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My Definition Of Success

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Imagine living in a mansion, driving a new car, and having a happy marriage with healthy children, respected status in your community, and an impressive career where you have worked your way to the top. All of these things would no doubt be considered successes in your life. I think that most people would be willing to do nearly anything to be in this position, and would have this be the standard for which they compare themselves. Merriam-Webster.com defines success as “the fact of getting or achieving wealth, respect, or fame”. The big house, the family, and the career absolutely demonstrate the efficacy of this description. However, not everybody views those things as necessary to be successful. Some people have different ideas. Success can …show more content…

He has difficulty with fine motor skills, forgets many of his daily tasks, such as brushing his teeth or taking a shower, and has a slower reaction time than most kids his age. As a result, he struggles in school. Last year, my husband and I had Daniel tested by a pediatric neuropsychologist, who told us that he would likely never be able to drive a car, and would probably need an adult guardian once he turned eighteen. The doctor also told us that college or a full-time job would not be possible for Daniel’s future. Basically, we were told that Daniel would never be as successful as someone without this injury. I was, understandably, very upset at this news, and I considered briefly the possibility that my child would not be able to overcome his obstacles. He might not be able to follow the path to success that I had always believed in. Traditional success was not in his …show more content…

We enrolled him in a special education program at his school and put him on an individualized education plan. We met with his teachers, counselors, and doctors to determine the best course of action to help him finish high school. After school, we spent a couple of hours every day helping him to understand any confusing concepts that he learned about that day. We also helped him organize and complete his homework, which was an incredibly challenging task. I felt as though I was overcoming Daniel’s obstacles as well, right alongside him. I was certain that he was capable of improving, but I was not so confident in my ability to help him. I was afraid that I would

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