As generations pass by, divorce is becoming more of a social norm than a problem between two individuals. Divorce once was a private household issue but it became widespread only a couple of decades ago. According to the statistics, in the 1950s only 3% of families got divorced and in the 1960s it was already 10%. In the 1980s, 33% of families opted for divorce due to various environmental factors. Recent studies in Canada today, show that the rate of divorce is changing to an extent such that 4 in 10 marriages end in separation. Divorce is a sensitive concept which lies beyond two individuals simply falling out of love as is both the cause and an effect. The many factors that contribute to divorce are extramarital affairs, financial struggles, and the lack of communication. The decision of separation is made by both partners in the relationship mostly due to, extramarital affairs. The lack of love between a couple forces them to create other relationships that will provide the love they are missing. This results in the situation becoming worse as the separation between the individuals increases. In addition, the individual will not have a reason to fix the broken relationship because they start prioritizing other ones. This causes anger …show more content…
Diverse ways of managing money, different financial incomes, and an absence of cash can create great tension in a marriage. In fact, statistics in a survey conducted by Citibank on the divorce rates in the United States suggested that more than fifty percent of divorced couples referred to financial problems as the cause of their divorce. If the couples have children, cash turns out to be significantly more crucial to the relationship. Many individuals refer to money as the reason for their separation. If there is not enough financial care, it causes a barrier in the relationship which is what essentially leads the couple to
There is a staggeringly large amount of divorces in the United States (US). In total, the US had a recorded total of 2,140,272 marriages in the year 2014 alone, and of those marriages, 813,862 ended up in divorce or annulment (Center for Disease Control). This means that as recently as 2014, there was a divorce rate of approximately 40%. This supports the statistics that the divorce rate for the US has stayed within 40-50% since the 1970’s (Austin Institute, 2014). While the numbers themselves are important, it is also important that the causes for the high divorce rate be explored, so that it can be known what pitfalls to avoid when participating in such an important union as marriage. There are many causes of divorce in the US such as conflicting gender roles, socioeconomic status, religious conflicts, physical abuse, emotional abuse, alcohol addictions, and many more (Amato & Previti, 2003). This paper will look at many of these reasons, but it will also focus on the differing reasons reported by men and women.
Variables such as abuse, illness, death, and financial issues all factor into crumbling marriages; “irreconcilable
Throughout time, practices that were once never used, become more common. In the 1600s divorce was a forbidden practice or a last resort. Since then, laws have changed, and so hasn’t the stigma related with divorce. The guilt and fault that divorce once carried has vanished. According to the book Should I Keep Trying to Work it out, “In the United States, researchers estimate that 40%–50% of all first marriages will end in divorce or permanent separation. The risk of divorce is even higher for second marriages, about 60%.” (Hawkins 42). As it became more common for couples in America to separate, divorce gradually became a normal part of so many lives. Why are so many couples separating now? Through research on EBSCO, and other findings, I will attempt to explain this question that so many people ask in today’s world. The divorce rate in America is drastically increasing over time due to new laws, certain generations, and relationship issues.
There are, undoubtedly, a number of causes for divorce. Divorce used to be considered scandalous and immoral. This contributed to many marriages surviving despite strains. However, as divorce becomes more common, the more natural and expectable it seems. The number of divorces per year per1000 people in the U.S. has been declining since hitting our highest point in1981. (“divorce_ rate”) The United States has one of the highest divorce rates in the world. As a, couple’s relationship, marriages are more
Divorce is a rising social issue in the United States of America, but it is not a new concept. Divorce has been a social issue since at least 1867 when for every 35.9 marriages, one couple were to get a divorce (Huth, 1947). Although divorce is not a new concept, it has become more social acceptance which is raising the divorce rate over the years. Another controversial topic in divorce is when the two people divorcing have a child or children together. Approximately 150,000-200,000 children in the United States of America are affected by divorce yearly (Huth, 1947).
The article “Money Issues That Can Test Even a Rock-Solid Marriage Issues That Can Test Even a Rock-Solid Marriage” focuses on how having trouble with finances affects relationships unfavorably. Most couples do not discuss finances before committing, and may find themselves at odds for various reasons, particularly a few years or more into the relationship. Specifically, this editorial lists five main financial issues for couples and offers some helpful notions to ameliorate the situation.
Looking at the next issue I feel is another steeping stone in divorce is finances. It seems our society feels that the more we have the happier we will be. If we have more money, better job, bigger house it all equals a better life. We work towards higher paying jobs which tend to lead to more hours in return means less time at home and building a family unit. During
No couple wants to experience financial troubles in their relationship. Unfortunately, many marriages are hit with this problem. Financial problems are also the number one cause of divorce here in America. A reason for this may be that countless couples continue to fail to: discuss money issues, plan a budget, or set back savings. Due to this, their risk of divorce, because of financial problems increases. A divorce can be very expensive and the effects of it can lead someone
When couples separate, their expenses can increase to as much as $20,000 to $30,000 a year because they now need to support their separate households by themselves (The real cost of divorce in Canada, 2013). Though finances affect both parents in a divorce, women were shown to struggle more with their finances and also were not able to recover their financial stability as fast as men, especially after the divorce. A Canadian study found that women’s median income drops 29% the first year after marital dissolution, while for men it drops 7% (The Effects of Divorce on America, 2014). As for how much each parent earns after divorce, census data from 2009 shows that 32.6 percent of divorced men had incomes of $75,000 and up every year while 29.9 percent of women had incomes of $25,000 to $40,000 (Marriage, Divorce, Money, 2012). Compare to what they were earning before divorcing, men earn about 95% of their pre-dissolution median income, while women earn about 80% (The Effects of Divorce on America,
The economic factors are also a problem with divorced families which in turn has a direct effect on the ability of the children to succeed financially. The majority of divorces that occur, result in the household income being reduced by as much as half. This can have a much greater effect on children growing up in a family that is financially secure before the divorce. The adjustment and change that must occur financially is often devastating to the children especially in their formative years. (Fagan & Rector, 2000)
Divorce is becoming all too popular in our society today. When a couple experience tough times or have one too many arguments, they automatically think divorce. Despite its prevalence couples are not prepared for it’s long, drawn out, hurtful process. Divorce does not only hurt the individuals involved, it also affects the children tremendously. While many people don’t think divorce is a bad thing. Hollywood makes divorce look cool and uneventful. When in all reality, it is disruptive. Some people would say that divorce is a lazy way out of a marriage; the cowardly thing to do when a situation presents itself. Divorce is not the only answer to marital problems, in most cases.
In 1995, Statistics Canada data shows that 30% of marriages split (McGovern). Since the 1960’s, marriage and divorce have been undergoing profound changes which have altered the meaning of marriage, the chances of its ending in divorce and the circumstances attached to marriage. These changes have made it easier for couples to obtain a divorce due to the changing laws and changing morals of society. The changes include three new grounds needed to prove marital breakdown, such as your spouse committing adultery, your spouse causing mental or physical cruelty or a separation of a year it was previously three years. Divorce also impacts the family as a whole, not only the children but also the two parties
The divorce process starts in the palm of the couple’s hand. They decide and determine whether or not to get a divorce. Divorces has good and bad outcomes and they affect different people. Couples have the direct impact, while children have to live with the outcome and the society has an indirect impact from it. There are issues with divorce at each level. Historically, divorces were hard and rare to achieve. However, the liberalization of divorce laws created a no-fault divorce law that made it easier for couples to have a divorce without evidence of conflict (Ball and Kvisto). As society is implementing to these new laws, couples’ perception of divorce has changed. It can be argued that because of the new divorce laws, Americans now see marriage
There are three main causes of divorce: changing in woman’s roles, stress in modern living, and lack of communication. The first significant cause of recent rise in the rates of divorce is a woman’s role being completely changed. In the past, men had to earn all the money to afford the expenses of the family, whereas woman only did housework. That led to the woman having no money
People in America are determined to get married and live together. Married couples want to share everything and depend on each other. However, fifty percent of these couples cannot seem to fulfill their marriage vows. As a result, they choose to get a divorce. Divorce is very easy to do nowadays unlike the past. Statistics show that the four main causes of divorce are: financial difficulty, women are more independent, infidelity, and couples are getting married at a young age.