I am a parent of two students that attend your school district, one is at the middle school and the other is at the high school. I am writing with some concerns I have regarding the amount of time both my children are being exposed to the internet not only while they are at school, but also when they get home and need to use the internet to complete homework.
As a parent, having my children making only connections with an electronic device and having next to none social interactions is concerning to me because the way I am raising my children is totally different and I am now at a lost trying to implement my parenting against their education, it contradicts the values that I am teaching my children at home.
One thing that concerns me the most about my children being lost in a cyber world is that I feel as though I have no saying in controlling how much time my children are spending in front of a screen. In our home we do not even have cable service, and watching television is like a treat for us during the weekend. We had internet access but the computer was only used under our supervision and with a time limit. Now all those things that we worked so hard as a family to achieve are lost because the school requires them to have a laptop/ ipad with them at all times during the school day, and with the extensive amount of homework given to them, it is inevitable for them not to be on their electronic devices provided to them by the school while they are at home as well.
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Turkle makes a valid point; parents are connected to their children twenty four hours a day never giving children the opportunity to discovery how to be alone. Before instant technology was in the palm of our hands, parents had to trust their children could go the store and make it home safely without call them when they felt worried or scared. But why are parents scared and worried? Technology has transformed our society into knowledge right at the touch of a screen, we get to see all the bad story on the news anytime we want to look at them, which affects the way we parent our children and let them discovery their on rite of
It’s universal for parents to hand their children electronic tablets while at home or in the car. This establishes habits of not socializing or envisaging.
Technological advancement is one factor that affects parent-child relationship. According to research, 46% of smartphone owners consider their smartphones as a necessity for daily living (Smith). Technology has made it possible to incorporate a lot of things in just one phone – you can use it as an alarm clock, a camera, a dictionary, and many more – making it a constant feature in day to day activities. Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, and other social networking sites have made communication easier, that’s a good thing. However, most college students spend their time interacting with their friends online and that causes them to spend less time bonding with their parents. Likewise, the parents distance themselves from their children when they use technology as a means to bring more work at home. Even if technology
Children who use tech devices on a daily base takes away bondment from one another. Parents giving children tech devices, which is causing children to be attached to it. Putting children aside to make
Aided by the convenience of smartphones, tablets, and computers, the Pew Research Center has found that 92% of teens are online daily, with open access to harmful material that can affect developing minds permanently, and set up habits that can damage their potential for success in the future. An even more shocking 24% of teens say that they are online “almost constantly.” As a tenth grader in Carolina Day’s upper school, I’ve witnessed the daily activities of students who confirm these statistics. To them, navigating the internet is second nature, and that is where the real danger lies. While at school, they are still granted connection to every game, social media site, and free essay resource, without limits. Unrestricted and unlimited access to the internet is negatively impacting Carolina Day School’s environment by affecting interpersonal relationships, stunting the positive development of the brain, and decreasing the chance of students gaining critical life skills.
When discussing internet censorship, one of the major concerns is what children can see on the internet. Internet censorship was a huge deal during the 1990’s and early 2000’s and it still is to this very day. The internet back then was much different than it is today. Back then, we could only access the internet from a computer and most people didn’t own one back then. Nowadays, most people have multiple computers and a cell phone that can access the internet. It was easier for parents to control what their children could have access to back then. Now, parents can still put restrictions on the router settings and set a timer for when the internet shuts off but kids can always just go somewhere else that may have internet access to view any
Raising a family can be a lot pressure, especially in a Facebook-obsessed, Pinterest-Perfect, snapchat-happy world. Quality family time has changed from family games nights to kids texting, mom is on Pinterest, and dad is on snap chat; everyday home life of the family quickly transforming. Parents and children have a growing stream of technological resources at their fingertips, offering more opportunities for engagement, entertainment and education. With so many tech distractions available, it is more important than ever for parents and children to put down their phone, games, and tables and create sustainable relationships with each other. Families embracing the digital age can be problematic and is forever changing the family dynamic. It is a losing battle for parent to
Many families have a loss of communication with each other. In this article, "Attached to Technology and Paying a Price", Matt claims that "Gary Mass believes the ultimate risk of heavy technology use it diminishes empathy by limiting he much people engage with one another, even in the same room." In other words , Nass believes children are too busy using technology that they do not have time to talk to their parents. Parents should set a time limit on technology for children.
In order to balance both there has to be comparative with the parents. Technology isn’t good nor bad. It can only benefit the child if the parents put a limit to their time in the screen. Parents need to set up a schedule in where the kids will follow the time the kids will be using the tablet/ phone. As well have time to play with other kids, and just interact with there own family member. In the article, Screen time: A guide for parents states, “ keeping computers out of the bedroom, and keep them in a common area in your house. This will make sure that the child isn’t using their computers/ tablets during the time they have to rest. Kids need to have a good rest, and not having technology in their rooms because it could cause irregular sleep. Just having the parent take action in how much kids need to spend time in the screens can be a good start. Luscombe argues, “ Take away the idea that all screens are bad, but the face-to -face time for young people is an important part of the socialization process”. Parents seem to not understand that children need to develop good social skills, and that can only be done by interacting with others, and get a sense on others points of views. Parents need to stop giving the kids technology to keep them quiet for a while, because at the end it's hurting the child
We all know technology is a good thing, right? Or is it? We can all come up with reasons why technology is helpful or appropriate like we can for a particular medicine. And while some drugs are really great to cure or prevent a disease, sometimes the side effects outweigh any possible benefit. The same is true with technology. Some common negative side effects of technology are kids playing on their phones instead of going outside to play or young people not interacting face-to-face as much as they used to. Parenting is an area that has suffered since the rise in technology, specifically with phone use.
Technology and computer screens consume our society. Many kids these days spend countless hours in front of a T.V. screen, computer screen, smartphone or tablet. Children very rarely spend time outside playing, building play houses or hide and go seek with their friends. Parents spend their time watching the news, reading emails even on the computer doing homework or catching up on the latest drama on Facebook. There is very little family time spent with children asking them how there day was or what they learned in school. This leads to an even bigger issue; No structure in the home. When we choose to spend little to no quality time with our family; a lot goes to waste. Our children have no respect for parents, they grow up with
This letter is focused about the internet filters we are using as of right now for students and school staff. I understand the use of the internet filter for school reasons and law enforcement, but, this new internet filter we are using tend to block our sources of information. The internet filter should be less strict than it is right now because of some of the internet sources such as the “New York Times,” and “Huffington Post,” are blocked. Teachers and students use these websites to find subjects and topics that can forward their assignments. The new internet filter should have blocked websites that students often use that decrease the internet; most students and some teachers would be importuned or whiny about these certain websites being blocked for entertainment. The internet filter should be ameliorated to only to block websites which are using more bandwidth than other websites.
Today in America, children have been suductive to whats right in front of their face, the tablet. Electronics have taken over most schedule activities by not wanting the child to do anything else.
The current generation of children is completely different than the preceding ones. They are living in the digital age. “Technology has blended in with daily activity to become a way of life and children today take for granted all of which is automated. It is hard for kids nowadays to imagine a world that existed without all of the gadgets, electronics and seamless operations that computer technology provides.” (3) “Children in the United States devote some 40 hours a week to television, video games and the Internet.” (12) Many psychologists and researchers are concerned about the impact that technology has on children. Children, tomorrow’s future parents and leaders, are being consumed by the negative effects that technology had on their
Today’s technology has greatly impacted the young children’s everyday lives. Phones, tablets, and computers are all a form of technology that impact the way kids are influenced. Some children get phones or computers at young ages and it can cause kids to depend on it to entertain them. Eventually they will allow the technology to take over and have it become the form of communication between friend and family instead of face to face. As parents continue to buy their children new technology they don’t monitor the amount of time their children spend on the Internet. Technology is becoming more advanced overtime which causes children to become more attached and unable to function without it near by.