“For every loss, there is a hidden gain, and for every gain, there is a hidden loss” (Khan). In loss and love, it is a coming-of-age moment in how they handle loss and love. Coming of age is when someone transitions from being a kid into adulthood. There are many coming-of-age components, but the two I am talking about are love and loss. A good example of loss is in the book Long Way Down, by Jason Reynolds, where the main character Will experiences loss. In the book Romeo and Juliet, by Shakespeare, the character Romeo experienced love. The first component I chose is loss, loss is a coming-of-age component because it shows how harsh life can be. The book Long Way Down, by Jason Reynolds, is a good example of this with the main character Will. …show more content…
The rules are don't cry, don't snitch, and take revenge. When his brother dies, Will wants to cry but he does not because of the rules. Now he has to take revenge and kill the person who killed his brother Shawn. Will experienced loss with his brother. He experienced all the stages of grief, he experienced denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Will matures throughout the book when he talks with all the dead people on the elevator and learns what happened to them. He starts to think about the consequences, but he is starting to convince himself to go through with it because in the community he would be considered a man who is grown and mature. The book says “What do you think you should do?”. He asked. Follow the rules, I said just like I told everybody else. Just like you did” (210, Reynolds). This is important because Will is going to follow the rules and kill him. It also shows that he is kind of looking up to his father in a way because he is talking to him and is stepping up as a man and maturing in the community like his dad did and killed the killer. That shows how Will experienced loss and matured from what …show more content…
He tries to make himself fall in love with these girls, but he is not actually in love. Romeo finds a girl named Juliet whom he finds very beautiful and he falls in love as soon as he sees her. Romeo experiences love when he goes to the tomb and finds Juliet dead. He kills himself because he is so in love that he would rather die than live without her. He has grown where he is truly in love and does not just love the idea of love. The book states “I’ll stay with you”. And I will never leave this tomb. Here, here I’ll remain with the worms that are your chamber-maids. Oh, I’ll rest here forever” (269, Shakespeare). This shows that Juliet is dead and he would rather join her in death than be without her in life. He has grown in the fact that he has found true love and would do anything for Juliet instead of just wanting to be in love like the beginning of the book. As you can see Romeo has experienced love and has grown to feel love and have true love. The two coming-of-age components I talked about were loss and love. Will experienced loss when he lost his brother and had to go from a kid to an adult. Will was forced into adulthood, he had to follow the
Will’s experience being dropped off at that residential school, scarred him for life and it created a disconnection between Will and his father. Will lost pride in being a son to a father who “… was too old to fight anymore, and that’s why he let me be taken away” (94). The loss of confidence in his father leads Will to not trust other people and not ask for help when situations get tough. For example, he was unwilling to ask for help when Marius began beating him. With losing his pride, it left Will feeling lonely and desperate to resolve the situation, he eventually took matters into his own hands and he shot Marius, thinking he killed him.
However, towards the end of the book we are shown the real reason why Will kept the big secret behind closed doors. This was that Will’s father was caught sleeping with his current girlfriend at the time. Furthermore, another secret was that Will was kicked out of school for getting in a fight with someone who showed video of the two together. He just couldn’t handle the negative impacts from the people around him so he’d been living elsewhere since it occurred. From this, it made me feel sorry for Will as he had a horrible experience and that if I had experienced myself I feel would come to the same conclusion, in which gave me a further connection with him.
In the beginning, Will takes the beating, and lays low. However, after the death of his brother, Sam, and his drunken father’s arrest, he ends up staying with his mother. He turns cold, as if his body was there, but not his mind. Will was an outsider, he had no one to turn to. Because of this label, it resulted to violence.
At the beginning of the story, Will is nonempathetic because all he wants to do is kill the man who killed his brother, he wants revenge. However, on the elevator ride, Will experiences meeting people who died because of a gun which causes him to be more cautious about revenge and who he might kill. Later in the story, Will becomes more aware of others and learns that he is not a person who kills people. The person who helped him the most was his dad, who did two things to help him realize the severity of his situation. The first thing is that his dad tells him how he shot the wrong guy.
As a coping mechanism, Will starts following the rules. He talks about what they are, but on page 35 he says “Another Thing about the Rules”. They weren’t meant to be broken. They were meant for the broken to follow”. This really shows how he put a way of life in place to deal with the tragedy because it was just too difficult to deal with.
Will also had to redeem himself for his actions that he had done in the past. At first, Will believed Edward stories to be a hundred percent true. Until he was near his marriage date, he started to question his father life and ended up belittling his stories every single time he talks about it after marriage. It got bad to the point where Will believed that there was no truth in any of his story. Will also ended suspecting Edward cheating on his mother since he was frequently gone for a period of time when he was little.
Will sees himself as a “southie”, a loser. To maintain congruence between his self-view and his experiences his acts out. He starts fights and stays in trouble. He doesn't seek anything better for himself.
Will’s coming-of-age component is when his brother Shawn is murdered. He realizes that he is now supposed to use all of the things that Shawn taught him and get revenge on the person who killed his brother. Will mature and gain more awareness when Buck gets on the elevator. Will learns more about the rules and the cycle of violence and considers the consequences of what could happen if he does follow through with killing his brother. He realizes that there are other perspectives than just getting payback.
Though the film fails to delve into the specifics of his childhood, it does become evident that Will bounced between foster homes and was often a victim to physical and emotional abuse. These childhood factors play a huge role in behavior as an adult. A recent study concluded that, “Toxic childhood stress alters neural responses to stress, boosting the emotional and physical arousal to threat, and making it more difficult for that reaction to be shut off” (LaBier). An inability to rationalize and control emotions and responses after abuse would indeed be seen as true in this film. This can be seen in the numerous fistfights Will found himself in. Despite the fact that Will could typically weasel his way out of convictions, he was convicted of assaulting a police officer. His conviction would turn out to be life altering. When Professor Gerald Lambeau saw potential in Will, he was offered a life that could include more than beers with friends and janitorial work. The arrangement Lambeau worked out
Throughout the novel, situational irony gives us insight into Will’s character. “Running, Will knew he was doing just what the nephew wanted,”
Option 1- Romeo and Juliet did not mature throughout the play and had the same maturity level throughout the novel. Imagine being two star-crossed lovers, bound to be together, but everything keeps ripping the love apart. Romeo and Juliet show how passionate they are to each other in the novel, but fail to grow maturity wise. One question that is asked at the end of the novel is, “ Did Romeo and Juliet mature throughout the novel?” this question is rightfully answer as, no.
This is when he finally breaks and starts to tear up and realize what he is doing is wrong so he changes his attitude and is very mature about how to handle situations. This component of coming of age is the perception of parents because in the story Romeo and Juliet, Juliet’s parents turn on her and cause Juliet to become more mature and make her own decisions after her parents turn on her, in the end, Juliet marries Paris when she is opposed to it and is only doing it because of Friar Lawrence plan. The event that makes Juliet cautious of her parents is when they begin to force Juliet to marry a man she does not care
Will is arrested, and during his arrest hits a cop, which seems to guarantee that he will be facing jail time.
Juliet, a main character in Romeo and Juliet by Shakespeare, experiences love in her story. Romeo and Juliet, who are supposed to be enemies and stay away from each other, find each other and eventually fall in love throughout many conflicts. Juliet first meets Romeo after he illegally shows up outside of her bedroom and starts talking about her in a very romantic way. This love that Juliet gains for Romeo then puts them through many family hardships and helps them understand that sometimes you have to fight for what you love and even keep secrets about it. Their love captures them as individuals and throws them against their world, and, at times, against themselves.
As stated on page 87, Will says “ How could you do this? We grew up together. We was like brothers! How could you do