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Personal Narrative: Gender Identity And Gender Stereotypes

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I grew as a kid who didn’t understand how to express myself with words. I was the child of a single mother who raised me gender neutrally so I was never told I couldn’t do anything I wanted to do. When I was in second grade a teacher told me that I couldn’t be a hair dresser because that was for girls and that I had to be a barber instead. I had no idea why she told me this so accepted what she said because I was just a kid and at that age the adults are always right. As a teenager I came out as gay to my parents but at first I told them I was bisexual as a softer blow because I wasn’t sure and it gave them hope that they could still have grandchildren. I knew I should have told them I was only attracted to men but I wanted to explore the …show more content…

I am a queer, gender-fluid, male of color and because of that I have a hard time getting through my day to day life. I present as male mostly and since I am a black man I don’t have the leisure of going anywhere alone without looking like a threat unlike white men. Dating is also another strenuous task because of the color of my skin. I’ve been told on many occasions that I wasn’t worth of someone since I’m black. It’s really disheartening and I’ve internalized all of these issues and can’t see myself as good enough and will catch myself saying “I wish I were white” on many occasions. I say this mostly as coping mechanism and a way of saying I wish I had more opportunities. As a kid a dreamt of marriage. It was thrown in my face left and right due to the media I was exposed to growing up. I idolized the Disney princesses and none such more than The Little Mermaid. She got married as a teenager and had a child less than a year or two after. I thought this was the norm and no one told me the opposite until I was a teen. I get married when the time is right but right now I want to know why other people get married. Is it for a movement or for other reasons? Ultimately I going to say it is for love because that’s what I want to do when the time

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