Sexism: A Two Way Street
When we hear the word sexism most minds automatically associate feminine oppression. I began to wonder why that was. Webster defines sexism as “prejudice based on sex; especially: discrimination against women.” After reading this I had to know why that was.
Sexism is generally associated with women but, when researching the effects it also has on men, my opinion has shifted. One of the first times we identify sexism dates back to the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries. At this time, due to a woman’s deceitful moral compass, settlers had the belief that women had to rely on men. Due to the religious beliefs at this time, and the story of Adam and Eve, women were deemed corrupt and untrustworthy. Feminine sexism has been around for decades but, we are just recently recognizing that men are victims of this disturbing phenomenon. (Tracy)
In 2012 David Benatar published a monograph titled “The Second Sexism” describing and bringing awareness to the many ways there is discrimination against men. One of these ways is alimony. A majority of the time when alimony is ordered it is the male who is paying. After his own divorce and order to pay alimony one man stated “The theory behind this was fine back in the 50’s, when everybody was a housewife and stayed home.” Since then however, women had made incredible strides in the workplace and there is no longer a requirement for alimony aside from the pre-defined gender roles. Another form of discrimination Benatar
Sexism is defined as the discrimination and bias towards one gender, that one gender is powerful and righteous compared to the other. Sexism has been the largest barrier between sexes to the point in which cultures as well as religions rely on misogyny to set limitation on women to make men feel more empowered. Sexism rooted about twenty five hundred years ago in which women were considered property to a man. Parents would trade their young women for more wealth. Till this day there has been a very misogynistic view towards how to properly maintain a household. A man is to hold the job in the house and provide for the family while a women stayed home to clean, cook, take care of her
Sexism is defined as prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex, and is a topic that has been on and off the media throughout the years, becoming more prevalent in the 21st century. Many iconic figures throughout the ages have spoken out for women, people like Mahatma Gandhi, who said “Of all the evils for which man has made himself responsible, none is so degrading, so shocking, or so brutal as his abuse of the better half of humanity; to me, the female sex is not the weaker sex.” Sexism has been around for about as long as the human race, dating back to biblical times and beyond. A woman’s traditional role in the family has been that of the cook, the cleaner, the child raiser, and the gardener.
While sexism is no longer as overt a practice as in the past, it is arguably just as pervasive. bell hooks’ life as an academic has been spent trying to breakdown the existent sexist barriers, which have prohibited women from achieving equality with men.
Sexism refers to the prejudice, stereotyping, and discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of their gender. It is a fact that throughout history, men have had more power than women, and that even now, in 2016, we live in a world where, for the most part, men are still considered superior to women. There are different kinds of sexism present in our everyday lives, some forms of sexism have been embedded so deep in our brains that they’ve become normalized and go unperceived, while others are blatant but ongoing, still, the image that men are the dominant sex is alive and well, both consciously and unconsciously in the minds of men and women around the world.
Sexism, as defined by Oxford Dictionaries is the prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination based on one’s sex, has been an age-old issue in society. Historically, this belief was once much more mainstream and tolerated than it is today. Part of the reason is that women were not as vocal about unfair treatment as they are now, and did not expect to be dealt with as equals. Many did, and some still do, believe that women were only meant to cook, clean, and care for children. A woman having a job was rare during the Great Depression because most of society believed a woman’s place was in the home.
Over the last several decades, great strides have been made when it comes to eliminating sexism and progressing towards gender equality. However, sexism is still ingrained in our everyday culture. This is evident in the fact that in 2017 women earn about 80 cents to a man’s dollar and are less likely to be promoted within the workplace. It’s an unfortunate fact the most women will experience some form of sexism throughout their lives. In this paper, I will address my personal experiences with both hostile and benevolent sexism, how the two forms of sexism differ, and how these experiences have affected me.
Throughout history, women have been regarded as of lesser value than men particularly in the public sphere. This is the result of gender stratification. Gender stratification refers to the issue of sexism, “or the belief that one sex is superior to the other” (Carl et al., 2012, p. 78). The theory that men are superior to women is essential to sexism. Sexism has always had negative consequences for women. It has caused some women to avoid pursuing successful careers typically described as “masculine”—perhaps to avoid the social impression that they are less desirable as spouses or mothers, or even less “feminine.”
A very popular book on sexism is “Ain’t I a woman” by Bell Hooks. This story is a recollection of feminism and racism. Through this story we learn of the sexism of us as people that we have let be embedded throughout our history. A quote that exhibits this is “[Our] struggle for liberation has significance only if it takes place within a feminist movement that has as its fundamental goal the liberation of all people.” (Bell Hooks).
Women first gained the right to vote on August 26, 1920 with the 19th amendment was approved, giving women full voting rights. Fortified by the constitutional victory in 1920, the handful of new women in Congress embarked on what would become a century-long journey to broaden women’s role in government. In the intervening years, the drive for more women’s rights encompassed the lives of the next generations of women. Even today, women are still fighting for their rights and stand up against prejudice. On the forefront of this movement are our women congresswomen who speak on behalf of all women. When Hillary Clinton announced her presidential candidacy, controversial questions immediately surfaced about the role of gender in politics. Through Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign in 2008 and 2016, media is the principal propagator in showing bias and sexism.
I find it interesting that you said, “I think individual sexism is more dangerous because it presents itself in the everyday lives of women, and it projects itself in institutional sexism because the system is built up of individual sexists who are in charge of hiring, firing, and policy creating.” I not too sure that this is a fair to put all of this on men. We assume that institutional sexisms occurs because men are in charge of hiring, firing but according to an article by Forbes called, “Top 10 Best-Paying Jobs For Women In 2011” 71% of Human Resource Managers are women. (Forbes.com) “Typically, sexism is thought of as hostility toward women, perpetrated by men. However, both women and men can (and often do) endorse sexist beliefs
Sexism is the ideology that maintains that one sex is inherently inferior to the other. Sexism or discrimination based on gender has been a social issue for many years; it is the ideology that one sex is superior or inferior to the other. Sexism does not only affect females, but also males. Men are very often victimized by social stereotypes and norms based on gender expectations. Sexism has appears in almost all social institutions including family, the media, religion, sports, the military, politics, and the government. However, although both genders are affected, men have benefited from sexism the most (Thompson 300-301.)
Discrimination and prejudice have both been a major problem in our society since the idea of gender and race contacted our brains. Everyone hopes that humankind will change and treat everyone equally and fairly, but this still has yet to happen. Mankind is still treating people as minorities without a second thought. Women are still stereotyped as being too feminine for a “man’s job”, such as construction or military forces. As well as, men being considered to manly to be able to perform jobs such as a nurse or even a single parent. Even today, the majority of the world 's population has the subtle thought of superiority in the back of their minds, granted it is unintentional in most cases. Although, racism and sexism has become less of a national issue, the two topics share multiple similarities considering discrimination is everywhere, and that it is impossible to avoid.
“You bitches need to learn your places. You do not order a brute around and get away with it!”
Sexism, is a prejudice plain and simple. One of the earliest forms of violence directed toward women was the Witch Hunt Trials of the Middle Ages. Bishops debated whether a woman was really human at all. If her nose were too long, she had red hair, a humped back, or if she was exceptionally beautiful, she was thought to be a witch and was burned at the stake. There was an estimated nine million women burned during the Witch Trials. During the “Women’s Liberation Movement in the 1960’s, feminist theorists explained that oppression of women was widespread in nearly all human society, and spoke of sexism instead of male chauvinism. Male chauvinists were usually individual men who expressed the belief that they were superior to women” (Napikoski). By the mid 20th century sexism was established and began to appear in advertising. Between the 1970’s and 1990’s women began to feel more equal to men until the 1980’s where they were portrayed as sex symbols on national television (The Origin and History of SEXISM). There are two main types of sexism, benevolent and hostile, and their definitions are opposite from one another. Hostile sexism is what most people perceive as sexism today as it seems sexism is occurring more and more often and is, notably, more vulgar. It is the notion that women are inferior or not as worthy; a belief that males are intrinsically superior. For many years women have been degraded and looked down upon with the idea that their place is in the kitchen with
Gender discrimination is an unfavorable treatment based on gender. It causes the elimination of individual’s right and opportunity (Reeves and Baden, 2000: 2). Gender discrimination usually disadvantages women because women are considered inferior in society. Virginia Woolf states that gender discrimination is a result of the imbalance power between men and women (in Dobie, 2012: 114). Apparently, women have already suffered the discrimination since a long time ago.