Being “optimistic” is to have confidence in having a successful future. A future that is going to fill every goal we have ever dreamed of achieving, conquering our greatest fears, and accomplishing the un-accomplishable. “Everything will be okay in the end,” and “Do not worry, it will all fall into place eventually,” are things we say to ourselves almost constantly. Why does everything only have to be “okay” later on in life? We should not just be optimistic about the future; we need to aspire to be optimistic about the present.
As privileged as most of us are, we tend to take things for granted far too often. Maybe we get everything we want right when we wish for it and that one time we do not, we have a fit. Instead of losing control and having a fit, we should automatically be able to look at everything else we have that is superior in our lives, even if it is not material, and be glad with it. For instance,
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Pessimism is lacking confidence in ones future, and expecting the worst possible outcome. Until recently scientists believed one was either an optimist or a pessimist and one person could not simply be both; a pessimist on some occasion and an optimist on another. Now, we know that it is a completely possible circumstance which we see every day in our own lives. It is also known that being an optimist is the most strived for way of life, but some cannot overcome seeing the worst case scenario.
When I first heard of this essay contest I had really thought about whether I was an optimist or pessimist. My friends and I were jokingly coming up with the best way to look at everything. My empty water bottle was sitting on my desk and we could not come up with a bright way to look at it at first. After a few minutes of analyzing we decided the bottle was “ready to be filled” rather than just plain empty. I learned that I am in better spirits when thinking positively even the in silliest of
Optimism in some cases is a desirable trait due to its fundamental nature. Being optimistic allows people to keep their head high and keep moving, even through the most dire situations that they may face. Optimism is a priority because it helps people in various ways and, also a very prominent trait in some people. In life, optimism is often viewed as a desirable trait, and something that can benefit somebody’s life.
Notwithstanding the numerous advantages of pessimism, proven by studies, society continues to condemn it. This is particularly due to the fact that optimism is viewed as more superior, compared to pessimism. Author, Jon Gordon, reports, “‘Whether we feed ourselves each day with negative fuel or positive fuel … our optimism has a big impact on our day’” (Gordon). Gordon conveys the fact that, ultimately, optimism determines success, not pessimism. Additionally, Adam Sinicki, a psychology graduate, comments that remaining optimistic during strenuous times will help alleviate the situation because an individual is believing that matters will only mend (Sinicki). While there may be research to support these claims, the truth is, they fail to shed
Starting with Optimistic people, Optimistic people like to view the world as everything is positive. People who are optimistic see everything as a wonderful dream land and tend to ignore all problem’s keeping the bad in and acting trying to make everything look okay when actually they are hurting inside. Overly pessimistic are those who look at the world being dangerous. Everyone is out for their head and views the world as a rotten place. This makes some people dangerous and angry at the small things in life. Sad to say that I am kind of one these people. I not fully pessimistic but I have my days where I hate the world and see my life being useless. Last but not least is the Realistic viewpoint. Looking at life with a realistic viewpoint, you look around in their life finding evidence of dangerous before they get comfortable.
As mentioned earlier, I am also a pessimist. Because of this pessimism, I plan and act ahead even before a problem arrives, which makes it easier to handle stressful
Optimism is defined as the belief that upcoming occurrences will have positive results. Optimism has been connected to numerous facets of mental health in adults (Lai, 1995; Schweizer, Beck-Seyffer, & Schneider, 1999). The study of optimism derives
Paul & Elder (2012) states that overly pessimistic thinking can rob a person's happiness, and a person's thinking determines every aspect of his or her life. Personally, I have found these things to be true. The majority of the time I try to hide my pessimism from others because I do not want to affect other people's moods. Sometimes, I have made situations worse by thinking negative when facing
Optimism: Optimism is being positive and seeing the best in a bad situation. All situations are never going to be the same, and when things go south, it is always good to stay positive. This action is definitely needed when dealing with personal issues and then having to deal with the stress of the workplace.
Where are my roots in optimism comes from the Bible, My family, and Basketball. The Bible teaches me to have hope lets me know I have a future. Jeremiah 29:11 states “ For I know the plans I have for you they are to prosper you not to harm you and give you a hope and a future.” So knowing that one day i'll live eternity in a beautiful and perfect place with my family and my ancestors before me lets not only me but my family be very optimistic.
This literature review set out to discover the correlational direction between Optimism and PWB. Optimism is defined as, a general expectancy that the future holds more positive than negative events (Scheier & Carver, 1985; Scheier, Carver & Bridges, 1994). Psychological well-being is conceptualised as the subjective quality of one’s life (Schweizer, Beck-Seyffer & Schneider, 1999), it comprises of six core concepts: Self-acceptance; Positive relations with others; Autonomy; Environmental mastery; Purpose in life and Personal growth (Ryff, 1989).
You’re either optimistic or you’re pessimistic, meaning you either view the world positively or negatively. Everyone views the world in a different perspective. Everyone is bound to go through challenges in their life. It’s what you make of those challenges that really matters.
The world has a whole is a wonderful place to live and breathe. But, think about it. Would it always be that way? Optimism is a power mindset that has made where we live great, and that goes for everyone. Because no matter how hard anything is...it
Being optimistic is the main principle for most people. We may often hear the statement about “be an optimist, not a pessimist!” shouted by people. Sometimes you do it for yourself too. When facing such a failure or problem, this will not only help to relieve your heart. Being optimistic will help someone to be healthy in physical and mental. An optimist will find the best way in any circumstance and hope for every good thing can come to him/her. You may have gone through thousands of hard times. However, if you are a born optimist then you will not care of anything destructing you.
The infamous question “Glass half full, or half empty?” Many people believe that this one simple question tells a lot about a person and how they view life, but I can’t help but disagree. This is a clear case of a black or white logical fallacy, where there is no grey, only black or white. I believe that this is a circumstantial question. It really depends. How thirsty are you? Did you fill the glass to the halfway point, or did you fill the whole glass and drink half? There are so many scenarios, yet we try to fit every person into just one of two categories. The optimists; those who see the glass as half full, and the pessimist; those whom see the glass as half empty. The optimist is often portrayed as the happy-go-lucky person, always happy and having high expectations, always expecting the best. But I don’t believe that having high expectations means you will be happier. Quite the contrary really. If your expectations are too high, it will only hurt worse when something goes wrong.
Talking about pessimism, it is one aspect that may be found in some literary work, such as poem. Pessimism is a state of mind in which one anticipates undesirable outcomes or believes that the evil or hardships in life outweigh the good or luxuries . The term “pessimism” is often related to philosophical pessimism. The philosophical pessimistic view of the effect of historical progress tends to be more negative than positive. The philosophical pessimist does not deny that certain areas like science can progress but they deny that this has resulted in an overall improvement of the human condition. In this sense it could be said that the pessimist views history as ironic; while seemingly getting better, it is mostly in fact not improving at all, or getting worse .
Optimistic and pessimistic attitudes constantly affect the outcome of people's lives. In my life, I try to keep an optimistic attitude about the things I do because I know it will help lead me to more desirable ends. There have been many situations in which optimism has helped me through difficult times. Two areas in particular have provided me optimistic experiences: athletics