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Mr. Holland 's Opus

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Mr. Holland’s Opus is a film that follows the life of Mr. Glenn Holland from the 1960s to the 1990s (Herek, 1995). Mr. Holland was a musician, a teacher, a husband, a father, and a friend, yet his character had flaws. The movie portrayed not only the highlights of Mr. Holland’s life, but also the trials he experienced and the mistakes he made. Furthermore, the story examined how he used interpersonal concepts such as confirming and disconfirming messages, defensive and supportive behaviors, and handled conflict throughout his life. “Social scientists use the term confirming communication to describe messages that convey valuing, and disconfirming communication to describe those that show a lack of regard” (Adler, 2005, p.333). One type of confirming message Mr. Holland used was recognition. Recognition occurred when Mr. Holland stopped the entire band class when Louis Russ finally found the beat on the drums (Herek, 1995). Mr. Holland recognized Russ’s success and applauded him for his accomplishment (Herek, 1995). On the other hand, Mr. Holland also used disconfirming messages. For example, he verbally abused his students when the entire class performed poorly on an exam. He proceeded to yelled at the students and criticized them by saying, “These tests are pathetic” (Herek,1995). In addition to confirming and disconfirming messages, Mr. Holland also exhibited the interpersonal concepts of defensive and supportive behaviors. “…Gibb was able to isolate six types of

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