfeeding is endorsed by many different agencies worldwide. Some of those agencies include: The American Academy of Pediatrics, American Family of Pediatrics, and the American Association of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. All of these agencies agree that breastfeeding should be done for the first twelve months of life. Mothers and babies build unspeakable bonds during breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is one of the most natural things a mother can do, yet it is becoming a declining choice among mothers when it comes to feeding their newborn. When a mother chooses to use formula over breast milk, both she and the baby loose out in many ways, two of the most important being critical nutrition and bonding time. Parents spend what could be considered small fortunes on formula when they could be feeding the babies for free by choosing the breast. An effective way to address the problem of the decline in mother’s breastfeeding is to provide more education, to provide more support while beginning to change the public’s opinion on mom’s breastfeeding in public.