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When Men Get Paternity Leave

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When welcoming a new little one into the world, life gets harder. Life gets in the way of being able to provide undivided attention while also keeping up with day to day tasks. Once a baby is born, the mother often takes maternity leave so she can do this but what about the father? In some companies they offer paternity leave so that fathers can stay home with their newborn while receiving partial wages and benefits. In allowing men to have access to paternity leave, men will no longer be set up as secondary parents. While taking leave, it would promote healthy relationships, positively impact how men feel about being new fathers, and help relieve new mothers.
While allowing the father to stay home with his newborn is important for him, the same can be said for their new relationship. When a baby is born daily aspects change such as sleeping patterns, how neat the house looks, or even how the relationship was before. Paternity leave allows for all these changes to adapt, especially between mother and father. It …show more content…

Bringing that newborn home opens up a new door full of surprises often. In opening that door fathers often feel underprepared, especially when it comes to changing that first exploded diaper. Do they wash the baby, wipe it down, or just call mom in? Paternity leave allows fathers to learn how to be confident in the decisions they make regarding their new skills. Fathers are more confident, as are many others, when they practice something. Without the option of paternity leave, men can miss out on the opportunity to become the confident father they wish to be. While they have the possibility to miss out on new skill building, they may also miss out on those first special moments. In the first few weeks of life, babies change dramatically. Allowing the father to be home during these moments lets them feel like they didn’t miss those major

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