“One Day”
My mother would start the mornings with a “Levantese que hay mucho que hacer”, in translation, “Wake up there is so much to do today”. Every day, the wakeup call was at 5:30 in the morning and it started with a list of chores. Occasionally, we would sleep until 7:30 in the morning on the weekends to more chores and whatever else was on the list. My mother was regimental and the “A” typical Latina mother, very old school. Not a day went by where my brother and me didn’t do chores and helped around the house. Lord forbit that she would have to repeat herself twice on our individual chores. She constantly reminded me that one day I would become a wife and would have to know how to take care of my family, “A man does not like a lazy wife and you would want to stay married to the same man you have exchanged vowels with”, she would say. Seeing that she was remarried two times already, I did not understand why she would expect it from me. None -the-less, I did what I was told and without any galivanting I accomplished every task assigned to me.
Eventually, once my chores were completed, I was asked to help with meal preparations. That was always accompanied with her savvy words, “One day, you will be on your own and
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My expectations for my kids are very similar and I to give them my savvy “One Day” wisdoms. My children now do chores, can cook for themselves, save money and do well in school. I tell them “One day I will not be here to guide you and I am preparing you to be independent men. As your mother I want you to be able succeed in whatever you do. I want you to get good grades and I want you to learn to prepare a meal for yourself and these chores will get you used to a lifestyle of having responsibilities that one day in the future you will
An entire day went by after the events of encountering the Sangrine Syndicate. Isaac sat outside on the fire escape with Epsilon, both drinking canned soda and soaking up the sun’s rays. Even though they had known each other for a short time, they managed to get along extremely well. Inside, Gerard, Malessica and Claire moved around the kitchen preparing breakfast for everyone. Yuri sat down on the couch, reading one of the books from the table. Sabra laid down in bed, slowly opening her eyes, looking around the bedroom. She sat up in her bed, finding bandages wrapped around her arms and torso, grunting in pain. Placing her index and middle finger on her forehead, she exhaled sharply.
Living in a Latino household, unabating nagging was as common as the dust we swept every day. A motto my mother would always repeat to me was “es una vergüenza llegar a un lugar con las manos vacías” which translates to, “you should never arrive somewhere empty-handed.” It sounded strident when she first said it to me, just as many of her other sayings were, but she colored them with her values, which made them lessons rather than just nagging. Mom reminds me of the value of hard and quality work. She never let me leave the kitchen until the dishes were washed, dried, and put away. Our doors were always open; she never let a guest leave on an empty stomach. She takes care of the ones who took care of her, and expects the same of me. These and many more were her Salvadorian hallmarks that I rejected at first, but now treasure like an invaluable inheritance.
“This is a terrible idea.” Percival gave a solemn shake of his head. “Absolutely terrible.”
I came home from school just like any other day. It was around the end of the fourth grade and I was very exited for summer to be here! I noticed an unusual box sitting in the corner of the room but I paid it no attention as a rambled on to my mom, what I thought was a sectaculer day! Later my dad called my sister and I to the kitchen table to talk. The first thing that crossed my mind was, “oh Lord, what have we done now?” Instead, my dad pointed at the box in the corner. He told us to go look inside and tell him if we recognized where the things were from. As I look down into the box, I recognize the pictures of my family and the past fathers day gifts my sister or I had given my dad over the years that he always had sitting on his desk at
Hello, welcome back with another and only post by Adam. So Yesterday I went home from school and my parents were at home too because they off from work that day. After, I went home and change into my wrestling stuff, my parents take me to Cudahy. My match against Jacob N and and he's on my weight class, but he way bigger than me. The score was 18- 5 and I though is gonna be hard for to win against him, but I know I will try my best to win the match. I win all my match since when the wrestling season
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One day kevin was at the zoo playing with his friends talking they were talking about how he could play basketball and he could shoot a 3 pointer. And he said that he would do better by slam dunking it and hanging on to the rim. There was a tiny problem there was no rim so they had to figure out what to do so they just sat around talking about how kevin could dance and drive. Then it was about 3 in the morning and kevin and his friends heard something outside but they just turned over in their bed’s and went back to bed then they all heard a loud BOOM!!! So they all jumped outta bed and looked at each other and looked around and went outside to see where the loud boom had came from. When they got outside there they loud noise was again
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The technique to be used is by asking your kid lots and lots of questions , which encourages them to find their best interest answers .Start with a very simple way by giving them the options to choose what they would want to eat for tiffin tomorrow or question their willingness to go out for an outing or a social event. Let them take the decision of what they want to eat , how they want to look and where they want to go for the evening. This decisive power makes them value their time and resources. They gather self-control and become risk takers. They would know what is good for them and what fits in their best interest. Kids will trouble us less when we mothers take them out or be happier staying home with their elders. One of the major issues
The wind blew softly, pressing against my skin; the heat was humid, sweat licking down my back. Leaves danced in the wind, like ballerina's taking their turn in the spotlight afters years of practice. It was a nice day, and Autumn day, a day for family activities. It was cold enough to need a long sleeved shirt and pants, maybe even sweats. But it wasn’t so bad to wear layers upon layers of clothing. It was a normal day in the small town of Duncan, a mix between everything. I felt the breeze ruffling my hair, but complaints about the heat were all that was talked about.
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