Identity. Having my own sense of identity is something that I never really thought that I had a problem with, until I enrolled in college. Growing up I always thought that I had my whole life figured out. I was going to go to college, get a degree in broadcasting and then go to work for a news station in a big city. After my first semester, I realized that wasn’t what I wanted to do, and then set in the panic of figuring out who I was and what I wanted to do with my life. Even if you asked me now, I’m not totally locked in on what I am going to do and who I am.
Self-Esteem. Growing up I was always completely fine with who I was, the way I looked and what others thought of me. Then I hit high school age and everything started going downhill
Identity-“Ones personal qualities.”Identiy is something only he or she can fully define. My uncle says I am affectionate,cheerful, and calm. My grandmother sees me as slim, pretty and sweet. My dad described me as perky, cheerful and happy, my mom says beautiful, gentle, and self-conscious. These adjectives describe me accurately, yet they are only abstract versions of me. Adjectives cannot begin to describe me and I aknowlege these descriptions for what they are, a condensed translation from my outward self to the world. It is impossible for anyone to understand me completely because nobody has experienced the things I have. My mother has never cherished a raggedy doll named Katie and my father never
As a young boy, I grew up in a world of soccer as my father taught my brother and me so much about the sport. As we got older we began to fall in love with the sport and my brother and I played a ton whenever we had the chance to. When my brother and I played soccer we were very competitive with each other and that made us quickly excel, having that level of competition from a young age. My father signed us up for a local league for us to play competitively against other children our age. I was four years old when I started playing, but my brother was playing four years more as he was older. He was considered one of the best players in his age group, and soon I was to be in my age group as well. When my brother was ten years of age his team got invited to a
Growing up as a first generation Pakistani American Muslim not only came with the benefits of being exposed to different cultures, but it also came with a continuing challenge to incorporate the two cultures and my religion into the society we lived in. There was always a need to be more American, more Pakistani, while respecting the boundaries of religion. No matter how hard we tried to assimilate into the two societies, we could feel the absence of understanding and acceptance. This search for an identity not only allowed me to easily interact with people facing similar dilemmas, but it allowed me to embrace culture, religion, and people that were different.
Ever since I was young, I loved to read and the places that books and my imagination could carry me. I also adored traveling to new places and exploring both the historical and natural sites my family would take my brother and I to. But I dreamed of traveling around the world, to new places, cultures and people, as my parents often told us of when they had spent a year in England and lived on a canal boat. I strived for any chance to go abroad so when my grandparents decided to take a trip back to Lithuania, I asked to go along. Unfortunately, my grandfather had a heart attack and the trip was cancelled while he recovered. Later, one of my closest cousins took a post-graduate trip abroad through the Rotary Youth Exchange Program, deferring her
Imagine a girl, only six, preoccupied with the normal aspirations of a child, clueless as to the chaos bound to ensue. Now envision her life thrown into a pandemonium of distress and disorder. Her father, no longer there, but seven thousand miles away. Her mother, five siblings, and her— soon to follow. But nevertheless, they return, only to face a plethora of inauspicious obstacles. I’m that girl, now seventeen. And this is my story.
Many people say that an embryo is not really a person, or that it has no identity. It is a great way to avoid the moral debate, because all you have to say is, “Well they aren’t even people; they have no individuality.” I am going to shred that thought, because the simple truth is this: personal worth and identification can not be taken away by ignorant people who do not want to face the consequences of their actions or words!
When I was about 5 years old, I asked my mother why my older brother Sean (5 years older) could not walk easily or talk as well as I could. She told me God didn’t give him all the “parts” he gave me. I did not question that statement for several years. I must have been in 7th or 8th grade when I asked again and got a more detailed explanation. Sean was born with a partial chromosomal translocation that upset his mid-line development. Simply put, he was born with severe physical and mental disabilities. In fact, he was given a prognosis of 6 weeks to live. At 22, he has surpassed all medical and educational expectations. I have never seen him crabby or unhappy a single day. He is a perfect example of a person using every ounce of talent and “gifts” he was given.
Sitting at my desk, working on a spreadsheet was the first time I realized that I was not where I was meant to be. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing with my life. Growing up in Cleveland, in a single-parent household, there was never really expectations for me other than to graduate from high school. I was the first in the family to graduate from college. I thought I had everything figured out. I finished with a B.A. in Finance, and was able to secure a great job as an insurance recruiter right out of college. I was able to travel the country, and met many interesting people. I can remember a conversation with a woman in Utah who asked me what my passion was. At the time, money was really the only passion that came to mind. I did not realize it at the time, but I had no idea what my passion was. I later took an analyst job with the same company, and with the promotion came more
“Hey Dacoda let's ride down that hill over there.” “Ok then but are you sure we should do that?” Don’t worry you won’t get hurt.” “ Alright then” That's how it all started, with one of my friends saying let’s ride down that hill and i of course decide to go down first and let’s just say what a terrible mistake i made. Once he said that i was all in on the terrible and unintelligent idea so i went down first and it was fun at first and i was going pretty fast and with the wind on my face i didn’t have a care in the world but then about three to five seconds later into ride i crash and hurt my right leg and right side of my face right by my cheek. I didn’t cry but
It is 6 am on a hot day in July and I’ve already showered and eaten breakfast. I know that my classmates are all sleeping in and enjoying their summer break, but I don’t envy them; I’m excited to start my day interning with a local newspaper doing investigative journalism. I work a typical 8-5 day during my summer vacation and despite the early mornings, nothing has made me happier.Although it wasn't clear to me then, looking back on my high school experiences and everything that led to me to this internship, I believe this path began with a particularly savvy teacher and a little book she gave me to read outside of class.
It had been the file… The cold enveloped around the bare emptiness, filling me with claustrophobia. A slight nimbus of light clung to me, unraveling sheer darkness while I waited for the hour hand of the clock to creep towards eight. I stared at the badge, glistening golden.
It was the beginning of an endless summer, I did what I do every typical morning, brushed my teeth, washed my face, and turned on my computer. I reached for some snacks as I hopped on Discord, a free app for voice and text chat. All of my friends were on: Austin, Edison, Edmund. Including my brother, Kevin. They were chatting about how they missed each other and reminisced about the good old days. At that moment, I knew it wouldn’t be a fun summer without my friends with me, so I decided to plan for a hangout.
I have discovered one that one thing I can count on in life is bravery. I’ve always loved the rush of doing a dare or doing things out of the ordinary. It’s gotten me into trouble quite a few times. Besides bravery love is also very important to me. I’ve always tried to love people and show them kindness.
As I was driving into the church parking lot I had to take a deep breath. After leaving another frustrating day at school and then going to work right afterwards, I needed to calm myself down. I looked in the rear view mirror one more time to make sure I looked halfway presentable. I fixed my wind-blown hair by pulling it back in a high ponytail and put on some Burt’s Bees lip balm before exiting the car. I grabbed my Bible and notebook and locked the doors. As I walked towards the youth building a wave of comfort washed over me.
Self identity was something lost during for a period in my life during my freshman year. I saw myself as no one.