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Divorce. A shaping tool that impacts the child’s future immensely. With no additional income source, my fresh off the boat mother had to work constantly to keep the bowls filled with rice. However as a direct result, I would have to take care of myself as my mother was rarely at home. My strict mother would never let me outside so I filled my time with video games. Alone with my video games, no one can question my actions or behavior. With only a mother as a role model, I develop a feminine personally. I thought I was just a normal boy, and growing up with this mentality became problematic. Combined with my mentality and higher pitch voice, people would make fun of me and never took me seriously. I never understood why causing me to stay in …show more content…

My great uncle was a rugged person like a Sylvester Stallone character. He and many others like him tried to escape Vietnam, at a time when post war Vietnam was harsh against its southern people. The troubling time caused him to become the man that he is today: Stiff, strict, and sharp. Living with him for two week introduced a clash between our different upbringings. I knew he didn’t like me because the feminine me is not how a normal boy should act. However me fearing becoming a disappointment to my great uncle, I had to relate to him in some way. My approach was to change myself to be more “manly”. I stepped into his shoes. To become dominant and confident and not be too girlish. My action to force similarly to our difference ultimately changed who I was. I realized that my feminine self was not being taken seriously because I acted like a child. When I acted more manly towards other people, including my great uncle, their tone and expression were more serious and more endearing. Being surrounded by females all of my life made me miss the important aspects of being a male. Noone was going to take me seriously if I,a male, acted feminine my whole life. I just needed to grow

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