Sometimes you lie to not hurt someone,other times you lie just to be deceiving.
Sometimes a person can lie to someone when the case is really bad and you just have to or else it will cause pain,on the other hand some people lie to gain personal advantage. Lying is sometimes justified when you are in a case involving someone's feelings,but when you lie just to hurt someone you then become the image of a cruel person. When choosing to lie,you should only be in the position of having to lie for an emotional cause,if you lie just to damage a person emotionally your what you call a cheat. Lying is sometimes justified when you truly need to lie about something important ,but when you lie just for fun of it you are making yourself look like
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On the other hand Tim states if you tell a lie tell another until that one is covered up,which isn’t so good. The lie shoneta told to her mother was so her mother wouldn’t be mad,sad,or disappointed which was an act to not not hurt someone in this case her mom. On the other hand Tim wasn’t really upset with his decisions on lying and never getting to tell the truth. When you always lie you soon start to lose trust in yourself .But when you sometimes lie on certain things such as to keep someone from harm it's okay. Once a person lies bit by bit that person soon realizes how fake they are. When you lie to help someone you're saving one day without pain and stress. Once you step into the path of liars you lose the advantages of telling the truth,and being honest with other people,once people start to realize you lied they will see you as nothing else but a person with fake
Many time we lie because we don’t want to hurt or disappoint people when in return you are hurting yourself . I understand your action and have done the same myself. The statement you made we need to take a deeper look at the decisions that we make on daily basis is so true. Many time are white lie affect people. For , example if I call in sick and have no substitute to cover my class this cause a great effect on my students and coworker. When it would have been better to plan for a day off.
In In Austin Weekly News Loretta Ragsdell interviewed Tim who said, :Sometimes it the thing between you or a guaranteed beat down from your parents.” This shows that this can stop him from getting and in a way this lie is justified. Tim uses this form of lie to get him out of physical trouble with his parents. In Article 4 Loressa Ragsdell also interviewed Marianna who said, “ The best lie I ever told was when I had taken the car and didn’t get a chance to put it back before my mother knew it was gone. I told her that I had taken it to get it washed for her birthday surprise but the car wash was closed.:
Joud zahran 10.5 Lies And Deception We all lie, we all have our secrets are reasons to why. Some people might define lying as good, a way to spare another from pain or themselves. Others may see it badly. As for the definition of lies from dictionary.com “a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.”
1) Lie to someone can be justified or not? Parents teach us do not lie. My mother scolded me and my brother when we told her lie, and I remember from my childhood that lies is bad. I do not like to lie and I do not know how to lie. For example, when I try lie to someone my face turns red and my voice changes. So, everyone immediately can identify that I’m cheating. For me lie is a bad action, however, if my lie can save someone life I will lie. I have a friend who lie every day and every minute. She can’t live without cheating. She lives like in another world. Every day she fantasizes his life. For example, she can say I was in Florida yesterday and tomorrow I will go to Paris, but it is not true and she doesn’t. She has a habit to lie, and
In black and white, lying can be "good" or "bad" but there is more to the matter than just good and bad. Some think that lying is always beneficial, some think it is always detrimental, some think it goes both ways. In William Shakespeare's classic tale of two star-crossed lovers, Romeo and Juliet, there is a consistent theme of deceiving others for your own good but also for their good. Depending on who you are, you have different moral codes and ideas about what is right and what is wrong and based on the morals that you possess, you form an opinion about lying being beneficial or not beneficial.
This week we were given a video to watch all about how to spot a liar. According to Pamela Meyer (2011), the two truths about lying are that lying is a cooperative act, and that we as a society are against lying…but secretly for it (Meyer, 2011). Both facts to me are equally surpising but in many ways make absolute sense. Ultimately the one I agree with more however, is that we as a society are against lying…but secretly for it. Every individual on this earth at one time or another has lied. We lie for many reasons. Whether it was to save ourselves from some kind of trouble, to make someone feel better or to improve a situation. I believe that on one or more occasions every living sole on earth has been secretly happy that a lie had been told. It is human nature for us to want to feel happy or good. Something as little as telling your significant other you like a gift they gave you even though you hated
I do not condone lying in certain aspects because it is always going to backfire on you. but in some arguable circumstances you have to because you do not want to hurt the person that's why you have to lie to them. then it creates a bigger more deep lie that you have to cover up by other lies. Lying is a part of our daily lives we witness it we hear it and we discuss with each other of why do we lie? well we lie because it's the easiest thing to do we can not grip the truth and the reality of ourselves. If you're going to lie it needs to be a legitimate reason of why you're doing it because a lie can be a serious ordeal to that person. For instance i could lie to my mom (never say i would) about being somewhere that i really shouldn't be
To begin with, when one lies it can harm relationships with the ones you care most about. For example, Cohen Explains that “Once a person finds out you lied you lose currency in their eyes “ (Article 1, paragraph 12). Basically, lying in this situation has caused one to lost the trust of another. This is important because if one continues to lie it can affect the relationship one has towards another. For instance, Blanton states that we should “have the courage to be honest and have a relationship with others based on reality” (Article 3, paragraph 5). One can see by this that Blanton wants us to understand that if we want to maintain a relationship one must have the courage to be honest and try to to lie. From this, one can infer that if one wants others to believe and trust them they should try to at least not lie when it comes to an important relationship. Therefore, lying is justified when one is trying to not harm the
Sometimes telling a lie seems to be so necessary to spare our loved ones to be hurt. “Not only is Lying justified, it is sometimes a moral duty.” The above, evidence implies that by telling lies we can prevent future arguments from happening. Lying yields positive results rather than negative ones because you did lie to protect others and not to be hurt.
People lie a lot in their lives. Even though they know that it is morally and religiously incorrect, they do it all the time. Mothers lie to their children; children lie to their parents and students to their teachers. It is a huge part of people daily behavior. They do it for many reasons, like lying to gain certain things or lying to avoid responsibilities. For example, when a girl tells her friend she does not looks fat in her new dress but the truth she does, or when a wife tells her husband that she likes his new haircut, and the reality she does not. Also, people lie serious lies in more complicated situation; for example a witness lies about what he saw in the crime scene. Lying is usually telling a false statement with the intention that another person will believe what you have said is true (Mahon, 2008).
No, I am terrible at telling when someone is lying. I can never tell when someone is lying just because I think I trust people too much or if it's a small lie and a joke, I just don't care enough about it. It's up to that person if they want to lie to me or tell the truth but if it involves anything about family, I would like to know the truth. I think it wouldn't make my life better because I wouldn't have the time to worry about the situation and I would be struggling with
Lying can help you get out of many multiple things especially when it’s not a big deal and when ur trying not to hurt anyone’s feelings. For example in the article, lies lies lies, by, Time , Magazine states that, lies protect others, or “ I love your dress.” It supports my evidence by explaining how it gets you out of multiple situations and things that may not be a big deal. It helps to not hurt ur friends or anyone’s specific feelings. Additionally I choose this article because it goes with my topic sentence and it matches everything i'm explaining. Another way to say this, “ No one expects, and few would welcome, searing honesty at a dinner party. “ Yet, “ The couple who leave early, saying the baby-sitter has a curfew, would not be thanked by the hostess if the truth were told: “ Frankly, were both bored to tears.” It’s okay to lie but for something to deal with.
I’ve always thought myself to be too naive. I tend to trust anyone and believe whatever they tell me. My biggest pet peeve is being lied too. So it hurts for me to believe everything and then find out it was a lie. Recently I have tried to not trust people as much, but when they say something I never think they would lie to me. So I always end up believing them. I wish I could to be so trusting, or maybe others should just stop lying.
Deception in research can be considered a broad subject because there are so many things that fits under deception in research. Deception in research occurs as a result of researcher giving false or intentionally withholding information from research participants. The ethical question with deception in research is the informed consent because a participant needs to be informed on what the research is about. Standards 3.10 and 8.02 on informed consent both emphasizes on the client/ participant rights to know what the research entails. The premise is that when the participants are less knowledgeable it will produce spontaneous and uninfluenced reactions. According to Fisher (2013), participant are given Informed consent for deception
I also agree that we should think before we act. First, we tell lies to avoid hurting the feelings of someone. Words are very powerful so when we are friends with someone and we know that they are hurting we usually tell white lies to make them feel better. In addition, we tell lies to protect their own feelings. If we know that a lie can make a person happy then go for it even though it is bad because we love them and we will do everything for them. Second, we tell lies to avoid getting into trouble. An example is we prevent physical and mental harm. A situation that is proper to this is when we are in danger; obviously we need to tell numerous lies to protect ourselves from getting hurt. Third, we tell lies to avoid losing someone. We tend to lie because the truth might ruin our relationship with the person even though we know that when we lie to someone, we already ruin the relationship we have with them. Moreover, gaining the trust of a person is very hard; we tend to push them away because some of us have trust issues, so when we finally gained that trust we are afraid to