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Figuring out who you are as a teenager can be very difficult. In the story Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? By Joyce Carol Oates this is evident with the main character Connie. Connie, a young fifteen year old, has a split personality that while at home seems like a normal teenager, yet outside of her home she is very sexual; she manages to keep them separate until Arnold shows up at her home unwelcomed. In the story Connie is a young girl who is trying to feel alive and be popular, in the process she discovers that trying to be popular can be scary and not worth losing who you are in the process. Connie has two personalities; while at home she is the normal teenage girl but once out with friends she is very sexual, and when two are …show more content…

Connie focuses on herself and how she looks, rags on her sister and her appearance, and is in feuds with her family more often than not over petty things. Like most young teenagers Connie’s looks are very important, “She was fifteen and she had a quick nervous giggling habit of craning her neck to glance into mirrors or checking other people’s faces to make sure her own was all right.” (233). Connie constantly worrying about looks indicates that she cares about others opinions and what others to find looks appealing at all times. Many young girls believe they need to have the best looks in order to be accepted by their mothers and family and therefore Connie’s obsession over looks could have to do with the fact she feels if she is prettier than her sister, her mom may love her more and give her more attention. Connie focuses on her sister’s negatives to help herself be more appealing, “She [June] was a secretary in the same high school Connie attended, and if that wasn’t bad enough—with her in the same building—she was so plain and chunky and steady that Connie had to hear her praised all the time by her mother and her mother’s sister.” (233). Connie is clearly jealous of her older sister’s attention and therefore attacks her looks. Connie’s obsession with her looks and ragging on her sister tells us that she acts like a normal teenager at home, and this normality may help Connie in convincing that when she goes out she really does only do the normal teenager things they think she is

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