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Trading Motherhood For Dollars By Crisanta Sampang Analysis

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Happiness is not how much you make or how many degrees you have or how big your house is or how fancy your car is. It is finding peace and joy and calmness in your life that will soon become the most important thing to you. Your family is what matters to you, love is what matters to you. Things that are of quality, not quantity. Crisanta Sampang’s article “Trading Motherhood for Dollars” is one case in a million where parents choose money over happiness.
Firstly, living in this era makes us believe that money is the most powerful thing in this world; money can buy everything, even love and happiness. Parents think that giving gifts to their children, buying them latest technology stuff is a great way to win their hearts. However, they neglect the idea that they are putting their children in the same place as they are where money is more important. Children love toys but what they actually need is the absolute presence of parents in their life. “There …show more content…

Everyone has to compete with one another; everyone has to show off; everyone have to have the best thing possible. Brothers are read to kill each other over money. Not far, one of my cousins, a couple living in Florida, who runs a beer store over there, have two kindergarten kids who are taken care by a nanny. There is no interaction between the parents and the children for days. They don’t feel that their children need them, not the nanny. The parent kid relationship needs to be built for the very beginning. At this particular time, children need the parents most. They want love and affection. They want to know that you are there for them. None other than parents can fulfill this. “After much prodding and some crying, she told me that despite their grandmother’s presence, she felt there was a hole in her life, an indescribable void, that couldn’t be filled by my regular visits home or long-distance telephone calls or a regular and generous allowance.” (Sampang

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