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Analysis Of Molly Worthen's 'Stop SayingI Feel Like'

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In the words of George Orwell, “If thought corrupts language, language can also corrupt thought.” Language has been spoken for over 350,000 years. It has expanded tremendously, but its power has never changed. The use of language shapes peoples' perceptions and the depth of interactions because it can demean, avoid, portray emphasis, persuade, and conceal from simple phrases such as “I feel like” and “just”.
Language has the influence to undermine the relativity or seriousness of a topic. In Molly Worthen’s article “Stop Saying ‘I Feel Like’“, she interviewed several college students, historians, scientists, etc. about their attitude toward the phrase ‘I feel like…’. In one particular response from Jing Chai, she states, “I’ve tried to …show more content…

You cannot disagree.” This up and coming generation wants to evade the debate of society; however, that is a temporary solution. Ms. Chai explains, “You can’t really refute them with logic, because that would imply they didn’t have that experience, or their experience is less valid.” This reverses back to the point of this being a period of fragility in the emotional sense. Worthen calls for action by claiming that we should argue rationally and take responsibility for our interaction with the world. Language use, including terms like ‘I feel like’, allows for the evasion and inaccurate perceptions to continue.
Moreover, the use of language supports the display of manners and emotion through emphasis. In such a time as this with the polarization of politics, words are delicate, but powerful and opinions must be treated with delicacy. Natasha Pangarkar states, “It’s [the term ‘I feel like’] an effort to make our ideas more palatable to the other person.” It is all in the process of how the opinion is presented. The phrase ‘I feel like’ seems to open the door for feelings to be shared; on the contrary, it shuts down any previous argument. This can result in the perception that the person is either empathetic or cunning enough to end the argument. In Cameron’s article, she addresses how women are criticized for saying ‘just’ too many times and counters. The word can be used in various settings. For example, “That meeting I had to go to today was just awful. People were

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