Social Intelligence and Life Skills

Life skills play an important role for becoming successful professionally and improving our personal lives. Oprah, in her lifeclass video, talks about being responsible for yourself and not waiting for anyone else to change the circumstances around you as a way to develop the skills necessary to flourish. The story of Robert Sherfields first experience at community college, “How Community College Changed My Life” tells of how Mr. Sherfield let go of his past failures and worked toward a better future for himself. The quote by Charles Noble “First we make our habits, then our habits make us!” is great to remember when developing the life skills necessary to continue to grow in all aspects of our lives. The video, story and quote can all be connected, good habits produce responsible people. Responsible people are aware of their

Gerald Graff questioned the core components of the school curriculum in relation to intelligence throughout his essay titled, “Hidden Intellectualism.”. He believes that schools should attempt to base their studies around the interest of the students, rather than the foundations that many students are disinterested towards. Developing a syllabus revolving around youth culture may translate to better arguments that focus on the analysis, debate, and reflection from the scholars. He explained that arguments are the key to learning, as it allows people to obtain facts and use it to form opinions and interpretations to share with others. Integrating topics obtained by society may alter the definition of intelligence, as pupils will be engaged in their studies. In addition, the stereotype of what it means to be clever will also adapt to be more accepting if a balance between interests and academics is generated.

The approach is based on the idea that an individual’s activities occurs in a cultural context and can be best understood in their historical development (Kagitcibasi, 2012). Vygotsky developed this theory with the intent of coming up with a way to explain human behavior. The theory examined various subjects including the psychology of art, thought and language; and also focused on education of students with special needs. Vygotsky believed that caregivers, parents, peers, and culture at large play an important role in developing an individual’s higher order functions. There are various modern time interpretations of this theory with one focused on explaining human development. In this context, the sociocultural theory explains that learning is a social process and the society makes a significant contribution to individual development. The theory states that learning is based on interactions with other people and once this has happened, the information is then incorporated on a personal level (Hutchison,

Intelligence is most important in today's society. Some individuals have high intelligence, some have low intelligence. An appropriate environment plays an important role in the development of a child’s intelligence. Stephen Jay Gould exchanged many views on intelligence in his book The Mismeasure of Man

Dweck has demonstrated that students develop a perception of intelligence and what it is. Some young people believe that intelligence is something that can change while others believe that intelligence is fixed and cannot be altered. Based on Dweck’s research, how a child perceives their intelligence level will affect how they perform in school (Dweck, 1986, 1988, 2006, 2010).

There is one thing for certain in this world, everyone wants to accomplish something in life and we want to recognize our full potential. In order to do this we must have some skills, and in this case it’s life skills. Life skills are a range of characteristics we

In Social Intelligence and the Biology of Leadership, Boyatzis and Goleman provide the biological evidence that supports their theory that social intelligence is a set of interpersonal competencies that are required in order to be an effective leader. Their support for their theory is derived from research completed by neuroscientists who have determined that the action of certain of neurons in the brain; specifically mirror neurons, spindle cells, and oscillators, show that positive behaviour exhibited by a leader will without doubt be mirrored by subordinates. Boyatzis and Goleman briefly look at the effect gender and stress might have on social intelligence, while also outlining their idea of the seven major qualities of a social intelligent leader. Throughout the article, it is stated that social intelligence is something that not only occurs naturally in select individuals, but with hard work and persistence it may be obtained through changes made to the behaviours of any leader.

There is a relationship between intelligence and culture because intelligence is culturally shaped and defined and some cultures support and identify it as very vital in the context of social and ecological aspects. In the early years, there was a bias towards intelligence tests because they used English language and culture. The formation of Wesler Adult Intelligence Scale, Fourth Addition (WAIS,IV) in 2008 by David Wesler was meant to minimise the bias. According to Westen, Burton and Kowalski (2006), intelligence assists human beings to take control of their lives and it varies cross culturally because the power dynamics differ in each society and this leads to differences in behaviour and line of thinking. These authors describe intelligence as multifaceted, functional and can be defined by culture because it is universal and studying intelligence using different culture as a sample that can be used to question Western ideas about intelligence with some emphasis on the assessment of skills and abilities using culturally appropriate methods (Benson, 2003)

When one speaks of intelligence or how bright another person is, the often quoted figure is the IQ or intelligence quotient. It is the most often used standard of how smart a person is. This paper shall look at what intelligence tests measure, how the IQ tests measure intelligence and interrogate their history. It shall then apply the tests to school policy and hence evaluate their validity.

Interpersonal Intelligence is the ability to interact with others and comprehend ideas effectively (Gardener 1). This communication with others had occurred

According to this article, Emotional Intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our emotions and communicate with others in the most appropriate way. EI is characterized by how effectively we can reduce our stress, engage nonverbally, and achieve our goals. This article emphasizes, that Emotional Intelligence requires particular skills, such as understanding ourselves on a deeper emotional state and the emotional levels of others. Moreover, EI builds our social circles, influents on how we communicate with other people. The next interesting point which author propounds is that EI is a contributing factor in the competitive differentiation. Person with high EI level is more competitive and this individual has potential to become a successful person. Now we have a clear idea about what EI is, which skill EI develops, and how EI can contribute to build competitive advantage. The next issue, which we should understand, is whether EI can be taught. Without

Academic success is largely attributed to intellectual ability in everyday life, even though this supports the literature that is intellectual ability does have a large role over academic success it is only one of many factors that can influence academic success, in this study the effect of intellectual ability will be tested against academic success of students to verify and reproduce the results that exist in abundance within multiple studies (Chamorro-Premuzic & Arteche, 2008). Therefore, we will be testing whether the relationship between intellectual ability and academic performance is significant or not. This constructs the first hypothesis for the study:

The main objectives of these studies are to find out the impact of emotional intelligence at the workplace, in learning institutions as well as in the social circles of human beings. The concept of emotional intelligence has been linked with self-confidence when it comes to learning. This is because according to recent studies emotional intelligence can be related to improving the self-esteem of learners. It’s not possible for an individual to be confident if they don’t recognize who they are, especially how to manage frustrations and temper (Elizabeth, 2002). The ability for an individual to remain calm even in challenging moments shows that they have high emotional stability and great

Social interaction is a key concept and necessity each individual experiences. Throughout the lifespan there are different engagements he or she will interact with. There are many different aspects on how one’s social life can be affected, positively or negatively. Social interaction is one of the most important determinants in foreseeing how one is going to develop physically, emotionally, and mentally. This can include milestones that are passed successfully and others that were thwarted in the process.

Symbolic interaction offers a dramaturgical perspective of how people identify and create their social self through social interaction. Many social theorist studies social interaction/ self as a function to our society. In addition, microsociology develop the idea of applying social interaction on a smaller sample size within the society. Therefore, there were an increase in the study of human interaction and the self. Mead develop his idea through symbolic interaction and social psychology of the human mind. Simmel develop his idea through the perspective of symbolic interaction of urban sociology. Both sociologist focus on the inter social aspect of the human life.