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Personal Narrative: An Empty Nest Syndrome

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Shedding a Little Light Changes are a natural progression through life. They either come on their own, without our consent, beyond our control, or because we took control and strove for it. Changes can be good, neutral, or bad. But one thing is for certain, there will always be changes. A change I never thought of, or anticipated, was the phase in life when my children would be young adults and leave home. Some refer to as having an empty nest, it is a stage in life when our off-spring leave home and we no longer have children to care for. Empty Nest Syndrome sounds rather humorous, but it is an actual condition that both mothers and fathers can experience with this transition of life. When I first heard the term I was a teenager and …show more content…

This can also disrupt sleep patterns, relationships with other in and out of the household, affect work and other everyday events. A comparative adjustment disorder is Post-Partum Depression. Many women experience it on different levels and varying degrees of mixed emotions, stages, and phases, and the empty nest syndrome can also be viewed in much the same …show more content…

It is just that this is the phase of my parenting that was never on my mind. I always wanted to be a mother, I knew it was going to be the role of a lifetime, but I never thought ahead to when that role would end. I always wanted to have babies, but they grew into teens and I’ve accepted that. What about when my teens become adults? This only occurred to me in the last two years. I won’t be stripped of the title “Mom”, but my role will be smaller in their lives. I do not think parenting ever has an ending; I still go to my parents for guidance, support, and comfort to this day. “Mom, the over-involved, over-protective, over-indulgent, over-identified, over-suffering, therefore, over-bearing mother, whom nobody likes, and with whom few sympathize” (Oliver, 87). Could this be me? I don’t think so. I watched close enough to make sure they did right and were safe, but then I walked away. I asked enough questions to hear in their voices and see in their body language that they were emotionally well. I kept my fears, anxieties, and worry-some thoughts to myself and suffered in silence so they would want to test the

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