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My Latino Family: How My Mom Changed My Life

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Living in a Latino household, unabating nagging was as common as the dust we swept every day. A motto my mother would always repeat to me was “es una vergüenza llegar a un lugar con las manos vacías” which translates to, “you should never arrive somewhere empty-handed.” It sounded strident when she first said it to me, just as many of her other sayings were, but she colored them with her values, which made them lessons rather than just nagging. Mom reminds me of the value of hard and quality work. She never let me leave the kitchen until the dishes were washed, dried, and put away. Our doors were always open; she never let a guest leave on an empty stomach. She takes care of the ones who took care of her, and expects the same of me. These and many more were her Salvadorian hallmarks that I rejected at first, but now treasure like an invaluable inheritance. …show more content…

Just like what I had known my whole life, it was a church that was mostly Latino. At first sight, it appeared homogenous, but with almost ten years there, I realized I was utterly wrong. There were men and women from Mexico, Honduras, Guatemala, and Columbia, each with their own lingos, cultural beliefs, and attitudes. For some of the men and women there, just a single border separated them, yet it seemed like they were oceans apart as people. Save for the occasional squabble, they stupefied me with their openness and cooperation toward each other, and even more with the wisdom they shared with me. At that point, I had only known how a Salvadorian lived, but through my time at church, it was as if I was getting a perfect panorama shot of the diversity I never

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