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Sula Defying Destiny

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Defying Destiny:
How Sula challenges the narrative of women in literature According to author Toni Morrison, literature often dictates that “a woman’s escape from male rule [leads] to regret, misery… [and] complete disaster” (Morrison, xvi). This sentiment is challenged within Morrison’s novel Sula by the individualistic life of titular character Sula, whose personal growth is contrasted with that of her childhood best friend, Nel. As both women navigate what it means to be female in the Bottom, their destinies diverge into two distinct paths. As Nel embraces the domestic confines of marriage, Sula continues to challenge her identity as a woman and ultimately push herself to escape from the imprisonment dictated to her by her social status, …show more content…

Both wildly imaginative as children, Sula and Nel are described as “[having] already made each other’s acquaintance in… their dreams” before ever having actually met (51). The identical nature of their minds sets the tone for their friendship as it progresses, with both of the girls not only reflecting each other’s inventiveness but their sense of independence as well. Nel first exhibits this quality after she looks into the mirror following a discussion with her mother and chants to herself “’I’m me… I’m not Nel. I’m me’” (29). This self-determination, in combination with Sula’s own individualistic qualities, creates a unique relationship that allows both of the girls “to abandon the ways of other people and concentrate on their own perception of things” (55). With each other, the girls are allowed to move beyond the restraints given by both their race and gender and instead explore the nuances of their identities separate from society’s …show more content…

Although Nel’s budding independence begins to stagnate, by leaving the Bottom Sula is able to both internalize and pursue the self-expression her friendship with Nel first inspired. Returning to the Bottom and living by only her own standards allows Sula to put into practice a type of autonomy that is virtually unheard of in the town, a fact reflected by her status as a pariah within the community. Nel’s reaction to Sula’s actions following her return illustrates her own fear of deviating from the expectations of their community. By placing blame on Sula rather than Jude, Nel continues to elevate the status of men rather than condemning them for their selfish actions. Sula’s incredulous response to Nel’s anger shows the distinct nature of both women’s relationship with men. As Sula sees their freedom as desireable, and acknowledges the absurdity of trapping women behind the veil of domesticity while allowing men respite from familial responsibilities, Nel instead believes that through her conformity, she is allowing herself a happiness that independence could never provide. Although at the end of the novel Nel does have her children as well as the support of the town, she is just as lonely as she believes Sula to be, a consequence of her mindless resignation to male rule through marriage. It is

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