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Cinderella Effect

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“Fairytales tell children what they unconsciously know, that human nature is not innately good, that conflict is real, that life is harsh before it is happy and thereby reassure them about their own fears and their own sense of self” (Tatar). Many adults wish they had grown up in a fairytale family or childhood seeing this as idea,l but in reality the fairytale family is very similar to our modern mixed families and rings true with the pattern of abuse and change that so many children face in our society. Audiences tend to overlook the abuse and neglect that Cinderella endures at the hands of her evil stepmother and stepsisters and focus on the happily ever after ending with the handsome prince and the glass slipper. However, the struggle …show more content…

Cinderella is an abused and neglected child by a stepparent, a term in evolutionary psychology aptly named the Cinderella Effect (Jacobs). With the prevalence of divorce and mixed families the story of Cinderella resonates with modern audiences of children and grownups alike who identify with growing up in an abusive and neglectful home or the confusing state of emotions brought on by having more than one set of parents in a mixed family. Abuse or neglect can occur in any family regardless of whether both biological parents are raising the children or one biological and one stepparent are present. However, evolutionary psychology has identified a phenomenon known as the Cinderella Effect. By the year 2000 stepfamilies outnumbered traditional families of biological parents in the United States (Rutter). When over half of all marriages end in divorce and many of those marriages produced children, the potential for children to be raised by one or more stepparents in their childhood rises significantly. The Cinderella effect is the theory that children are more likely to be abused by a stepparent than their biological parent and the acknowledgement that sometimes “the evil stepparent is not just a character in fairy tales” (Jacobs). A frightening

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