When an object we desire becomes unavailable to us, we often search for a replacement. It economics this is called a substitute good, in a relationship this is called a rebound, and in Freudian terms, this is called displacement. In the movie, girl with a pearl earring, Greit creates a chain of displacement, when she displaces her fathers love onto Vermeer and then her attraction to Vermeer onto Pieter. The initiating event in TGWTPE is the moment Greit’s father goes blind due to a work accident. Greit’s father is a very important figure to her. Greit often carried around a memoir of her father, a tile he had made specifically for her. As she leaves her home to go and work for the Vermeer family, it appears that her fathers tile is her only …show more content…
Vermeer, similarly to greits father, is an artist. He is a painter for a living, and is a father figure himself, with many kids and a wife named Catharina. The disposition of an artist and a familiarity of a father, all similar to her own father, is what drew Greit to Vermeer from the beginning. Vermeer was never hostile with Greit. He never pushed her away when she came into his world. In fact, he invited her into it, even using his higher authority to push her into it. It started slowly, with Vermeer introducing Greit to his new camera, and discussing the color of clouds, then to inviting her to be around as he worked. These moments impacted Greit the most. Her father being an artist, it is safe to assume that she has been around and has spent time with her father as he did his craft and that she could find it comforting. The relation of her father and his tile work to Vermeer with his paintings is not a direct reflection. Not all displacements are exact, however both are art forms making painting relate to tile making, when discussing displacement, in a valid way. The one pivoting difference however between Greit’s father and Vermeer, is that Vermeer is sexually obtainable. He’s an object not forbidden through biology, and through his mystery and familiarity, Vermeer and Greits relationship turns from familial to …show more content…
Being of age often means that a girl is experiencing changes both physically and mentally. Physically speaking she is growing more and filling out her shape as a woman. Mentally speaking, Greit is experiencing sexual urges and frustrations. Vermeer and Greit often engaged with eachother in sexually tense moments. The most notable moments are when Vermeer and Greit just stare at eachother deeply, not moving, challenging the other to make a move. There are many occasions where they stare at each other intensely. When Greit is making paints for Vermeer and he grabs her hands under his, moving them together, she stares directly at him, unwavering. The physical contact, on top of the very suggestive movement of the hands topped with the deep stares resonates sexual tension. When Greit is taking off her hair wrap, letting her hair fall, to find Vermeer staring her down only to stare at her back is an even stronger example. He’s seen her hair in this scene, a symbol of her sexuality, of her femininity, yet when she notices him staring she doesn’t rush to hide it, she stands there and stares back as if to ask, “what now.” They both acknowledge and are aware of the tension. Biologically there is nothing holding them back from each other however; the biggest hurdle of their relationship is social status. Vermeer is not only a married man, but on a different social level than Greit. His status as a painter of a
Although he describes her as a “life-bloated, baffled, long-suffering hag” (11), Grendel realizes that “she would gladly have given her life to end my [his] suffering… with useless, mindless love” (102). He also believes that “she must have some human in her” (11), furthering Grendel’s character as one that derived from humankind at the very least. The novel acts as a witness to the fact that Grendel did have a childhood. Although his childhood brought on some struggles, this is a part of all life, including that of people. He finds his purpose in life when “at an early age [he] is forced to deal with a brutal and meaningless reality” (Butts) and he begins he finds his purpose. Throughout Gardner’s novel, Grendel tries to learn “how best to deal with the world” (Butts). As Grendel grows up, he learns from and is influenced by many different people who act as his teachers and role models. These interactions are Grendel’s closest alternative to the relations that the average human has. Grendel has three unique influences in his life: his mother, the Shaper, and the dragon. Grendel views his mother with disgust and she provides the inspiration and motivation for him to do better with his own life. The Shaper’s influence brings out Grendel’s ability of
This fond memory of her childhood was a time when the Walls family was not starving or homeless, and Jeannette’s father had a true job that was providing food and shelter for their family. This period was one of the few times in Jeannette’s life during which the Walls family was at peace with one another. Education was the main way the family bonded, so the constant presence of literature and reading in this part of her life demonstrates that this could have been a time where the relationship between parents and children in the Walls family was at its strongest and
Coming of age is defined as the transition from one’s youth to his or her adulthood. Romeo and Juliet by Shakespeare, House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, and Lord of the Flies by William Golding all explore this concept. Romeo and Juliet is a story about two star-crossed lovers in the depths of forbidden love despite an ancient family feud. House on Mango Street is a series of vignettes about a young Latina girl’s life growing up in Chicago. Lastly, Lord of the Flies is about a group of abandoned children who work to survive on a deserted island. Each of these stories provides details as to what characteristics define a mature individual, and they also show the various processes to achieve this maturity.
Underage really and taken advantage of. In the chapter the first job an older man took advantage of her ¨would I please give him a birthday kiss. I thought I would because he was so old and just as I was about to put my lips on his cheek, he grabs my face with both hands and kisses me hard on the mouth and doesn't let go.¨ he uses the fact that she was young and dumb to his advantage. The next example is from the paragraph Linoleum Roses “She sits at home because she is afraid to go outside without his permission. She looks at all the things they own: the towels and the toaster, the alarm clock and the drapes. She likes looking at the walls, at how neatly their corners meet, the linoleum roses on the floor, the ceiling smooth as wedding cake.” he married a 7th grader because she was pretty is what it boils down to. He treats her like an animal and she cant do anything really she just wanted to
Jordan Woods has finally started her senior year at Hundred Oaks High in Franklin, Tennessee. Jordan is not just one of the guys, she is the captain and starting quarterback for her high school football team, the Red Raiders. Her Father, Donovan Woods, is a pro football player and is quarterback for the Tennessee Titans. Her Brother, Kyle Woods, is a college football player and is quarterback for the University of Tennessee. Jordan dream is nothing more than to play for the University of Alabama football team, but her father thinks differently.
Grendel is an unreliable narrator in John Gardner’s book Grendel, which describes his life journey to find truth about humanity and himself. Grendel does not display the qualities of an impartial, authoritative, and unbiased narrator in the story, but instead gives the reader cause for suspicion in his narration of events. Firstly, Grendel is inherently biased as a narrator because it comes from the first person point of view. Grendel has a bias to favor himself more positively in the events that transpire over the course of the novel. He displays personal interest and is directly involved in the conflicts that arise. Moreover, Grendel antagonizes and tortures the humans over the course of twelve long years and can lessen his guilt by being deceptive to the reader. He diverts blame for
In John Gardner’s Grendel, his theme can be interpreted in several manners. I see it as the author is trying to have the reader sympathize with Grendel. Others may think that Gardner is trying to make Grendel seem more monstrous; more evil. The author’s intentions are portrayed by explaining Grendel’s experiences prior to facing off Beowulf.
Grendel in a situation where he is feeling different emotions that make him act a certain way. Every time Grendel terrorizes human beings, it seems vile and full of hate, but that is not the intention. People fail to acknowledge why the relationship between Grendel and humans is full of hate. The awful relationship started off when they started off with a negative impression due to the lack of communication. Grendel became scared of the humans and the only thing the humans can do is defend themselves when they see an enormous monster. While Grendel knows of his evil deeds he is still confused about what his true identity is. This failure to figure out his identity is what Grendel seems to try and achieve throughout the novel. It is not easy for him because of the position he has in life. Grendel does not truly know his place in the world and he strives throughout his life to find the answer.
Grendel was a character that was widely misunderstood in the book Grendel by John Gardner he was portrayed in the book as a gruesome beast when in reality all he had wished his entire life was to fit in. Throughout this story Grendel feels he has no friends in the outside world and no one to accept him besides his own mother. He doesn’t want to accept his role in society of being the Great Destroyer described to him by the dragon. Man creates a huge problem in Grendel’s life and has had a major effect on the way he lives with man. Grendel in his heart never truly wanted to be destructive; it was the rejection of mankind that changed his view on his life.
‘The Necklace’ is a morality tale written by Guy de Maupassant where he portrays the life of a beautiful but dissatisfied girl named Mathilde who desires to live a luxurious life despite being born into a clerk’s family and marrying a clerk too. Mathilde’s discontentment in life instigates her to pretend someone rich that she is not. Moreover, it leads her to severe trouble that caused ten years of hardship to Mathilde and her husband. So, this suffering is a punishment for Mathilde which taught her a lesson and changed her dramatically over the course of the story by making her a person of completely different personality for whom appearances
As stated above, other “mortgage shops” would attempt to discredit an all online origination system by pointing out the lack of a “live body” person to point questions to. To counter this, The Loan Doctor will employ knowledgeable mortgage professionals to handle questions in an online chat forum that walks the client through any questions they might have; these mortgage professionals would be paid per diem, per helped client. They would be fully trained on the software The Loan Doctor uses. These threats would be from the older portion of our population that likes face-to-face
Gretel represents the change that occurred in a whole generation of German Youth (Hitler Youth) during WWII, she starts as a child with dolls then abandons these for propaganda in the hope of gaining power in the eyes of Herr Lizt, Kotler and her Father
Vermeer asked Griet to wear his wife’s pearl earrings for the sitting. She knew it would cause more trouble but was obedient to the man she had fallen in love with. This complication built suspense for the readers as they anticipated the wife’s reaction. After Vermeer’s wife saw the earrings in the painting, she tried to destroy it. Griet knew she had to leave. She chose to go to Pieter who she later married. When Vermeer died 10 years later, he left the pearl earrings to Griet in his will. The author’s mix of realistic events, romantic love, and unwanted sexual encounters reflect a timeless storyline that would appeal to young adults in today’s society, facing the same problems.
It not only threatens, but also breaks through. Betrayed by love once in her life, she nevertheless seeks it in the effort to fill the lonely void; thus, her promiscuity. But to adhere to her tradition and her sense of herself as a lady, she cannot face this sensual part of herself. She associates it with the animalism of Stanley's lovemaking and terms it “brutal desire”. She feels guilt and a sense of sin when she does surrender to it, and yet she does, out of intense loneliness. By viewing sensuality as brutal desire she is able to disassociate it from what she feels is her true self, but only at the price of an intense inner conflict. Since she cannot integrate these conflicting elements of desire and gentility, she tries to reject the one, desire, and live solely by the other. Desperately seeking a haven she looks increasingly to fantasy. Taking refuge in tinsel, fine clothes, and rhinestones, and the illusion that a beau is available whenever she wants him, she seeks tenderness and beauty in a world of her own making.
Have you ever want too many things even though your life was already fulfilled and lost yourself? Have you ever ask too much and regret for what you did? Every desire, ambition, selfishness and a bit of extravagant of a human being was carefully portrayed in this story, “The Necklace”. The story is about a young woman named Mathilde Loisel. Born in a family of artisans, she wasn’t rich, but beautiful and glamor. But she never feel satisfied of what she had and never stop dreaming to have more, to live a luxury life with expensive homes and glittering dresses, and eventually paid hard for her nonsense dreams. In “The Necklace”, Guy de Maupassant uses third person limited narration to show how Mathilde Loisel changes in how she