Destroying Avalon and Mean Girls
Comparative Essay
What is worse, cyber bullying or face-to-face bullying? Argue in relation to both Destroying Avalon and Mean Girls, referring to specific events throughout both texts.
Cyber bullying and face-to-face bullying are to major concerns in today’s society, the movie Mean Girls and the novel Destroying Avalon have themes about bullying in them. The texts show us how more people can be affected by certain types of bullying as well as how it can change behaviour and how bullying can build up to physical violence.
More people are affected with face-to face bullying. This is shown in Mean Girls in a scene after the Burn Book has been seen by the school. All the female students are required
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Avalon had the same problem with her parents, “’(…) She’s not been herself,’ Dad said and sipped his coffee. ‘I think something’s going on. She’s so short tempered, she’s avoiding all of us, she’s spending hours on the computer, and she’s constantly checking her mobile phone It’s not normal.’” (p. 102). In both cases, a bully and a victim, the bullying changed their behaviour and consequently their home lives, worrying their parents.
Ultimately in this novel and film, face-to-face bullying was worse, because it also included physical violence. Since Cady was from Africa she was comparing everything to African wildlife, “It was full-tilt jungle madness. And it wasn’t going away.” (Mean Girls, 2004) It was madness as described, and a lot of people were getting hurt because the person who they thought was behind the rumour was standing right in front of them, face-to-face and they wanted to hurt that person as much as they themselves were hurt Destroying Avalon did not have a focus on physical bullying but when it did it had a huge impact, “I don’t know who punched me first. But it was a king hit. (…) They used me like a punching bag.” (pp. 228-229). This was not even the first time Marshall had been physically abused”(...) before he punched me. My head hit the tiled wall & Brett & Tyson kicked me in the guts. I puked and was almost unconscious with pain (...)” (p. 219). After the first incident mentioned,
In “Phoebe Prince: Should School Bullying Be a Crime?”, an article written by journalist Jessica Bennet addresses school bullying, the outcomes and the consequences that bullies deserve or not. Above all, this article aims the spotlight on bullying, a 15-year-old who took her own life due to harassment, torment, rumors, physical threats all leading it to being bullied by well-known good students. In any case, the process of being bullied has never been taken into consideration nor importance in the school system or by society in general. “It’s even gotten better over the past decade says Dan Olweus, a leading bullying expert”. However, bullying just does not disappear, it is still an issue that humankind does not have any diligence to the cause
Some people may even say that bullying can often be seen as a good thing in a child’s development and not just as a gateway to self-harm. The act of bullying, despite leading towards many negative repercussions, can introduce children to rather early, but harsh, lessons that not everybody in life is going to treat them as nice as they think. David Derbyshire’s article, “Why it’s not bad to be bullied,” states that that the mutual detestation of two individuals can actually help students in developing things such as healthy social and emotional skills, as well as sometimes having an even bigger impact on their development towards making friendships.”(Derbyshire, “Why it’s not bad to be bullied”). Even though the study did not suggest that it was healthy to be the victim of bullying, it also found that negative experiences, such as bullying, could teach children about conflict
The lack of support from the school is a main factor for the victims of bullying to not seek help, apart from the obvious fear and shame. Marshall and Avalon had very good support at home, Avalon more so than Marshall. Multiple times throughout the book Avalon's parents have expressed their concern for her. They're forever "worried" about her because she "hasn't been [herself]" and after Marshall opened up to his Mother about the bullying, she insisted he "pressed charges" and was incredibly supportive of him when he saw a "psych." However, there is only so much a parent can do. At home, there is safety in their arms. The cyber bullying can be brushed aside in favour of the love of ones family, but the parents can't hold onto their children's hands at school. The wellbeing of their child is passed onto the school, and the school could not have cared less about any of the bullying victims. Marshall has his nose "shattered," he was used as a "punching bag," was called "poof," "queer" and "weirdo," was "pinned down" in the boys locker room and called a "dirty little f*ggot," and was threatened to have his throat slit with a razor if it weren't for the fact it was a "safety" one and not a "cut throat." Tamara was called "fatso," "fat," "Shrek," "lezzo," harassed whilst trying to eat her lunch and was sneered at when trying to hang out with her friends
Have you ever been a target of an individual’s cruelty and hatred? It does not necessarily have to be physical, but more like being verbally degraded or publicly humiliated. The effects bullying can have on its victims is something that may last throughout their lives, or something that may end their life(Braithwaite, Hyde, Pope, 2010).We all are well aware of childhood bullying but as evidence shows bullying does not stop on the
Verbal bullying is very prevalent in the film Mean Girls, as we as viewers see how it affects all the characters' lives from their job to social life. Because of the movie, it makes viewers see verbal bullying in a different way, and it shows the effect it has on all the characters. Although verbal bullying is not as relevant today, it has evolved into cyberbullying. Continuing on, verbal bullying has affected so many of the characters' lives in Mean Girls, like Regina, Cady, and Ms. Norbury. In the scene where Ms. Norbury is accused of selling drugs, we see how even one small rumor can ruin her life and the effect it has on how she teaches when she does come back.
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The author begins by exploring the generational impact bullying has on young girls. Bullying has been going on for generations, thus leading to mothers and teachers who were victims or bullies themselves. Which can lead to the protective women in their lives being unable to appropriately offer advice or intervene when facing a female bullying situation in the younger generation.
Physical abuse is by far the most common form of bullying but it is no less damaging then the verbal harassment felt by both Avalon and Marshall throughout the
Over three million students are victims of bullying every year. Bullies deal a lot of pain to their victims. There are multiple kinds of bullying and there are also different effects. Between the two stories, “All Summer in a Day” by Ray Bradbury and “The Possibility of Evil” by Shirley Jackson bullying is shown in different forms while also having different consequences. In Jackson’s story, the bullying has a much greater impact because it hurts a whole community unlike Bradbury’s story which is targeted to one character.
The subject matter of “Destroying Avalon” is Bullying, in the form of Cyber Bullying. The themes conveyed in this text are the consequences of bullying and belonging. This helps the reader consider how bullying affects the victim and how belonging is
Mean Girls, a popular comedic film, is about high school drama in its highest form – wanting to be popular. It mainly follows a girl named Cady, a new student looking to make and please friends. She agrees to spy on one of her new friends’ enemies, Regina George, to help destroy her life. However, along the way, Cady finds herself becoming more and more like Regina George and the rest of the “plastics” or the mean girls. In this paper, there’s going to be an analysis of this film, because there seems to be a deeper meaning than just the comedic shell. And while this is a favorite movie of many teenage girls because of its relatable humor regarding popularity and girl-on-girl drama, like name calling and backstabbing, it also sheds light on the subject of bullying, including peer-pressure, and how it really can affect someone’s life in a very negative manner.
This film is a comedy teen film directed by Mark Waters who directed movies such as “Freaky Fridays” and “The spider wick Chronicles. This film is a smart and funny one. It even contains some wisdom and was the most popular teen film. The film was written by Tina Fey who also plays as Miss Norbury in the film. This film was released in 2004 June 24 Australia. Cady Heron (Lindsay Lohan) is a junior high school was home-schooled in Africa while her parents worked there as an anthropologists before they move back to America things changed her life. When her Dad was hired by Northern Western and she enrols in Evanston Township High School because she is the smartest girl in the school. When Cady is not smart about the ways clique work in high school, and how she is categorized and stereotyped by whom she hangs with and how she dress.
These effects can last into the adult years and cause irreparable damage (Berger, 2007). This speaks to the importance of continued research of the topic, and the development of effective prevention and intervention strategies. This paper will discuss the findings of four studies on bullying amongst adolescents, and examine the effectiveness of parental support and prosocial behaviors as protective factors for victims.
Bullying is an emotionally draining issue prominent across the world today. Bullying is unacceptable, and there are many, if not several movements in an effort to end bullying once and for all. Throughout the course of this essay, I am going to discuss the issue of bullying, and formulate an argument towards the issue at hand. In this argument, I will show my support in the fight against bullying. A lot of things have changed throughout the course of time; however, it is still prominent throughout the world today. Bullying is inhumane, and needs to end; what do you think? Do you think the fights against bullying are effective? Do you all think that
Direct bullying, or traditional bullying occurs more often to boys, but it does occur to girls as well. Typically more girls will report bullying than boys and will have more severe health problems as a result (Gruber & Fineran, 2008). Traditional bullying increases the risk of girls developing mental health problems as well as feelings of loneliness, anxiety and suicide (Bannink, Broeren, van de Looij – Jansen, de Waart, & Raat, 2014; Gruber & Fineran, 2008; van der Wal, de Wit, & Hirasing, 2003). Girls may report the incidents more often because young men may believe physical violence is the nature of men and acceptable whereas girls do not hold that same ideology (van der Wal, de Wit, & Hirasing, 2003).