In Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, an overarching issue is the idea of propriety within society and its conflict with love and passion. The majority of the Bennet family is subject to the whims of passion and very often forgets their presentation to the rest of their peers. Other characters found themselves putting aside their own desires in order to do what was expected of them. On both sides, there are both positive and negative effects that come from this placement of priorities. From the moment she is introduced, it is quite obvious that Elizabeth Bennet is a very independent individual who chooses to do things her own way, instead of the way that is expected of her. When, due to Mrs. Bennet’s scheming, her sister Jane falls …show more content…
This obstinacy when confronted with her sister’s care shows how highly Elizabeth values her personal relationships. Elizabeth not only shows this tenacity in regards to her sister, but in her love life as well. When her father’s cousin, Mr. Collins, proposes marriage to her, she declines him, not only because she finds him a disagreeable person, but because she wishes to marry for love when she does enter into a lifelong pairing. The people of her acquaintance, including her closest friend Charlotte, feel that this expectation is an unrealistic one, and that Lizzy should instead marry for privilege. Elizabeth, however, holds onto her ideals, resigned to remaining an old maid if she cannot find a man whom she loves. Love was considered a luxury during this time, and one that very few people were lucky enough to wed for. While Elizabeth maintained her high ideals in terms of passion, Charlotte Lucas found herself more drawn to the side of propriety. Charlotte is perhaps one of the most sensible characters portrayed in Austen’s novel, including Elizabeth herself. She tells her friend, “Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other, or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least” (61). Charlotte feels that entering into a loveless marriage is not the curse that Lizzy sees
Charlotte’s pessimistic view on marriage. Unlike Elizabeth, who values personal connection and true happiness, Charlotte simply wants someone to
Elizabeth and Charlotte’s differences can best be seen on their answers to Mr. Collins’ marriage proposal. Mr. Collins first proposes to Elizabeth and she rejects him. Elizabeth does not love him and does not think that she will be happy if she marries him. Collins does not let the rejection get to him and he soon proposes to Elizabeth’s friend, Charlotte. Not having the same will power
In later events, Elizabeth reflects on the news of Charlotte’s engagement. “It was a long time before she became at all reconciled to the idea of so unsuitable a match. The strangeness of Mr. Collins 's making two offers of marriage within three days was nothing in comparison of his being now accepted. She had always felt that Charlotte 's opinion of matrimony was not exactly like her own, but she had not supposed it to be possible that, when called into action, she would have sacrificed every better feeling to worldly advantage. Charlotte the wife of Mr. Collins was a most humiliating picture! And to the pang of a friend disgracing herself and sunk in her esteem, was added the distressing conviction that it was impossible for that friend to be tolerably happy in the lot she had chosen" (22.18) Where marrying for financial security is fairly common, Elizabeth 's opinion and views of marrying for love does not mirror that of the time she lives in. Elizabeth is therefore unsurprisingly disappointed and shocked that her friend has settled to marry someone, who although is wealthy, is also much less desirable in character, only on the basis of financial security. She finds it shameful that someone who is a "sensible, intelligent young woman” (5.2), should have to settle for someone like Mr. Collins just so she no longer has to worry about becoming a spinster. But Charlotte poses a sound
As Charlotte and Elizabeth look on at Jane and Mr. Bingley finding affection in one another, Charlotte finds it trivial because that is not what makes a marriage important. When it comes time to apply this ideology to her own marriage, Charlotte does so, much to the dismay of Elizabeth. While Charlotte is marrying someone who had proposed to Elizabeth three days prior, Charlotte is able to find what she desires out of marriage. She tells Elizabeth: “I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins's character, connection, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state,” (Austen, 96).
“Pride and Prejudice”, is a novel which explores the huge chasm between love and marriage in Georgian England. Jane Austen’s presentation of passion and matrimony reiterates the fact that marriage is a “business arrangement”. Austen uses irony to make fun of polite society in this satire and Austen also emphasizes the point that social hierarchy dictates whom you can marry. The pressures of men and women in Georgian England are revealed through her exploration of the aristocracy’s prejudice against the middle class society in which she lived. Finally uses comedy to expose hypocrisy
Most importantly, due to his religious duty. As she told her friend, Elizabeth, about accepting a proposal from Mr. Collins, Elizabeth full of of shock replied, “Engaged to Mr. Collins! My dear Charlotte, -- impossible” (Austen, 122). Elizabeth’s shock is because she believed he would not be the right person for her. However, Tony Tanner agrees that Charlotte views her marriage strictly as a “preservative from want” (Bloom, 66). This symbolizes Charlotte marries Collins because she did not want to be a load for her family especially her mother who went through difficulties to find her a mate Marrying Collins helps Charlotte than it did for him because she received advantages such as financial, security, and unburden to her family as well as getting a higher rank. She coldly admits to Elizabeth, “…I am not romantic, you know; I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins 's character, connection, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state" (Austen, 123). Charlotte’s train of thought is Mr. Collins is her last option of marriage to have her own life instead of living with her parents. Their marriage is based on societal norms and she agrees to marry him, even with the knowledge that they have different personalities. She marries Collin in disregards of her self-respect and his undurable personality.
The roles of Mr. and Mrs. Bennet in Jane Austen’s novel Pride and Prejudice are contrasted between a father who cares about what’s inside of people and a mother who only worries about vanity and appearance. Mr. and Mrs. Bennet’s parental guidance is unique to their personalities. Because of their two opposing personas, Mr. and Mrs. Bennet’s ideas of marriage are contradictory for their daughters; Mr. Bennet believes in a loving respectful marriage whereas Mrs. Bennet values a marriage which concerns wealth and social status. Their aspirations for Lydia, Jane, Mary, Kitty and Elizabeth mirror their conflicting ideologies. Mr. Bennet seems to have a quiet deep love
Charlotte Lucas, a close friend of Elizabeth, does not share the same views on marriage. She is shown to agree more with what was expected women in The Regency Era. Once Elizabeth refused to marry Mr. Collins, considering that she lacked complete love for the man, he went onto propose to Charlotte, where she accepted at once. “Without thinking highly either of men or of matrimony, marriage had always been her object; it was the only honorable provision for well-educated young women of small fortune” (Austen 106). When Charlotte speaks of marriage there is no love mentioned to it. Her idea of marriage is to find a stable home and income, which can provide discomfort to the readers, chiefly in this modern society. Charlotte goes further on to
Her language borders on spiteful: “the lady felt no inclination to trifle with his happiness” (105) when describing Lucas’ acceptance of the proposal. She seems to resent Charlotte’s decision: “she had not supposed it to be possible that, when called into action, she (Lucas) would have sacrificed every better feeling to worldly advantage” (109). The absurdity of marriage for property is personified in the satirical dialogue and tone of Lizzie and Charlotte’s interactions. Charlotte, however, ends up married and with good financial standings in the midst of her failing to see the emotional importance of a relationship. Austen reveals this through Lizzie’s indirect characterization of Charlotte and exposes the irony behind her inability to recognize the importance of an emotionally fulfilling relationship.
But still he would be her husband,” is an example of how odious Mr. Collins is, but because he has money, is tolerated (Austen 83). Being in the lower middle class, Charlotte needed to separate from her parents support to a husband’s. The sad part about Charlotte’s situation is that she married for love, not money. She simply states to Elizabeth: “‘I am not romantic you know. I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins’s character, connections, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state” (Austen 85). Having grown up knowing she must marry, Charlotte does not seem upset, but relieved at the marriage. Many women were required to marry for money in order to support themselves and their family.
If she married a man with enough money and respectability, then she could look forward to a comfortable life. If she did not marry, then she was doomed to be homeless and indigent, as there were little to no job options for women at the time. In this time when women were fully dependent on men for survival, Elizabeth still manages to stay true to her beliefs by not being eager to marry. If she is to be married, Elizabeth would want it to be out of “true affection”, which could then grant her much “felicity” (Austen, 75). She would never want to marry a man solely for financial security, as society expects many women to. Elizabeth doesn’t let societal pressures hinder her beliefs on what constitutes a successful, worthwhile marriage. When Mr. Collins proposed to Elizabeth, she confidently turned him down by saying it was “impossible for [her] to do otherwise than to decline” his offer (Austen, 81). She had long decided that Collins was a ridiculous man who she had little respect for. She would not give up her independence to spend the rest of her life with him, even if it would have kept the Bennet property within the family. Declining this opportunity of marriage is rather courageous of Elizabeth because she is risking never being proposed to again, putting her chance for a stable life at risk. The Bennets could only afford a small dowry, which would not attract many suitors. With that in mind, Elizabeth shows her
Pride and Prejudice tells a story of a young girl in the midst of a very materialistic society. Jane Austen uses the setting to dramatize the restraints women had to endure in society. As the novel develops, we see how women have to act in a way according to their gender, social class, and family lineage. Elizabeth Bennet’s sisters represent the proper societal lady while Lizzy is the rebel. Through her characters Austen shows how a women’s happiness came second to the comfort of wealth. As the plot develops, events are laid out to illustrate how true love is unattainable when women marry for intentions of wealth. Women have very specific and limited roles in a society where men are the superior. In Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen
Charlotte is a neighbour and friend of Elizabeth, who is older and unmarried at the beginning of the story. She is simple in her values and does not question a women's role in society. Charlotte's main achievement in the story occurred when she was able to secure a proposal of marriage from Mr. Collins after he had been rejected by Elizabeth, who asked why she accepted. Charlotte explained "I am not a romantic you know. I never was. I only ask for a comfortable home; considering Mr Collins's character, connections, situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is fair, as most people can boast on entering a marriage state" By this Charlotte is questioning Elizabeth's values, believing she is over her head in her ideas. She is simply happy with what she has been dealt
Elizabeth’s snobbish pride hinders her from understanding her friend Charlotte Lucas’s best interests in regard to her desire to marry Mr. Collins. Elizabeth “prides herself on being a perceptive “studier of character,” as Mr. Bingley calls her, but how well does she really know her very good friend Charlotte…” when she “responds with amazement and horror” upon hearing that Charlotte wants to marry a man who is “dull”, “pompous” and “physically unattractive”. Elizabeth’s excessive pride blinds her from recognizing that Charlotte is “not much interested in men and very much interested in marriage” (Moler, 26). Elizabeth could have ruined the prospects of Charlotte’s marriage because of her self-importance in the way she
The families of Elizabeth and Charlotte play a very important part in their lives, and in the prospect of their future companions. Elizabeth’s family are more prone to exposing themselves and being ridiculous , and it is partly down to her family that Mr. Darcy is so adamant on Mr. Bingley not marrying her sister Jane. However, unlike her family, Elizabeth is socially graceful, sensitive and conscious of her appearance in the eyes of others. This leads to her acute awareness of the social failing of some members of her family, particularly her mother and youngest sister.