One of America’s biggest fears is public speaking. Public speaking is one of everyone’s biggest fears right there with death and skydiving. It was also one of mine, and yet I have come to love it. My first experience was in front of my ag science 1 class, just like most I failed the first time and have continued to use that experience to grow as an individual and grow to love the idea of public speaking. Every once in awhile you are given a chance you think that you could never make it through. I was given one and looking back on it I am glad that I took it and was able to grow as an individual and learn a lot.
My first experience with public speaking was like most, I failed in front of a group of my peers and I was able to learn from it.
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At this time I decided that I would do the Fairs and Festivals speech. I began writing it and after the first couple of drafts I had bagan to get really discouraged no matter who I gave the paper to I got it back full of red marks. I thought that I had gotten way in over my head, but I did not give up. Finally after about 20 drafts I was able to get a final draft and had bagan to memorize it. Although there was a mishap and I was not able to give it til summer, I continued to learn that by writing the speech and having 20 different drafts made me a better writer.
I was finally given the chance to give this speech at my local county fair. I had practiced for multiple weeks and had the speech and answers to questions down pat. I was going into it with less nerves this time compared to the last. I remember walking up on that small stage,grabbing a microphone, and beginning to give my speech. I did everything like I practice. I was very happy when I was awarded a first place blue ribbon and told I would compete at state in January,
Months later I began practicing my speech again so that I would be ready for state. I was so ready and felt more prepared than ever as I began down the road toward state. I practice and practice and would even push homework to side to make sure that my speech delivery was top notch. I walked into the state contest with a positive and confident attitude. As I walked into the room all I saw were upperclassmen and suddenly I was
Well, the speech was really fun to prepare for it, even though the grade is not what I expected. It pretty awesome too when giving the speech because I can see the audiences inner desire. And their laugh and some smile, it shows it all. I got their attention when I first open up the slide because that was the moment when our generation mostly looking for. And that was love, but that not what they expected. I was laughing inside because of that. While giving the speech, I notice I made too many mistakes and know what my weakness, strength is. I can see my strength in organizing my speech with the step of Monroe’s Motivated Sequence because of that my speech went a lot smoother. In addition to that, I was able to get my points across the audience. The thesis of my topic was easily understood by the audience because my earlier slide about finding love caught their attention. That was brilliant, but I can see that my transition is not smooth on every slide. And that is my weakness I have to work on. It's still not as bad as my communication because I know that I’m quadruple-lingual. That make it really hard for me to speaking
A crucial event that I attended this semester was the Woman In Isenberg Conference. At this conference I was given the opportunities to connect and meet with alumni. I, through much preparation, was able to successful network and have useful conversations with some of the woman at the event. This day long event really was focused on creating strong connections with not only our peers but other successful women in modern day business. Throughout the day there were many different chances to listen to panels or professional personal talk about what their passions were. One of the workshops that I attended at this event was the public speaking workshop. I especially liked this workshop because I’ve always had a hard time speaking in front of crowds.
Standing in that long, obscure hallway, I could feel my stomach turning over and over like the sea on a stormy night. “What did I get myself into this time?” I thought to myself as I investigated each of my competitors waiting their turn to compete. I had worked tirelessly to prepare myself for today. The hours consumed typing and retyping a speech that had to have just the right phrasing. I had my mother and two of the best teachers I knew proofread speech and give me honest feedback. I ran through my speech numerous times, so much so that I was sure I could recite it in my sleep. I even rehearsed responses to the hypothetical questions the judges might ask me, and listened to my speech on repeat for two hours on the bus. It all came down to this. My opportunity to present at the West Virginia State FBLA Competition was a few minutes away. I sought to place at the State’s not only for myself and my club, but also for my mother. Prior to getting out of the car this morning, she gave me one of her famous pep talks to set me on my way. After that and months
Public speaking used to be a daunting task that I would try to avoid as often as possible, often I would be the last to present a project and would refrain myself from having to read outloud. When I would speak my head would fill with thoughts of how other were perceiving me and how easy it would be to mess up. With this nervous mentality my speaking was stuttered and confusing.
What have you learned from the process of developing and giving this speech? How can you build on this experience and improve before your next speech?
I stood there in anticipation, speech in hand, facing the crowd. Then, I ripped apart the speech, but I had no worries about the paper. After all, I had already memorized the whole speech. At that moment, my goal was to inspire people with my speech. I had never thought I would be able to stand there in the gaze of a giant audience.
Luckily, I was able to perform my entire speech around five to six minutes which was a goal I had struggled to obtain in practice. To hasten my speech, I had to talk a lot faster and remove a lot of specific information from my speech. Despite it being a success, some people thought I talked to fast during my presentation which could have been true. All in all, my speech topic was well fitted to the role and was inspired by my personal experiences.
When one finds their talents in life, they find joy and excitement from participating in them. Often times, it is easy for that person to quickly become an expert in that field and help others better themselves. For me, that talent was Public Speaking. When I joined my school's competitive speech team, I quickly found that Public Speaking was something I really enjoyed and was competent in. I made it to the State tournament three different years and with the beginning of each new season, I gained credibility with my coaches and team members.
One of my more vivid experiences of public speaking was when I was taking a class at a community college. While taking this class I would often have to give speeches and demonstrations in front of the class. As I was waiting for my turn to give my very first speech, I was very certain that I would have no problems at all, it would a piece of cake, or so I thought. All of a sudden, I hear my name being called as it was my turn to deliver a knockout performance, but as I stood in front of that small class of people I just blanked out. An overwhelming amount of anxiety came over of me. I could feel my heart beginning to race and my hands starting to sweat. I could not for the life of me remember what I was going supposed say. In addition, the
Public speaking has always been very hard for me, I've never been the type to stand in front of an audience and speak or do a presentation. No matter how many times I've done presentations I've always get nervous or shy and always forget what I rehearsed. In the military I was training Nco, everytime we had a new marine check in to our unit or are shop. I would be the one to give them and the A presentation on what is expected of them and also give them information about the unit and our shop. In my opinion the Marine Corp prepared me for public speaking, especially if you where lower rank and your senior enlisted would throw you to the wolves and send you up there to give the
Instead of using random information from websites that don’t have the same credibility as others. The second thing I think I did well was speak loud enough for the audience to hear, because during some of the other speeches some people were very soft spoken. 2. What are two things that you think you can improve upon for your next speech?
I identified what kind of speech I would be giving and also created and outline. Furthermore, I also practiced my speech by using notecards. Moreover, when giving my speech I feel as though I improved where I may have failed during my in-class speech. Giving this speech made me much more confident in my public speaking ability. It is thanks to what I learned in class that I was able to efficiently create and give a well-rounded speech. Due to this I was able to pass my test and became a third-degree black belt. You’ll never know when you will need to use certain skills that you learned in school. However, I learned very quickly that what I have been learning in Intro to Communications are strategies that I will use for the remainder of my
This really helped me to find my confidence and taught me how to get rid of the nerves that comes with public speaking. There is always room to improve and through the speech classes I took throughout high school I feel like I improved in my speaking skills. One of my strengths is being good at preparation. Preparation is a very important factor in making a good speech. Knowing your audience, your topic, and knowing how to organize a speech properly is something I find to be a strength. Another strength of mine that I previously stated is knowing how to get through any nerves that I have. My weaknesses of public speaking include my newly developed stutter, talking too fast, and not speaking super clearly. With speeches I am much better at putting the speech together rather than actually giving
For as long as I can remember, public speaking has always been one of my greatest weaknesses. Whether it’s a simple in-class presentation or a speech in front of an auditorium filled with people, I can barely get my words out from the anxiety and
This public speaking course has taught me alot by helping me to become a better person and by growing me into something I never thought I could be.Speaking out loud always made me nervous, even when I was just reading a sentence from a book to some of my closest friends. Even though we are not even halfway through the school year, I have learned and improved so much. One of the first things this class had taught me was all about body language and how to present yourself to make an impression. Little things that we do can make us seem small, such as slouching, crossing our arms and legs, and looking at the ground, while others make us appear big, for instance, stretching, sitting up straight, and taking up alot space. Properly presenting yourself is important and can make a big difference in your life, whether it is for a job interview, meeting new people, or speaking in front of your peers. I have also learned to control and overcome my nervous habits, for example, playing with my hair, rocking back and forth, and moving my hands. Habits like these show the audience that you are nervous and it may turn their attention away from your speech and onto your actions. The audience-speaker relationship was also a great thing to learn. This relationship shows cause and effect, for example, when you lose the attention of your audience you may begin to second guess yourself leaving you to becoming nervous and self conscious. You then may start to panic and your speech may become a