Teenagers face many difficulties. One of them being the treatment we get from our parents. To clarify, our parents treat us like children yet they expect us to act like adults; hence why their treatment is difficult for us teenagers. They expect us to dress reasonably, keep our rooms tidy, handle the tremendous amount of work we have, and make smart choices. Accordingly, we are expected to be adults. To illustrate, I struggled aimlessly with my work during freshman year. One day, after coming home from school, I was extremely stressed with my schoolwork and decided to talk to my mom about it. I talked to her about problems with my grades, and the troubles I had keeping up with school work. Regarding my statements as complaints and finding them trivial, she refused to take me seriously. Then insisted that I act as an adult and solve my own problems. She waved me away and went back to her responsibilities. As a result, I felt overwhelmed with stress. With that said, my parents demanded me to deal with it as an adult with experience would. They expected me to act like an adult by dealing with my problems. On the contrary of their expectations, my parents treat me as a child. For instance, when I was in my freshman year my parents told me they wanted to sign me up for a sport; that sport being soccer. I voiced my dislike and refused to go, but they dismissed my concerns. While they looked for a local team for me to join, I stressed over their decision. They made a decision that
For those of us that are parents, we know that raising a child to adulthood is not an easy task but one which we do lovingly (hopefully) and responsibly. I’ll go out on a limb to say here that everyone agrees that the teenage years are the most challenging. The general consensus is that teenagers are unruly, aggressive, careless, spoiled and dependent on technology. On the other hand, I believe along with a small group of other parents that teenagers are also brilliant and in the process of becoming and reaching their potential and that they deserve much more respect than what they are given.
Bored, to be weary and impatient because one lacks interest in one`s current activity. As the definition implies, to be bored is to lose interest in what you are doing. As this sense of boredom can only come when one is only doing the same activity for an extended period of time, I agree that teenagers today are too busy to be bored.
1.1 Explain why working in partnership with others is important for children and young people
How many people have conflicts with there parents? This is not a uncommon thing for young adults to show conflict with their parents. Conflicts are something that occur very often and it seems as though young adults have lots of conflicts with their parents. Some young adults feel as though, if they are eighteen, nineteen, or twenty that they are able to make their own decisions. Whether it be staying out past curfew, borrowing the car, or staying over a friends house, the young adult or teenager doesn’t see eye to eye with their parents and this is where the conflict comes into play.
When picking my adolescent I had quite a few choices to pick from but I decided on my adolescent 15 year old sister since I know a lot about her and have seen first-hand how she is coping with this adolescent stage. Patricia is a normal 15 year old girl still in high school. She lives in a household of 7 with 3 older siblings and one younger one. She mentioned that she lived in a small home with three dogs, two fish, a bird and six other humans. Both her parents are field workers so they aren’t really at home much. Patricia has a younger 7 year old sister that she pays attention to a lot, they have a really close relationship, and she cares for her younger
Middle adulthood is a complex time period that requires a multidimensional outlook to understand all of the processes and changes that are taking place. The many changes during middle adulthood include physical, cognitive and social differences. Many of these changes create significant stress and it is important to understand ways of coping with the anxiety. Many of these coping mechanisms include mindfulness and cultivating a sense of self-efficacy and mastery (pg. 482). There are many changes during middle adulthood that may require stress management techniques and interventions.
"Middle age is when your classmates are so old and wrinkled and bald, they don’t recognize you". -Bennett Cerf
Everyone remembers fighting with their parents at some point in their life, whether as a young child who wants a toy or as a teenager who isn’t allowed to go out. It’s normal to want to challenge authority when growing up, because it helps young people to make their own decisions and become individuals. Teenagers rely on few close friends and the last people expected to be confidants are their parents.
Adolescence is a stage of maturation between childhood and adulthood that denotes the period from the beginning of puberty to maturity. However, many conflicting opinions are raised about weather such a stage of childhood is influenced by stress, depression, and suicide rate. Some people support the optimistic view that says that adolescence is not a period of storm and stress. Others, including me, support an opposite pessimistic view which characterizes adolescence as a period of stress and inner turmoil. Unfortunately, it has been recently proved that depression is a growing problem in today 's society and a major contributing factor for a multitude of adolescent problems. This is because , as research indicates, adolescent depression
For example some teens probably have gotten mad at their parents and ignored what their parents said. It would be no surprise that this has happened to the teen’s parents, as they were once teens. For parents, saying mean things to teen kids are not good ideas, arguing usually is a short-term conversation as later in the week or week’s teens will forget about it. But if a parent bursts and says something so bad and hurtful, teenagers can take it to the heart, as it was one of their parents who said the harsh words in their face. Examples would be such as if a child was getting yelled at so much to the point where he/she runs away. Occurrences of teens running away because of parents are rare but do still happen. As a teenager when arguing last for a short-term with their parents there is not much he/she can do if a parent has denied them something. Such as if a teenage girl wanted to go to the movies with her friends and her parents both have said no, the only thing she can do is pout. Another thing she can do is argue until her parents change their mind, which this is a common thing for teens to do when they argue to get things going in their favor.
Adolescents are faced with a lot of pressure from many different people. They get put under pressure from their parents to their peers. They also get
Teen stress is a big issue in today's society. Recent studies have shown that teens may develop more stress then adults. Few adults can remember the truth about adolescence. "Their minds "censor" their memories, and have them believe that being a teenager was was one big party, free of cares and responsibilities"( ). There aren't that many adults around who realize what adolescence was really like. The anguish, the fear, the anxiety, the stress. People don't remember those problems because they want to forget them. Stress is a significant problem for teens. There are many factors that lead into teen stress, such as school, drugs, peer pressure and
How many times have you felt that your parents don't understand you, that they have no respect for you as an individual? How often do you shake your head in frustration and blame it on the 'generation gap'? Parents! They are like aliens from another planet altogether! You and they are in different camps; strangers forced to live under the same roof Right? Wrong! There is a way of bridging what appears to be a yawning chasm. If you genuinely want to improve your relationship with your parents (and give them a big shock in the bargain!) try listening to them, treating them just like you would listen to a valued friend. Instead of always whining, 'You don't understand me", stop and think. Do we ever try and understand
Teenage is a fundamental stage of life that each human being passes through. Some people face this period of their life strongly and positively, while others face many problems and difficulties. This depends on the environment these young adults live in, their parents, their friends, their living conditions, their education, and many other factors. Teenagers face many problems such as becoming addicted to drugs and alcohol, being influenced negatively by their peers, self-image and weight, or even arguments with their parents
People who are nostalgic about childhood, were obviously never children. Few people can remember the truth about adolescence. Their minds "censor" their memories; and have them believe that being a teenager was was one big party, free of cares and responsibilities. Well let me say this, you couldnOt be more wrong if you had a lobotomy. There aren't that many adults around who realise what adolescence was really like. The anguish, the fear, the anxiety, the stress. People don't remember those problems because they want to forget them.