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Virtually Normal: An Argument About Homosexuality Analysis

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While most homosexuals have horror stories to tell about their childhood and early teen years about growing up in a straight world, others grew up as average all American children.
In Andrew Sullivan’s book “Virtually Normal: An Argument about Homosexuality” (Sullivan), he describes to us the feelings he had growing up homosexual in England, and his different experiences and perspectives on homosexuality. I can say that I agree with most of his experiences about how he felt as a young homosexual. Growing up homosexual, I was often ridiculed for the choices I made in a very gender assigned world, I wanted to participate in gymnastics, while most other boys my age wanted to play in dirt or play football with other neighborhood boys.

Andrew describes how homosexuals learn to survive using self-concealment (Sullivan 195), In other words, hiding who you truly are from your peers, family and anyone else that you feel could “out” you at any given moment. I never fully came out to my parents until age 16, so I knew what concealment was all about. Being gay for me was not something I felt I needed to shout to the world before age 16. At age 16, I felt it was the right time to come out to my family due to the fact that I started dating another boy my age. What is strange about concealment is I find myself concealing my homosexuality in certain environments to this day, in public with my partner we do not have public displays of affection, as I am …show more content…

This point touched home for me and took me back to my childhood and teenage years, reminding me how I felt back then, that I never truly actually belonged anywhere. I always felt out of place wherever I went, whether it was a relative’s house or a friends in the neighborhood. I felt like a person that was transported to Mars to fend for

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