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Personal Narrative: My College Basketball Career Ending Injury

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Thank you for sharing a little about yourself. I am sorry to hear about your college basketball career ending injury. Life always has a strange way of directing us in the path that is right for us. I also had a similar situation in high school. I was a year round competitive swimmer who was nationally ranked high in USA Swimming for the 200-meter free style, the 200-meter breaststroke and the 400-meter individual medley. I ended up having a groin and hip joint injury that resulted in giving up my full ride scholarships. At the time it was devastating after swimming year round for 12 year, however the universe had a different plan for me. It is great that you are excited about your degree in Family and Human Development. It is always refreshing …show more content…

We started our relationship already having issues with trust. She was basing her trust in our relationship compared to her lack of trust in her previous relationships. Even though we had various unbalanced degrees of knowledge, interdependence, caring, responsiveness, mutuality and commitment, it still wasn’t enough to carry or make up for the trust component. Our text mentions, “ None of these components is absolutely required for intimacy to occur and each may exist when the other are absent.” (p. 3) This statement was true for me because we had very intimate moments and even long periods in our relationship, however like you said, it all catches up to the relationship. The challenge for me was that she did feel unworthy and have self-doubt even though I had done nothing to make her not trust me. It all had to do with the insecurities of her previous relationships. This is when my disagreements overlap with my agreements, which makes the first two chapters so interesting for me. I am excited to learn more and not only learn so much more about relationships but also have an understand of why things happened the way they did. My disagreement is at what point is the individual who is feeling unworthy, doubt, unwanted, not heard or cared for is taking responsibility for what they are feeling or creating in their head. This does not mean that I do not think what they are feeling is not valid. What we feel

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