“The apple does not fall far from the tree” is an understatement for me. I am proud to say that my parents has contributed vastly to who I am today. Being an only child, people typically believes the child will be spoiled and have independency issues. Not I, despite my parents’ relentless loving tendencies, I was taught how to stand on my two feet. Learning the importance of education was engraved into me at a young age. My father obtained his Master’s in Business Administration degree while I was in seventh grade. Strategic planning, core competency, due diligence, and monetize were just a few of the terms grasped into my vocabulary at that time. Late nights of typing papers highlighted the determination he embodied and the seriousness of …show more content…
JoAnn has been miraculously fighting cancer for the last five years. Her battle has been through the effects of radiology and chemotherapy such as losing hair, losing weight, losing physical motor function, and a number of other ailments that led to her physical decline particularly after her brain surgery in 2015. Nevertheless, her mental and spiritual fight is raging inside her to live. Behind closed doors, my father William Piphus fought the insurance companies. The DAILY battle back and forth, to get my mother to receive the coverage, benefits, and the amenities needed in order to survive was heartbreaking. The turmoil that Public Aid and sent my father through is enough to make ANYONE give up; however, he never gave …show more content…
Happiness is a huge determining factor for decisions I make. If it’s not beneficial or creating happiness in my life, I will surely end it or redirect my focus away from it. Why? How can I devote my all to something I do not love when there is potentially someone who will be fully invested? Life throws curveballs at the most random moments and being flexible is important to avoid destruction. Being flexible allows me to adjust quickly in completing any task that comes before me while also preparing me for a change. Lastly, resiliency allows me to keep pushing forward. Major setbacks allows for a major
No one is perfect. Everyone grows up in their own unique way. Adults are supposed to demonstrate to children how to be polite and live in the real world. With a doubt, a child’s parents have the most substantial impact on their future. Most parents love their kids and raise them with positivity so they can grow up to be better than them.
When I went to high school, I went to a private school. My parents were always active in our lives. They went to our school activities and always took an interest in our lives. We were not rich, by any means. My father had to quit grade school to help his mother take care of his 7 brothers and sisters. His father was an alcoholic and never cared for any of the children. I believe for everything my dad did for his mother carried over to his adult hood by not wanting to repeat any of his father’s actions.
Ever since I was a young child, my parents always told me to try my best in school, they always told me this for the reason that they never had the opportunity to have a good job because they never finished school. This event is shaping me to care a lot regarding my education. In addition to that, another event that has shaped me to become the person I am today is that since my parents don’t have good paying jobs they have to work hard to take care of me and my siblings this event has caused me to become a hard working person and to seize all opportunities to live a good life because I don’t want to struggle like my parents.
From a young age, my parents taught me to care and serve others. Although they had very little western education, my parents became successful business owners and community leaders largely due to hard work and dedicated service to people. They always told me that I could succeed in anything I choose to do. They understood the value of education and supported me in all my endeavors.
My parents as well as my extended family have been crucial in providing the foundation for my beliefs, attitudes and values. I grew up
More than 5 years ago, I found myself in the exact same position that Susan Wolf had found herself in with her father. In my case, it was the end of life care for an elderly aunt who had no other family and as such, became a part of mine. She was my ward in a way, fully reliant and dependent on me in so many ways due to her advanced age. I thought that she was a very healthy person and could possibly go on living forever since she was under constant medical care. But all the medical care that the doctors could provide for her could not remove the nagging pains that seemed to be ravaging her fast aging body.
"Happiness is a risk. If you’re not a little scared, then you’re not doing it right” (Allen). Happiness cannot be achieved easily and if people truly yearn for it, they must defy their community. An individual will interfere with the society’s rules, publicly humiliate themselves & risk others to influence their society.
If you are in charge of your own happiness, then you are in charge of your actions. Many of those actions can include taking a risk and living in the moment. In order to experience life and live it to the fullest then sometimes we have to get out of our comfort zone. We need to be vulnerable and open to new things. New things can be exciting and challenging. This can lead to feeling many emotions including happiness. Not everything in life is going to be easy but if you determine how you are going to feel then you will be able to live a more fulfilling life. Your happiness is key in determining how you live your life. This is how you bounce back from hard times and how you go about living. Resilience is a powerful act that we obtain. This involves a process of dealing with everything and all the emotions and bouncing back. You decide whether you are going to be sad or happy about the situation that you were placed in. That decision will determine your life and will change
It was near the end of winter 2005 when my grand-aunt suddenly fell ill. In a short period, her illness worsened and the doctors informed my family, my grand-aunt only had a couple of months to live. The news was devastating to my family as we watched a vivacious, independent, and outspoken woman, who enjoyed shopping, reading mystery novels and spending time with family become very weak and confined to her bed. Instead of placing my grand-aunt in a hospice facility, my family and I, with the assistance of a hospice nurse cared for my grand-aunt in her home until her passing.
Happiness can lead to a valuable life. In spite of this, your own happiness will be forgotten eventually or maybe not even remembered at all. Humans busy themselves
Happiness plays an important role in how one lives their life in the world. Our quality of life is, for the most part, determined by our levels of happiness. When one’s happiness dips into low levels, one will struggle with continuing on in life. Happiness brings a motivation for one to be successful in life and make the most of their lifetime. Without happiness, several people will take a different approach to life which is no life at all (suicide). Everyone needs happiness to bring purpose into their life. For this reason, it is a popular occurrence to search
I truly won the “parent lottery.” My mom and dad have always been enormous inspirations in my life. My dad came from a family where he essentially had to raise himself, and never had the opportunity to attend college. My mom came from the closed-off communist East Germany. They did not have much, but together, they had the drive to provide for my sister and me. With that desire, they became successful in their own ways and gave me a life where I never felt deprived. They were determined to give me all the opportunities they did not have. I was rewarded with something more valuable than money: I received unconditional support and encouragement. Along with their encouragement, my parents always stressed the importance of an education and continually learning. They instilled a passion for learning into me. I
To start off, happiness can be achieved by focusing on on what will make you happy in the future. Daniel Gilbert, a social psychologist, and Professor of Psychology at Harvard University, states in Source #1 that when it comes to predicting how you’ll feel in the future, you are most likely wrong. This means that a new car, lot of money, big house, will only make you adapt to those things, and won’t leave you happy for long. In fact, those things will most likely make life more complicated, and often leave you stressed. Gilbert and his collaborator Tim Wilson came to the conclusion that humans experience the dimming excitement over not just a new car, but also over an object or event that they presume will make them happy. It’s important to choose the things that will make you happy in the future. This includes maybe spending time with friends and families, doing a
taught me that hard work pays off. As a child, if I wanted to do something, my parents always made sure to remind me that it would require a lot of hard work. For example, I started playing softball in the second grade and continued to play till I was a freshman in high school. When tryouts for our high school softball team came around the corner, my father--whom was a lover of softball and baseball--kept reminding me to work hard. He told me that no matter the outcome, I could still look back and be proud of all of the hard work and effort I gave. My parents never expected one-hundred percent from me, but they always made sure to encourage e me and that I was working as hard as a I could to succeed.
For many people happiness is a condition that the many would consider temporary, which is because they let external situations get in between. Being emotionally stable and happy can create a positive effect on the world. We can all relate back to when we undergo some difficult times, or not feeling the greatest. However, I know when it's me in that position, I don't