Would you go for it if there is chance for you to go overseas and see what really the word is all about, or would you rather staying in your comfort zone where you are not even able to see how much biased you are? In most cases, we make sense of things through our ability to see and to think; in other words, our perspectives are the mechanisms that we label things such as, good, bad, helpful or dangerous. Expanding one’s perspective is very essential to expand the way s/he analyze things, and doing this requires experiencing new things, interacting with people from different backgrounds and having empathy toward them. Doing study abroad in the United States has made me realize that I wasn’t an open-minded person, but a person who is biased …show more content…
Probably, you wouldn’t blame because loving something is a personal choice and not being able to afford it is just what happens sometimes. If this is that simple then why our attitude changes when it comes to be respectful about homesexulatiy? Humans are likely to develop fear toward people that they don’t know or people who are not like them, and this fear turns into hate which then causes discrimination. My homophobic perspective toward people’s gender identities was a result of this situation because back in Turkey I was living in a small town where homosexulatiy wasn’t accepted. Coming here and withnessing homesexuality let me question myself. I had a gay teacher who teaches English through theater at Kaplan International English. At the beginning, I was reluctant about going his class because I wasn’t feeling comfortable about being in a class with a person who identifies himself as gay. Things have started to change and I felt ashamed of myself once I got to know him better through acting and going out together to have coffee and lunch. For example, last year, there were many terrorist attacks have happened in Turkey and every single time he has has asked me if my family is okay and provide emotional support for me which was so valuable because it was the major point …show more content…
We are all blinds of our nonsenses until we leave the place where everybody almost have the same ideology with us and realize another word exists outside of our comfort zone. As a student whose perspective about unfamiliar people has changed through study abroad, I strongly recommend everybody to do that because listening other people's stories is our only hope to get rid of the hatred inside of us and to start liking each other even though we don’t look familiar. Once we do that the world will become a more liveable place where kids can be
In the article, How Homophobia Hurts Everyone by Warren J. Blumenfeld, Blumenfeld describes his experience growing up as a homosexual, and how homophobia affected him, as well as his family and peers. To begin, homophobia can be separated into two different catergories, personal homophobia and interpersonal homophobia. Personal homophobia can be described as a personal belief system, or prejudice that homosexuals, bisexual and transgender people are entitled to, should be disliked or remain powerless, due to their desires. They are also sometimes seen as psychologically disturbed, genetically modified or defective and overall, unfortunate human beings. While on the other hand, interpersonal homophobia refers to the personal prejudice or bias that affects relationships within individuals. An example of interpersonal homophobia could be making a joke, name calling, or insulting certain individuals or groups. This can be either verbal, physical or intimidation related.
Homophobia present in the black community has decreased over the years. Black culture is becoming more tolerant and accepting of the LGBTQA community. Churches are becoming more tolerant towards the LGBTQA community. A few decades ago, homosexuality could not be talked about in public without being shamed, however many Black celebrities are making their sexuality public, inspiring the change of mentality in the younger generations. Some of these artist include Frank Ocean, Azealia Banks, and Jason Collins. Also, the portrayal of LGBTQA persons of color in the media is becoming less stereotypical, they were portrayed as flamboyant gossipy men with feminine tendencies, however now they are represented as people that you can identify with. For
In, “Heterosexism and homophobia among college students,” Larry M. Lance starts off by explaining the difference between heterosexism and homophobia. Heterosexism is thinking that everyone should be attracted to the opposite sex and homophobia is having an irrational fear of gay men and lesbians. He mentions that efforts have been made to reduce heterosexism on campuses by encouraging homosexuals to be proud of who they are and not hide. However, with homophobia, he states that these negative attitudes are seen more in heterosexual males than heterosexual females. Heterosexual males could have more homophobic views on lesbians and gay men because of their exotic value even though they seem to be less homophobic towards lesbians. Lance
Through the intersectionality theory and social learning theory, one can see how and why the generalizations of Muslims and homosexuals have impact my life and how they are perpetuated in today’s society. Being a black, Muslim, lesbian woman in this country represent one of the minorities that is being affected by the negative stereotypes. These stereotypes are observed behavior that is being adopted by many places or individuals, who believes they know the perceptions of those other individuals that are different from
They say ‘ you never truly know someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes’ What is a better way to understand a diverse community than living in it and experiencing it first hand. One gets to know about other cultures through books, magazines and television, but that is not even close to the feeling that you will get when you completely throw yourself into another culture and live through what it is like for those that live in other countries.
Nussbaum also believes that the stereotypical portrayal of homosexuals and the homophobia towards homosexuals is created by a disgust and that disgust is is what makes minority groups look inferior to majority groups. Nussbaum believes that “projective disgust plays no proper role in arguing for legal regulation, because of the emotion’s irrationality and its connection to stigma and hierarchy…Disgust, however, often prevents us from looking for those good reasons, creating the misleading impression that the policy has already been well defended. Turning it to legitimize polices” (Nussbaum, 20). Due to the “politics of disgust,” Nussbaum believes that homosexual couples should be given suspect classification unlike the Lawrence v. Texas
Whitehead’s realistic approach of bringing attention to the modern problems of society has illustrated the problems and unacceptable behavior among the people of today through the bleak, desolate eyes of the people and the judgemental woman questioning the man’s morals through the words of “Are you okay?”. The modern poison is today’s electronics. Staring at a phone is now seen as part of the everyday routine, and not having one makes you appear different. Being different has always been frowned upon for society likes everyone to be in complete uniform. Stepping outside the boundaries of our stereotypes immediately marks us as unusual.
As time has progressed, Canadian society has adapted an increasingly liberal attitude towards controversial subjects. Such changes have thereby prompted an evident surge of positive perceptual changes within the nation. Various prominent social advancements in Canadian history consist of the recognition of coloured individuals, multiple movements for gender equality and the acknowledgement of the rights of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender population, also known as the LGBT community. Throughout history, gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals have been heavily discriminated against based upon their sexual preferences. Many individuals perceive homosexuality to be abnormal and immoral due to the fact that it violates the
Homophobia is a historic institution that has impacted the experience of many educators over the years. Gay, lesbian, bisexual and trans* (hereinafter referred to as queer and trans*) educators, administrators, students, and staff have always been a part of shaping America's schools; however, they have often learned creative strategies for remaining in the closet in order to protect themselves from “ostracism, parental outrage, punishment, and even dismissal” (Blount, 2005, p. 1). Riling against social shifts of (non-)acceptance, there have been documented cases dating back to the mid-1800s where educators have written letters to same-gender partners expressing their sexual and emotional desires. Blount (2005) specifically mentions that Addie
Generations ago, the United States was a country of the male wardrobe. Today's movements for the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community are leveraging the existence of more globalized and open systems. Besides, the promotion of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender population have been acknowledged through smart partnerships within conventional, political and economic scene, while the males and heterosexuals are still pervasive.
Before we can address the issue of homophobia. We must distinguish what exactly homophobia is, Homophobia is a term to describe hate towards homosexually oriented people. Homophobia is a form of stigma based on sexual ideas. This is also explained in the book “The Challenges of being a gay rural gay man, coping with stigma”. It states “sexual stigma is defined as social disapproval of any-non-heterosexual behavior”. Stigma that is based on hate towards people that are different, or people we don’t understand.
There are a lot of things that are wrong in our world today. From crime running wild on the streets to there being homelessness wherever we turn. There are things that we can fix, but there are others that just cannot be. We are humans after all; we all have our flaws, we all have our secrets, we have our weaknesses. There are just some things that can never be fixed. Hatred and unrationalizable actions being a few of these things. Every once in a while there is a major crime that sweeps the nation. The reasons for this can vary from mass shootings, police shootouts, the pure shock or the crime or many other reasons. One of these crimes that swept the nation was the horrible act committed against Matthew Shepard.
The battle against Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) and Acquired Immune Defiance Syndrome (AIDS) has been devastating, underestimated, and complex. In America, this difficulty surrounding HIV/AIDS is due to the inability of the state to properly educate and protect its citizens from being exposed to this illness. Since the first detection of HIV and AIDS the government aided in the miseducation, stereotypes, and deaths of its citizens by not taking the proper protocols to protect its people. Originally, United States’ government allowed its citizens to believe that HIV and AIDS were strictly related to homosexual relationships. As a result of this misguidance, homophobia increased nationally; thus, shunning the gay community and making it
Homophobia has destructive effects within the Black LGBTQA community due an increase in discrimination. Young kids who identify as LBGTQA may find the people around them as unsupportive due to the homophobic environment they may be exposed to by their families, friends, and peers. They are often targets of vicious, violent attacks, which include emotional and physical abuse from their families or peers. Parents who resent their child that identifies as LGBTQA often resort to name-calling, physical violence, and abandonment to show their child the wrongs of homosexuality to convince them to change their sexual orientation. Some of the children that go through this repetitive abuse, find an escape by running away from their families, about 40%
Homophobia Through the years it would be delightful to believe that society has gotten more accepting of minorities. While in many ways this is true, it is also a false statement as well. The United States has gone through leaps and bounds over the last century. Women were the first to win their rights, and after that African Americans broke through the barriers of oppression.