My Dead Valentine Suffocating from the fumes of grief, I could barely breathe. My hands quivered as I grasped for the slick bathroom counter only to hit the floor instead. Choking on hair soaked with salty tears, I gazed with my bloodshot eyes at the grimy floor drain speckled with rust. My hysterical mumbles uttered with a low, raspy voice echoed off the tiled walls, “Dead...she’s dead...she’s dead...dead.” I spoke these miserable words on a dismal Valentine’s day when my dear friend Brooklyn Kress slid off of a chair not to fall to the floor but to hang to her demise. Death became real, life became precious, and relationships became a priority after my confidant turned to ash. Valentine’s day of my sophomore year started out like any typical school day. I worked my way through class after class forcing myself to stay awake as I anticipated the cheesy Valentine’s day plans awaiting for me and my significant other. By the time fourth period rolled around, I was dozing off in band, but my cellular device chiming with urgency awoke me. Chelsea Davis, an old friend of mine, was blowing up my phone with text after text asking me to answer quickly. Hastily, I texted Chelsea with a brief, “Hello. She soon replied back by saying, “I need to tell you some bad news...do you remember Brooklyn Kress?” My heart started to beat briskly as I began to fear what she was going to tell me next. The following two words her fingers carelessly typed were going to haunt me for the next seven
Death consumes the world, there has been almost three million deaths so far with only three weeks into the year. There are people all over the world who come face to face with death daily. It seems as if death roams the world. Some deaths are more tragic than others. In the story Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck, several people die but the death of Curley’s wife was the most tragic of all. She was unjustly murdered and she didn’t even have an identity. When she died, she left the world in loneliness, in the end no one ever got to know her or mourn her death. She died alone. Innocent people die every minute, she was one of those innocent people. One minute, a person can be full of life and the next they’re gone.
Death is simply a part of life, and, is therefore, inevitable. Losing a loved one, or watching the life slowly leave them over time, can be can be an extremely painful experience. However, it can teach a person about themselves and the world around them. In the short memoir, “The Aquarium,” Aleksandar Hemon uses the fatal illness of his daughter, Isabel to communicate the idea that life is full of trials and tribulations that cannot be avoided and that said trials can cause a person to feel ostracized from those who are close to them.
Rhonda, a friend of Andy’s, writes about her most frightening moment for her English homework. She chooses to write about the accident, stating, “I thought we’d all come back for our reunions and then we'd get old, and then, when we're so old it doesn't matter anymore, we’d die. But he's dead already. I didn't think it was possible. And that's why it's so scary.” Like many people, Rhona has likely never experienced the death of a close one before in her life. So when death strikes, it’s overwhelming and people often don’t know how to react. Before my grandmother passed away, only distant relatives I barely knew had died, so this became the first time I lost someone I truly cared for. But, like Rhonda, I could never prepare myself for when she did die. It’s incredibly scary to lose someone you love, and it’s especially hard when you aren’t sure of how to deal with death. The author included this section to relate to the readers, because most of them know the scary and confusing feelings after someone you care for dies and you’re struck with the reality of mortality.
The central theme of this essay is the death of a loved one. Bill Moyers captures the lives of three patients facing death; Jim, Kitty and Ricky. The despair is quite evident. This factor contributes to conflicting emotions by the dying and loved ones. Initially, the loved ones maintain a strong face in the midst of the uncertain outcome, eventually they break down as reality dawns on them.
Patrick Ness masterfully grants his readers not only a beautiful story of loss, but also a compelling example that displays the truth of the grieving process. Although denied by the protagonist, his story is that of grieving his mother, who while still alive, is undeniably going to die. Some may wonder that it is possible to grieve for someone who is still alive. However, according to Okun and Nowinski, prolonged deaths are in many ways replacing quick ones, drawing out the process of a loved one dying. “...Death has become less and less a sudden and unexpected event. In its place has come a process that... ends eventually in death. This process means that… the family (is) increasingly confronted with the need to ‘live with death’...”(Okun
I walked towards the Bleeding Heart Cemetery. The cool October wind blew against my frame, making me wish I wore a coat. I readjusted my grip on my oxygen tank. As I neared Augustus’ grave, the sun light captured the diamond ring Isaac gave me. My stomach flopped upside down. Although the wedding is in 2 weeks, I still felt unsure. I mean, who in their right minds marries their dead boyfriend’s best friend? I slipped the ring into my jean pocket. I located Augustus’ grave and sat down. I felt my stomach churn, realizing I haven’t visited him in months.
The journey that Richard and Mildred Loving took is important for history and for the future of civil rights in the United States. I recently watched the documentary The Loving Story and enjoyed the footage, pictures, and interviews of everyone involved in the Loving v. Virginia case. The documentary addressed the issue of interracial marriage in Virginia in 1967.
During the 19th century many writers began to publish works with sentimental plots. Generally the sentimental plot is written to make the reader feel an excess of unnecessary emotions, by overemphasizing every work. In every sentimental plot there will always be the typical sentimental hereon that fits the stereotype of a young orphan, unmarried women with moral obstacles. In this plot there are only two types of women the ones that are considered good and the ones that are bad. In the sentimental plot the good will get rewarded by marrying a decent man and the bad will always die. Even though this plot was very popular among writers many women were not happy with how the women were being portrayed among men writers so they decided to go
I slipped beneath the surface of the pool of grain, my hands sticking straight up over my head as I held my breath, preparing for death. I was preparing for the world to go silent. This was the exact situation my father had warned me about, and I had fallen victim to it despite that. Fourteen years old as of two months ago, and death had already come for me. Or so I thought. I felt firm, callused hands grasp my own, plucking me from my grave. The relief was wonderful. I drank the air in, filling my burning lungs with as much as possible. I almost laughed out of sheer happiness – until my eyes met my father’s.
has sucked his blood and hers and he is now using this flea as an
On a crisp early morning in November I walked to my first class of the day, a student in a dark green sweater ran past me, while I thought nothing of it what I did not know was that he had just stabbed four people. I turned around as two officers in plain clothes chased him and I looked on in confusion as the assailant was abruptly shot and killed. It is often easy to forget the everyday emotions and feelings of the people around us, even more so when these sensations are recounted on the evening news or a few sheets of paper on (of?) a patient's chart. In the weeks that followed that unfortunate event, I searched for some meaning, some way to move on or possibly grow. I found that I could appreciate the depth and significance of each person
now. The only thing I can do now is pray and hope. To pray that I will
Day of the Dead is a Mexican holiday celebrated throughout Mexico, in particular the Central and South regions, and acknowledged around the world in other cultures. The holiday focuses on gatherings of family and friends to pray for and remember friends and family members who have died, and help support their spiritual journey. In 2008 the tradition was inscribed in the Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity by UNESCO.
On January 19, 2013; I watched a woman die. This woman was my great-grandmother, whom I was very close with. This was the first of two times I would ever see someone die in person. Seeing someone die is strange. If you’ve never seen it, I don’t recommend it. Let’s step back a bit, I’ve always been perplexed by death. It’s very strange. Whenever I think of it too much, I cry. It’s perplexed me ever since I was about four-years-old. “What do you mean they’re dead?” I would inquire. The concept to me was absolutely bonkers. In the blink of an eye, someone’s whole existence and all of their fathomable future achievements are gone. It is in every sense, a profligate process.
Today was funeral day. My mom’s funeral. It was a dark October thursday, the clouds were brewing a storm. A slight breeze disturbed my neck. My uncomfortable suit sleeves bellowed in the cold breeze.. I hadn’t felt any emotions since the day of her death, which was weeks ago, almost as if my emotion is grey. It was warm then, as my mind was too. Nowadays, up until today, my mind has been a dark fog, as if my mind was released into the sky, darkening everyone’s day, arriving at my mom’s funeral or just to cuddle up with their friends and family in front of a warm crackling fire, telling the stories of their childhood and how times were better. Not me, my dad usually ignored me and he only worked on managing my mom’s fortune. Yeah. My mom’s