Kelsey Huffine
English
Amy Tibbals
12 April 2016
Will Children of Divorce Be Doomed in Their Own Relationships
In today’s society divorce is very common. We hear people talk about all the time how children with divorced parents are most likely to fail in their own relationships. So do they? I believe that it can effect your future. I think that whether or not you fail in a relationship it is going to effect you in other aspects of your relationship either making you fail or beating the odds and seceding in your relationship or marriage.
Leslie Doares author of “Is My Marriage Doomed If My Parents Got Divorced when I was a kid” Claims we know someone in every family that has been divorced. Not all people who come from divorced homes are going to get divorced. She goes on to say “So, does this mean that if your parents divorced, you either will never marry or, if you do, it will fail? Not at all. I have been married for 26 years. My other sister just celebrated her 28th anniversary. Several of the second marriages in my family lasted until the death of one partner — often over 30 years. (Doares). In this quote she is is explaining that she came from a spilt home and divorced parents and hasn’t been divorced yet. She is saying that just because your parents are divorced mean you will end up in divorce. I don’t completely agree with this. She is one person that made her marriage work. That doesn’t mean that everyone can make it work. She could have been taught how to deal
In general, children from divorced families did have more behavioral problems than children from non-divorced families. They continue to struggle with the behaviors well into their adolescence stage and into their adult stage (Weaver, 2015). It makes maintaining relationships and trusting others difficult.
In the article, “Do the Kids Think they’re Okay? Adolescents’ view on the Impact of Marriage and Divorce” by Deborah Gatins, she does a survey on the impact of children’s lives and their parents’ relationship. She concluded, “Adolescents from separated or divorced families tended to rate their parents’ relationships and the impact on them more negatively than adolescents from living together or married families” (313). Parents’ relationships will not be as good if they are divorced because they are probably both arguing and fighting over something rather than an intact, healthy, strong relationship.
Divorce is one of many controversial subjects in family and human development research. What inspired me to critically analyze the article “Does Divorce Create Long-Term Negative Effects for Children?” is the challenge it would be for me to put my bias aside considering I am from a divorced home. After reading the article and analyzing it over and over, I can’t help but think that the writer answering “YES” to this controversial question overlooked many variables and over generalized his findings and research. With Zinsmeister overgeneralizing his research, not considering enough alternate explanations for long-term negative effects divorce, and his lack of relevant information needed to assess reliability and validity are why I find this article to be insightful but not accurate and hope to show why.
How children are affected by divorce is a question of vast significance to your children and, of course, to you. Divorce delivers many losses for parents and for minors. Divorce means you want to abolish your marriage with your significant other. Divorce can make you believe that you are losing your whole family. Divorce could possibly mean losing your home, associates, and the loss of social status. For kids divorcing may mean losing their school, losing frequent contact with one of their parents, and sometimes losing some affection, attention, and needed discipline from both of the parents. Divorce is the ending point of your position as a husband or wife, and it can sometimes make you feel like you are not a good parent. In addition, divorce means the sacrifice of your plans and imageries for yourself, for your family, and for your children. So how are children affected by divorce? The answer is not simple, which is one reason why numerous people are confused.
Children of divorce are numerous, the effects of their biological parents separation and subsequent divorce has lasting effects on their behavior, academics, and their emotions. No one seems to care about the prevalence of divorce in society today; it is no longer considered taboo.
and their world. He or she may be uprooted to a new school, city or
It is no surprise that the rate of divorce in the world has been climbing steadily. Ever since the 1970’s the rate of divorce has risen exponentially. While the traumas of divorce are ever present for the couple splitting up, has anyone thought about how this effects their children? It often seems that children are placed on the back burner, when it comes to marital issues, and treated as collateral damage in their parents’ whirlwind issues. In this paper, I will be focusing on how divorce negatively affects the children, and the strain that is placed upon them, and the current rates at which people are ending their marriages.
Thinking about divorce? Before making any decisions, think about your child’s emotions toward your decision. Maybe that will change your mind. Every child is different, so every child will accept and adapt to a change like this differently. In this paper I will be discussing the impact of divorce on children, children’s adaptations to their situations, and finally, my journey through parents’ divorce.
Divorce is a controversial issue in the United States. On one side of the argument, some researchers claim that children of divorced parents are still able to adapt to their new environment and have an enhanced level of maturity, among other things. On the other hand, researchers like Karl Zinsmeister believe that the effects of divorce on children can never be fully overcome and marital conflicts cause significantly less damage to children than divorce does (Zinsmeister, 1996). The purpose of this paper is to summarize the article and provide three weaknesses and one strength of the author’s argument and provide an opinion of the topic.
(Ruschena, Prior, Sanson, & Smart, 2005). They hypothesized that those children who had experience family transitions such as divorce were less likely to succeed. (Ruschena, Prior, Sanson, & Smart, 2005). The results of the study show that children who displayed the most problem weren’t due to the divorce itself but to the relationship with the parents and their actions.
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Divorce is a topic of much debate in the United States. “Till death do us apart”, is the famous vow that married couples promise one another as a sign of everlasting love. However, over the last few years we have seen an increase in divorce rates. If you look back to a few decades ago, divorce wasn’t as accepted by society. Nevertheless divorce has become more acceptable in today 's modern society in recent years. Many can argue that the negative consequences outweigh the benefits of divorce for those involved, especially the children that become victims. Majority can agree that due to the serious matter, divorce should not be taken lightly. Living in the United States allows people the freedom to make choices that are not always accepted well by society in other countries. Divorce can be a long and painful process for everyone involved, that is left with emotional and social consequences that take place throughout adulthood.
[It is generally know that the divorce rate in the United States hovers around fifty percent, including forty percent under the age of 21. In that fifty percent one of every six adults is likely to go through a divorce twice. Not only does divorce affect the adults involved, but forty percent of children in the United States will experience parental divorce (Portnoy, 2008). Children with divorced parents struggle with negative consequences emotionally, mentally, and academically compared to those children from intact families.]
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“About 40 to 50 percent of married couples in the United States divorce. The divorce rate for subsequent marriages is even higher” (American Psychological Association). Divorce occurs on a daily basis. As long as people continue to get married, people will continue to get divorced. When two people are divorced, it not only affects them but, it affects the other people in their lives, such as their children. Childhood is a delicate time in a person’s life. It is a time of learning and development. When looking at how divorce affects children, it can be seen, that it has both positive and negative effects. Ultimately, there are more negative effects than positive effects when it comes to how divorce affects children. Studies have shown that children of divorced parents have a higher rate of mental illness, are more likely to have behavioral problems, eating disorders and substance abuse issues. Also, it can be noted that children of divorce have life long issues due to the divorce of their parents (Effects...Health). Divorce is a serious matter and when handled improperly it can be detrimental for the children involved.