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Why Do We Have Social Anxiety?

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Why? Often we forget to ask why for the simplest of things. Why are we doing this? Why does this happen? For example, we don’t ask why we have to eat. If we took the time to answer these questions, we could. We eat because the nutrients in food are what cause our bodies to work. Eating gives us energy and helps us to grow. However, my questions never get an answer. Why do I struggle waving hello to someone as if there were the weight of the world tied to my wrist making it almost impossible to raise my hand? Why am I constantly rude to others who only want to befriend me? Why do I have social anxiety? Why can’t I ever explain how I feel when it matters most? Why, why, why. I enter my high school and climb the steps thinking today will be different I know it will. I mean I spent almost a whole hour making sure my hair is put together oh so nicely and that my makeup is perfectly blended but not too noticeable. I chose my outfit last night making sure these jeans make my butt look good and this shirt is tight but not too tight because maybe looking my best will change everything. But oh god no, everyone is so much taller than me and that changes …show more content…

Social anxiety disorders affect almost 25% of all teens and 30% of all teen girls while only 5% receive treatment or have someone to talk to. (“Teens Are Feeling”) This issue is very personal to me and I am learning through what I go through on a daily basis, is not okay. It is okay to feel different and it is okay to be anxious but, you can’t get better alone and that is the unfortunate truth. I’m getting better, and wouldn’t be able to if it wasn’t for the friends I have today. I’m proud to say it gets better. I could not believe that this could be overcome so quickly because I felt that I was stuck in the quicksand I made for myself. I’m not going to lie, there are some days where I do not want to get out of bed but now I know how to beat it and I

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