Mr. Holland’s Opus is a film that follows the life of Mr. Glenn Holland from the 1960s to the 1990s (Herek, 1995). Mr. Holland was a musician, a teacher, a husband, a father, and a friend, yet his character had flaws. The movie portrayed not only the highlights of Mr. Holland’s life, but also the trials he experienced and the mistakes he made. Furthermore, the story examined how he used interpersonal concepts such as confirming and disconfirming messages, defensive and supportive behaviors, and handled conflict throughout his life. “Social scientists use the term confirming communication to describe messages that convey valuing, and disconfirming communication to describe those that show a lack of regard” (Adler, 2005, p.333). One type of confirming message Mr. Holland used was recognition. Recognition occurred when Mr. Holland stopped the entire band class when Louis Russ finally found the beat on the drums (Herek, 1995). Mr. Holland recognized Russ’s success and applauded him for his accomplishment (Herek, 1995). On the other hand, Mr. Holland also used disconfirming messages. For example, he verbally abused his students when the entire class performed poorly on an exam. He proceeded to yelled at the students and criticized them by saying, “These tests are pathetic” (Herek,1995). In addition to confirming and disconfirming messages, Mr. Holland also exhibited the interpersonal concepts of defensive and supportive behaviors. “…Gibb was able to isolate six types of
“Stomach functions consist of emotions or feelings, the heart functions consist of giving and receiving support, suggestions, and concerns while remaining open to options and the head functions allow us to logically “incorporate thinking, planning, remembering, reviewing, deciding, rationalizing” (Petersen, 2007, p.68-72). As all of these areas exchange information results in the skewing of thoughts and hurtful language (Petersen, 2007). In retaliation, the recipient responds defensively and Petersen suggest that we constructively introduce the talker-listener process (Petersen, 2007). Next, Petersen explains that there are
Communication is an essential tool needed to advance several major processes in society. According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, communication is the act or process of using words, sounds, songs, or behaviors to express your ideas, thoughts, and feelings to someone else. Such interaction between human being is significant due to the innate fact that we as humans are social beings. Communication not only aids human beings in expressing ideologies, but in everyday duties such as education, work, medical care, and other key aspects. A lack of communication is dangerous in many circumstances. In two essays, “When Doctors Make Mistakes”, by Atul Gawande, and “Columbia’s Last Flight, by William Langewiesche the reader can perceive how a lack of communication can be lethal.
Throughout the essay I stated the connections between Suzy and Sam. I realized as I was writing this paper and as i read the screenplay that the connections these two young people had are connections adults look for throughout their life. The types of connections they shared are connections people look for in love and marriage. The actions in this screenplay are actual things that happen in the world and people’s day to day lives. This Wes Anderson screenplay can relate to so many people’s lives and real love situations that the world goes through. Not just young people but older adults as
Damien Chazelle’s critically acclaimed American drama film Whiplash (2014), presents a thought-provoking and confronting depiction of volatile and manipulative relationships, in which Andrew Niemen, a young ambitious jazz drummer is pushed to the brink of his ability and sanity by his ruthless teacher, Terence Fletcher. Nieman’s passion to achieve perfection quickly spirals into an obsession. Whiplash proving highly popular with audiences utilizes cinematography to explore the central themes, the battle between being a good person and being remembered and the effects of a volatile and manipulative student-teacher relationship. Whiplash utilizes conventions and ideas from the drama genre to communicate these central themes and film
On his final day as a teacher, the despairing Mr. Holland is led to the school auditorium, where his professional life is surprisingly redeemed. Hearing that their beloved
-pervasive pattern of detachment form social relationships and a restricted range of expression of emotions in interpersonal settings.
Emerging from early relating patterns, people develop a number of 'working models' (Bowlby 1980) or schemas (Young et al. 2005) about themselves and others. In cognitive interpersonal therapy it is the emotional core of these schemas that it is crucial to understand. These arise from previous, direct emotional experiences and are key to the sense of one's core identity. When they are activated they give rise to direct emotional experiences within the self (Guidano and Liotti 1983) and may not be easily coded into language. This does not mean that core emotional schemas arise only before language, as some suggest (Young 2004); it can also be their direct emotional quality (as in trauma and shame) which is important.
The purpose of Milgram’s experiment was to see how far people would go to obey authority. His scientific methods followed the scientific procedure and produced external validity. There were 20 variations of Stanley Milgram’s experiment some factors remained consistent throughout all variations, while some remained the same, while some changed. The four experimental conditions grew in intensity. In the first condition, also known as remote feedback, the learner was isolated from the subject and could not be seen or heard except at three hundred volts when he pounded on the wall. At three hundred and fifteen volts he was no longer heard from until the end of the experiment. The naive subject was required to keep administering shocks with an unresponsive human at the other end. Put yourself in the teacher’s shoes. In the second condition (voice feedback) the learner was placed in an adjacent room, when he started to shout and protest at lower shock levels he could be heard through the crack in the door. In the third
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Langeda Bontemps, Department of Psychology, Longwood University, Farmville, VA 23909. Email: langeda.bontemps@live.longwood.edu
This assignment will start by discussing two well-known theories known as ‘the cycle of communication’ by Michael Argyle and ‘the stages of communication’ by Bruce Tuckman. Firstly, it will look at Michael Argyle’s ‘The cycle of communication’.
Throughout the semester, we have studied numerous communication theories. Their purpose is to help understand exactly what happens when we interact with others. We might not necessarily agree with all of the theories, but the idea is to develop tools to evaluate situations we may encounter. Often, when the theories are explained in the readings or lecture, it is beneficial to apply the concepts to a "real life" situation. Using this approach, I will use a situation that many of us have faced, or will face, and analyze it according to a particular communication theory.
Mr. Holland has changed many lives throughout his adult life. In the movie Mr. Holland's Opus, his most successful role is being a teacher. Mr. Holland has inspired many students; those students took advice from Mr. Holland and they use it to benefit their own lives. Mr. Holland cared for his students; he stayed and help those who needed help he most. Mr. Holland also cared about his passion for music when the school decided to cut off the music program.
As previously discussed, we will concentrate our findings based on three communication concepts; empathy and empathic communication, self-disclosure, emotions and social influences of emotion.
Two of the most prevalent forms of communication styles are direct and indirect communication; these two communication styles impact how members of a culture interact with each other (Morreale & Pearson, 2008). According to Craddock (2002), Kierkegaard, regarded direct communication, “as the mode for transferring information and considered it totally appropriate to the fields of history, science, and related disciplines” (p. 70). Direct communication can be defined as, “speech that specifically states and directs an action. When someone hears direct speech, they know immediately what needs to be done. There is no question about who is in charge, and usually no need for discussion” (Gaddis, 2006, p. 11). On the other hand, Kiergaard believed that, “the indirect was the mode for eliciting capability and action from within the listener, a transaction that did not occur by giving the hearer some information” (Craddock, 2002, p. 70). Unlike direct communication, “a indirect style of speech is not typically authoritative, rather it encourages input from the listener” (Gaddis, 2006, p. 11). The direct and indirect communication styles are often used in different fields, disciplines, and industries ranging from education, workplace, literature, and entertainment, to church services (Morreale & Pearson, 2008). For example, the population relies on the news media as the main source of information and the basis on which they form their opinions and voting decisions” (Fog, 1999, p.