Justice Chambers
Mr. Gravett
English 101
13 Nov 2017
Are We Giving Children TOO Many Trophies? In today’s society we tend to praise children by giving them plaques, trophies, and medals for anything; even just showing up. We are afraid that our children will be hurt because they lost. That thought makes us oblivious to the fact that we are sending a dangerous message to our children: Everyone's a winner. We are teaching our children that it is never okay to lose, so we make an excuse to make them a winner. Parents, coaches, and league directors should be against giving participation awards. Putting this false claim of “everyone's a winner” in their minds is only setting them up for failure and will never teach them the truth of the real world. Parents and league directors should stop allowing participation trophies because it creates unmotivated generations, makes kids feel that they are entitled to a reward, and does not give a true reality of what the real world is like outside of our adolescent years. Showing up for the sport or event that you are signed up for does not require a trophy. In our society today we are handing trophies out like candy and the value of a trophy is quickly depleting. Ultimately in the long run, this is not allowing these kids to distinguish when they should be rewarded for their accomplishments. Awarding kids for trying, will not drive this generation to want more from themselves. They will settle for less and their work ethic will be lacking.
May think if their children get a participation trophy, that represents failure to partake in a sport. Meaning they think their child is simply unable to do this and should move on. While this could be true, participation trophies have also been known to not make young children not want to give up. As shown in paragraph 4) of Parker Abates passage titled “In Youth Sports, Participation Trophies Send a Powerful Message”. Abate then states...
Participation trophies only hurt kids. These trophies have been given out in many sports for decades but they do not mean much to older children. Something as simple as golden painted plastic will not keep a child playing for long after their first years. Children must also be taught how to compete early on. These trophies create a lack of competition in youth athletes and should not be given to children above the age of ten to help teach them life skills and to protect them from struggling in their future lives when they will have to compete for jobs.
Is giving kids participation trophies beneficial to children, or motivation killers? Many people all around the U.S. have their opinions for both sides of the discussion. James Harrison, linebacker for the Pittsburgh Steelers, has weighed in on this topic. In many people’s eyes, his beliefs make a lot of sense, they understand where he’s coming from and what he is speaking about. Carol Dweck also made a statement to NPR about her belief’s on the topic. There are millions of important facts that need to be talked about with this epidemic: an estimated fifty-seven percent said “only winners” should receive a trophy for participation in kids sports, giving out participation trophies is tantamount to giving kids the wrong kind of praise, and this
Do we give children too many trophies? According to Bob cook a sports father of four, “when it comes to participation trophies in my experience kids know the score.” Therefore at the end of the day, a trophy for involvement is a gift, and children are aware. Based on the facts and anecdotal evidence we are not giving children too many trophies. These pieces of plastic are a source of memorabilia. In addition, the trophy does not reflect the kid’s attitude towards hard work.
In an age where everyone is expected to be recognized, there must be an understanding that the world does not progress by congratulating the “average.” I believe that giving participation trophies makes people stop competing; especially if the trophies are given at a very early age. For example, a team of small children have a terrible baseball season, but it’s okay! Because the coach gives out trophies to everyone. This in turn only teaches the child that no matter how bad life gets, they will always be rewarded. Participation trophies create future generations of entitled adults as seen by today’s generation. We need to reward kids that work hard for what they do for the sake of risk and reward. That is simply how progress is made in society. Yet I agree with one point made by the opposing side. I believe that participation should be recognized sometimes. Participation can teach kids that teamwork matters in every little aspect of society. Participation trophies should be eliminated but participation should still merely just be recognized with a pat on the back as said by Betty Berdan, a high school junior from Connecticut. Participation trophies overall hinder the growing and learning process of kids; whether it is through sports, or any other competitive involvement.
Participation trophies are a highly debated topic among childrens sports. Many people beleive it is unessarcary, while others beleive it boosts self-esteem to non-confident young athletes. Participation Trophies should not be handed out because kids will learn that if the just give a little effort towards accomplishing something they will get rewarded.
Participation trophies are the worst things that ever happened to society! Most sports are rewarding undeserving trophies that are giving a false hope to the “winners”. The sports that are giving out participation trophies are teaching the athletes who don’t try that it’s fine, and is making them think that everyone owes them something. Children who don’t try and don’t care about the sport they are playing don’t deserve a trophy. In an interview with Stanford psychology professor Carol Dweck, she comments that kids should not be given trophies simply for participating, “Her daughter rarely showed up for her soccer team.
A new trend across America has risen in sports. Event officials are doling out participation trophies in massive numbers. The question is, are these participation trophies negatively changing the basic American values we treasure in these children? Yes, participation trophies are shaping a new cultural norm of entitlement and it promotes a new attitude of doing nothing, yet still being rewarded for it. This trend must be put to a halt and reversed. Participation trophies are not the answer to making kids feel better about themselves.
David McCullough once said, “If everyone is special, then no one is. If everyone gets a trophy, trophies become meaningless.” Participation trophies were introduced to society in the early 1920s to reward kids not for ability but merely for participation in sports. Over time, participation trophies have been found to have positive and negative effects on children. Today, the world is in a debate over whether or not kids should receive these trophies.
That is what I think the participation trophies are doing to kids. When I was a kid my dad was always my coach during sports and if we were ever given those trophies he would tell the people that we did not want them. Maybe some kids so not understand the meaning of them but on my team we all did. “Giving everyone a trophy will not prepare them for the real world.” - Ashley Merryman, the co-author of “Nature Shock: New Thinking About Children.” I agree with her 100%. When kids do not try hard in the real world, they will most likely be fired from their job. If they are just given trophies they will not learn that sometimes they have to do more than just show up. There was an Olympic Gold Medalist say “losing was the best thing that ever happened to them, because it made them want to work harder.” Now I do not know who it was that said that but it makes complete sense.There has been some conversation about Kevin Durant just trying to find an easy way to get a trophy. In 2016, Durant left the Oklahoma City Thunder and went and played for the best team in the league the Golden State Warriors. I think that is exactly what he did, he did not earn that trophy. Everyone hated what he did because the Warriors beat the Thunder the year before in the playoffs. Earning the trophy is the best feeling ever. When I was a kid when my team would not win a game, it made us want to come out the next game and try even
What did they do to earn the trophy? Nothing whatsoever besides showing their faces at a game or practice. Life is not fair “ A student does not get an A just for going to class.” (Tarshis 2), in other words they should not get a trophy for showing up at a game or practice, the trophy does not reward proper effort yes you are boosting up the child's confidence in all but in the end are
Studies show that trophies can lose their meaning if everyone receives one.If youth athletes keep receiving trophies when they don't earn them, then youth athletes will start expecting that you can win at everything but that is not always true. Parents and guardians are displeased by the fact that youth athletes are not trying to win trophies because they know that they will automatically receive one, but youth athletes don't play for trophies, they play to have fun.
Participation trophies are changing kids ideas of winning around the globe in many ways. First off, it gives children the wrong impression on working or putting an effort towards something. Trophies are something you should have to earn. Life doesn’t give you a participation medal, you have to earn it (Website #2). Kids just need to learn that
Children that receive awards for showing up to sit around and talk is not an accomplishment. If someone wants to give an award to every person on the team, then make it an award for teamwork. Give kids prizes for having spirit, for improving, for hard work, for anything other than participation. To give a child a participation trophy is a one way ticket for that child to believe that nothing needs to be done and that they will be rewarded. Children do deserve awards, but not for nothing.
Fortunately there is an adequate solution for solving the issue of presenting participation trophies. Instead of handing out participation trophies as a reward no matter the end result, a more appropriate method is to commend the child’s effort through praise and smaller rewards. Dr. Jonathan Fader a sports psychologist that states “studies have shown that we’re more committed to an activity when we do it out of passion, rather than an external reward such as a trophy.” Fader goes on to say we need to praise our kids on process, not results. A team should have values set in place, like having personal goals, working hard to be successful and respecting everyone. Kenneth Barish a psychology professor at Cornell University says “We want kids