The Importance Of Lying

In Article Lies,Lies,Lies published on october 5, 992 by Time Magazine states lying is okay when you use it to get out of situation for example my dog ate my homework also you can partner up with someone so you can get out of

The four types of lies that Viorst classifies in “The Truth about Lying” are social lies, peace-keeping lies, protective lies, and trust-keeping lies. The lies that are socially and morally acceptable are social lies and protective lies. Social lies help us behave in civilized manners in order not to cause unnecessary embarrassment or pain. An example of a social lie is telling your friend that you like their haircut even though you do not. Peace-keeping lies are designed to avoid irritation or argument. These lies keep troubles at bay without hurting anyone in the process. An example of a peace-keeping lie is being late for a date and saying how you got caught up in the traffic even though you just forgot.

“The truth is always an insult or a joke, lies are generally tastier. We love them. The nature of lies is to please. Truth has no concern for anyone's comfort” Katherine Dunn perfectly describes what attracts us to lies from a quote in her book Geek Love. Most people lie to help themselves make it through day to day life. If people lie all the time, can all that lying really have an immense effect? Delays for telling the truth is not always a bad thing.While some lies are more helpful to some people more than others. Lies can make people seem untrustworthy, although lies help protect innocence, maintain self-esteem, and prevent harm from yourself or others.

Once people know that a person habitually lies, they do not take that person as seriously. Being honest demonstrates self-respect and respect for others. Honesty is appealing and engaging to others. Honesty also sets a good example for people who look up to that person. People will become closer and have faith in an authentic person. An honest person invites authentic and real friendships. Imagine if a friend overhears a lie told by another peer, it is possible that it could damage the relationship. It can be difficult to regain their trust once they are aware of the regular lying. People frequently tell lies to bypass sharing truths that feel uncomfortable or awkward. Lying should be avoided because it is important to share true judgment and care for others. Lying typically ruins relationships whether they are personal or work-related. It is clear that lying creates skepticism and disbelief. Most people will stop asking liars for advice on personal issues because they know they will not get truthful information. Friendships are often broken because of lies that get too big to keep lying about. Lying hides who people really are. People should try to keep a clean slate by staying honest, especially when there are consequences. Lying gets rid of credibility, yet people seem to lie more

Lying can save you in severe situations such as life or death. Elie lied about his age and said he was eighteen instead of fifteen. “‘Your age?’ he asked, perhaps trying to sound paternal. ‘I'm eighteen.’ My voice was trembling.” (Wiesel 31). Not telling exact information to strangers about yourself can prevent bad things from happening. He told the doctor he was sick so he didn’t have to get his crown taken. His crown could buy him an extra ration of bread and soup, so he decided it’d be smart to keep it. He said he was a farmer because it could save him from being killed immediately. Lying is one of many ways that can help people survive in certain situations.

As we all know, lying is a constant part of many people’s lives, whether they realize it or not. Now and then, we’ve all lied to our parents about our homework being completed. (Even though your homework is not done because playing video games or texting your friends is more interesting.) Honestly, lot’s of us have told a lot of white lies or maybe even a whopper of a lie, and we all have varied views on when we should or shouldn 't lie. Such as Brad Blanton, an author of a book about lying and the article, “Honestly, Tell the Truth” who believes in the concept of radical honesty: telling the truth at all times. (excluding a matter of life or death) By cutting out the white lies we tell throughout the course of our lives, there will be less lies to, as Blanton states “unnecessarily complicate our lives.” I agree with Blanton and his opinion that we honestly need to tell the truth and that if we cut out most if the lies we tell, our lives will be free of the aftermath of a lie: damaged relationships and unnecessary amounts of stress. I believe that lying is burdening to the liar who usually fights a losing battle, for he will most likely be found out. I also believe that if we excessively lie, this pattern will become a habit and a problem that will be hard to get rid of in the future. I consider lying to be harmful and damaging to relationships and to negatively affect your character and lower your moral standards. Everyone has lied occasionally, if not frequently, but if

Lying has a negative connotation in society. Once word goes around about an individual being a liar, the brutality of ostracizing commences, as if the world doesn’t possess enough pressures already. Yet, everyone lies, and lying can have positive benefits. We lie to protect our loved ones, to protect ourselves from harmful individuals or situations, and to avoid information going into the wrong hands. However, there are lies, such as rumors, that are used to destroy others identities, social life, self-concept, and those who habitually need to lie to feel more reassured of themselves as individuals. Lying’s powerful capabilities are bittersweet to say the least, but within justified moderation, they can pull that three-week-old unidentifiable murky colored gum off from the bottom of your shoe.

To begin with, sometimes people can’t handle honesty. The article “It’s the Truth:Americans Conflicted About Lying” ‘Why get here traumatized?’says Smith,64, of pioneer,Calif,’I tried to protect her. It slowed down the anxiety. Later,I told her what really happened’”. Sometimes telling truth can permanently affect someone and make them traumatized. There are some cases where the consequences of honesty outweigh the effects of lying. Additionally ,the same article it states”You don't want your kids to eat too much, so you say all the cookies are gone. You don't feel like going out,so you tell your date something important came up”.

First, it is okay to lie when you are trying to protect someone's feelings , and from getting hurting them. What I mean by protecting someone's feelings , it is that you know something that can really hurt them. An example is when you find out something very serious happened to your family so, you lie to your siblings so they do not get worried. Two thirds said it was okay to lie in certain situations. My source is from the article ¨ It's the Truth , Americans Conflicted About Lying ¨ Another example is when you do not want your kids eating too much , so you say all the cookies are gone. It can be hard to get people to tell the truth , especially about lying. My source is from the article ¨ It's The Truth, Americans Conflicted About Lying¨.

Lying is sometimes justified. Some may feel that lying is never acceptable because it is morally wrong, however, I believe lying is acceptable when it can be used to protect others. Lying can cause harm to people and hurt them. In “Rejecting All Lies” by Sissela Bok, Immanuel Kant states that lying always harms mankind individually.

Lies are like truths in disguise and I think it is acceptable to lie except it shouldn’t have a great outcome. A person should think about how their deceptions could potentially harm someone and most importantly the effects of it. In my opinion, little white-lies are fine to tell but if it is any bigger than that it shouldn’t be told. It’s always better to be truthful and honest, but every now and then if a person really needs to tell a lie, it’s alright as long as they know the effects that it entails.

While honesty it the best policy when it comes to relationships, that’s where most lies tend to be created. Why may that be? Because relationships are all about making one another happy. “And we lie particularly often when it comes to love, because we care more about love than we care about most things, and because love causes us more fear than most things do, and caring and fearing are two of the most common reasons for lying” (Martin). These lies are usually small white lies, and are generally only told for the good of the other person, or relationship.

Lying has always been something that goes against my moral code. While it’s not necessarily the utmost condemnable thing a person can do, it is a more accessible evil. Most people I know don’t commit murder or other grand crimes, but I’d venture to say most people I know lie. Ever since I was young, I always felt that lying was so deeply wrong, purposefully deceiving the people around you. As long as I remember, I would feel so ashamed whenever I lied, but on the

Lies and the truth can be both bad or both good depending on how you use them. Lies can be used to not hurt someone's feelings and make someone feel good about themselves. If someone tells the truth in a situation that would make someone feel bad. The truth hurts others sometimes as much as lying or more. The truth is good in most situations and lying is still bad in most situations. Part of our social contract, we find the need to lie for good and tell the truth only if it hurts someone else. Not one is good or bad it is how you use them that makes them that way. It is all up to your choice to make them bad or

The ethical thing to state when it comes to lies is that it is bad and wrong. Since young, we have been told fables such as ‘Pinocchio’ and even ‘The boy who cried wolf’ which taught us the moral value that lies are bad. However, is it really as detrimental as people make it out to be? There are many different kinds of lies such as bad faith, economical with truth, exaggeration, fraud, noble lie and speaking with forked tongues. Do none of these play a part in bettering society rather than only causing harm?