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Four Parenting Styles

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So what exactly does a united front mean? We hear it often from parenting experts on TV, the Internet, and in magazines, but do parents really understand it in practice? Everyone has a different style of parenting, and a united front means to join your parenting together so that children can not play the divide and conquer game (which they are extremely good at). Research has indicated that there are four basic parenting styles ranging from only fulfilling a child's basic needs for food, shelter, and schooling to those that expect complete obedience with no explanation or conversation. Of course each family has a unique blend of these four basic parenting styles. Experts agree that no matter which parenting style each parent has, finding a way to combine them that is consistent will produce the most capable and successful children. Parenting disagreements are one of the major causes of marital problems. So for the sake of your relationship with your spouse and to help make your children successful, happy adults you must learn to co-parent. Our parenting styles come mostly from our own upbringing, some of us repeat how our …show more content…

Keeping rules and consequences basically the same is what you should aim for in co-parenting. Parents must sit down together and decide what rules there will be and the consequences for breaking those rules. Remember that this is not about winning. Establishing a parenting plan is about your relationship with each other and raising intelligent, well-adjusted children able to support themselves and live a happy life. Compromise is essential. For instance, one parent thinks the children should be in bed at 8pm. and the other believes the children will be fine going to bed at 10pm. Negotiating a bedtime around 9pm. is a quality compromise. If after staying up until 9pm. the children seem to be too tired throughout the day, talk about it

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